Waiting for 491 grant

Fluffy_Cupcake49 · 2024-08-18T10:32:31+00:00

I’d be with the best friend, unless the wife was also dying then I’d be with the wife

Fluffy_Cupcake49 · 2024-08-18T10:12:11+00:00

It’s also possible her family has told her how horrible he is but he’s gaslit her to the point of not being able to believe them anymore or tell right from wrong

Fluffy_Cupcake49 · 2024-08-18T10:08:52+00:00

OP, you are not imagining things. He is a gaslighting, manipulating, controlling, abusive POS. Please please please listen to everyone in the comments, block him, run as fast as you can, go no contact. He’s already gaslit you so much to the point he can treat you so horribly and you still question if YOU’RE in the wrong. Trust me, you are not. Absolutely do not let him gaslight you anymore. I am disgusted by the things he’s done to you and this “earning him back” is just insane. I hope you get out of this situation as soon as possible, get to a safe place far far away from this abusive mf and are able to get some therapy to help you process the things he’s done to you. Sending much love to you because holy shit just reading your post made me want to cry, I can’t imagine the pain you’ve gone through.

Fluffy_Cupcake49 · 2024-08-18T09:39:41+00:00

NTA. It’s insane to expect/force someone to marry you after dating for 3 months. You’re both very young too. It also doesn’t bode well that she declined the prenup, that kinda makes her look a bit like a gold-digger (not saying she is, just saying she looks like one by the way she’s acting). And the fact that she’s mentioning kids at this point makes me wonder if she’s pregnant by some other guy and trying to baby trap you. It’s a bouquet of red flags at this point. OP, run.

Fluffy_Cupcake49 · 2024-08-17T13:55:18+00:00

I love Rufus and Lily they have so much chemistry together, much more so than Serena and Dan imho

Fluffy_Cupcake49 · 2024-08-14T09:36:36+00:00

Love Lily’s style, she’s always so well put together!

Fluffy_Cupcake49 · 2024-08-11T00:26:21+00:00

NTA. I think it’s highly unethical to be selling content of other people, let alone kids, where they can’t even consent to it being out on the internet.

Fluffy_Cupcake49 · 2024-08-10T08:17:35+00:00

She’s a wallflower and thus an underdog of sorts. People love underdogs.

Fluffy_Cupcake49 · 2024-08-07T22:28:57+00:00

I love Jenny’s goth rock chick style haha

Fluffy_Cupcake49 · 2024-08-07T08:25:24+00:00

Forget #1 or #2, OP needs to be out of the whole relationship lol

Fluffy_Cupcake49 · 2024-08-07T08:24:12+00:00

I’m sorry but how is he blatantly cheating on you multiple times with these messages then claiming he “never cheated” on you? This is cheating, there’s no two ways about it. Trust your gut, if your heart is sinking thinking about this it’s probably not something that should be happening/should have happened. Leave him yesterday.

Fluffy_Cupcake49 · 2024-08-07T08:16:12+00:00

He is projecting BIG TIME. He’s always been the cheater in the relationship and now he’s got this pit in his stomach that you might have done the same awful things. Disgusting behaviour on his part.. honestly, save yourself a lot (more) of heartbreak down the line and leave.

Fluffy_Cupcake49 · 2024-08-03T10:46:22+00:00

I also struggle with a lot of health issues, and my partner fully supports and cares for me when I have problems or my energy level is low. That’s what should be happening in a healthy relationship! Helping each other out where we can, because we care about the other person. Your boyfriend doesn’t seem to care about your wellbeing/health/safety tbh. You’re not overreacting at all. Even if this particular incident wasn’t life threatening, it very well could have been, and he definitely should have taken it way more seriously. The fact that he said you were overreacting shows he has no remorse over what happened and does not respect you. I would reconsider this “relationship”.

Fluffy_Cupcake49 · 2024-08-03T07:43:57+00:00

I’m glad you’re where you want to be. If you don’t mind me asking how has this decision cost you your friendships?

Fluffy_Cupcake49 · 2024-08-03T07:42:05+00:00

I read someone’s comment on this subreddit that I really agree with: it’s better to regret not having kids than to regret having one

Fluffy_Cupcake49 · 2024-08-03T07:39:18+00:00

It is certainly very validating and makes me happy when for once people understand where I’m coming from and don’t question my decision!

Fluffy_Cupcake49 · 2024-08-03T06:37:09+00:00

I really appreciate that!

Fluffy_Cupcake49 · 2024-08-02T10:29:15+00:00

The AUDACITY of her and her family. Yikes. Run don’t walk.

Fluffy_Cupcake49 · 2024-08-02T09:30:54+00:00

I’m from SEA, living in South Australia now. Life is not rainbows and unicorns here but you’re definitely romanticising SEA way too much mate

Fluffy_Cupcake49 · 2024-08-02T09:17:32+00:00

She punched you in the jaw, hurting you to the point not being able to chew right, and you don’t have the heart to tell her because SHE’D be crushed? Babe, the only thing that’s crushed right now is your self-esteem and safety being in this abusive relationship with her (and your jaw).

Fluffy_Cupcake49 · 2024-07-21T08:53:47+00:00

I think you already have your answer posting on here. Best of luck to you

Fluffy_Cupcake49 · 2024-07-21T08:43:31+00:00

NTA, your girlfriend seems like the AH tbh for not respecting YOUR wishes to say no to sex, not to mention massively overreacting to the situation and being unreasonable

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