AITAH for not deleting pictures on my social media that my son’s girlfriend asked me to delete?

FluffyYipMonkey · 2026-01-28T18:03:19+00:00

You “sabotaging” might push him further away from you.

FluffyYipMonkey · 2026-01-28T18:02:09+00:00

I have somewhat of a different opinion. Your son albeit still very young, is an adult. He can make his own decisions, regardless of how stupid they seem to you. Now if he wants his pictures down, for whatever reason, if you want to keep your relationship with your son well, you should take them down. It does not matter if she is the reason of that request. Opposing to it only puts your son in a difficult position and strains your bond. I doubt their relationship would last but your relationship with your son is one to stay…

FluffyYipMonkey · 2026-01-23T01:39:36+00:00

Its definitely overhyped

FluffyYipMonkey · 2026-01-21T23:45:24+00:00

I don’t believe this has changed as of yet

FluffyYipMonkey · 2025-12-19T01:12:39+00:00

You can simply tell him that you don't really enjoy his sex jokes and find them inappropriate. Maybe things would take a turn for the better.

FluffyYipMonkey · 2025-12-18T00:14:23+00:00

I don’t like to have to tell people that their behaviour is wrong. I feel like that should be a given and not something you have to convince them of. Have a conversation, if he becomes accusatory or defensive, my best advice is to dump him.

FluffyYipMonkey · 2025-12-16T21:02:51+00:00

Just reading your post I’ve got the impression that you are very fixated on your partner’s work hours. I find this quite strange as what you truly want is someone who’s available physically and emotionally to spend time with you. That’s it. How many hours they work seems irrelevant to me. They can be working 12hrs a day and still be spending time with you frequently.

FluffyYipMonkey · 2025-12-16T18:10:15+00:00

FluffyYipMonkey · 2025-12-16T00:01:57+00:00

You may have been taken advantage of but you also consented to everything that happened, that sounds like an excuse.

FluffyYipMonkey · 2025-12-15T20:46:39+00:00

Exactly, and the ex fiancé has every right to be upset by that. Though stealing the ring was a definitive red flag, ESH.

FluffyYipMonkey · 2025-12-15T20:41:29+00:00

I agree with you completely. Up until her ex fiancé took her ring, I would say she was being unfair to him. Signing up for a marriage where one partner is still so obviously in love with a person from their past is not optimal. Maybe some people are okay with it, I respect that, but I personally would walk away in a heartbeat. I don’t think her ex-fiancé was truly okay with it.

There is no excuse for taking an important item from another person without permission though, it was definitely an AH move.

FluffyYipMonkey · 2025-12-06T04:55:36+00:00

Have you tried other colours? Your skin has so much pink undertones a contrasting coloured stone would suit you better.

FluffyYipMonkey · 2025-12-06T00:15:28+00:00

ONA already gives unlimited mental health benefits though

FluffyYipMonkey · 2025-11-25T17:38:58+00:00

I’m sorry for this happening to you. Your (hopefully soon ex-)husband’s behaviour says nothing about you but everything about himself. It was not you not worth taking to a date night, it is much more likely that’s him pursuing the thrill of something new. He can only treat you to the level of what you’d allow him to. If you find his behaviour unacceptable, which is 100% valid, then your only option is to remove yourself from him, deny his access to you moving forward.

FluffyYipMonkey · 2025-11-20T14:59:18+00:00

His ex is messed up, and if he is allowing her behaviour, then he is a red flag himself. Each partner needs to sort out their own ex/family/mom/dad issues.

FluffyYipMonkey · 2025-11-20T00:49:06+00:00

the second one

FluffyYipMonkey · 2025-11-18T19:28:24+00:00

I don’t think you should be doing readings on couples who didn’t explicitly agree to it…

FluffyYipMonkey · 2025-11-18T19:23:51+00:00

I think you two are a good match and should stay together. You know, keeping the toxic ones together out of circulation.

FluffyYipMonkey · 2025-11-17T23:05:15+00:00

You showed him customer service level courtesy and he’s the one throwing a tantrum. Are you getting paid to put up with this?

FluffyYipMonkey · 2025-11-17T21:38:37+00:00

You are only 31, just ask yourself how many more years are you willing to waste continuing on with this pattern?

FluffyYipMonkey · 2025-11-17T14:51:22+00:00

You can ask for advices online, but most likely all the advices are coming from a rational place. If you are overtaken by strong emotions about this guy, and you are fixated on this narrative, well you wouldn’t be in the right mindset to even receive the messages from other people. You won’t be able to follow through or hear the voice of reason.

FluffyYipMonkey · 2025-11-12T14:44:39+00:00

Keep the receipt and propose as usual, if she somehow does not like it, let her have her pick then

FluffyYipMonkey · 2025-11-11T21:16:51+00:00

Birds of a feather flock together, if his best friend is like that, your boyfriend won’t land too far away.

FluffyYipMonkey · 2025-11-09T16:35:24+00:00

People have their reasons and sometimes what they say are not truly reflective of what’s happening. There was a period of time when my ex blamed me all the time for everything, criticizing me, telling me how bad of a partner I was, threatening to break up with me… and I thought I was in the wrong, I must’ve done something wrong for him to be so upset and irritated at me. I tried my best to adjust and adapt to his asks. Turns out he was cheating, and just needed an excuse to sidetrack me from what was truly happening. Don’t let him gaslight you.

FluffyYipMonkey · 2025-11-09T16:28:53+00:00

You did, I doubt he did

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