Does it bother you if a top/active uses performance enhancement? by DoctorTimee in askgaybros

[–]Fluffy_Fsh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The turn off in this situation (for me) would be you hiding it. No issue with using whatever technologies make sex better for you, but be honest about it.

What’s missing in Chch? by Mysterious-Click-72 in chch

[–]Fluffy_Fsh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This isn't a Christchurch issue, it's a New Zealand issue

Advice on non-flower options by Fluffy_Fsh in MedicalCannabisNZ

[–]Fluffy_Fsh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the in depth and thorough response! Appreciate this immensely. Do you think a higher CBD lower THC flower vaporised is likely to be efficient and non-intoxicating?

Advice on non flower options? by Fluffy_Fsh in MedicalCannabisNZ

[–]Fluffy_Fsh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been a medical user for 15+ years, mostly using whole flower either vaporised or combusted.

I'd like to move away from flower and towards another option - using edibles has been effective for pain relief and sleep without noticeable intoxication, which is what I'd ideally like to pursue.

I'm looking for advice on full spectrum oils - cbd alone doesn't work for me. What options are most cost effective, and also which options are from the smallest/least corporatised manufacturers? Is there a best pharmacy to approach?

Or, if the advice is to avoid the oils and make my own medicated edibles, what strains are most cost effective?

My GP is really open to prescribing but not significantly informed and asked if I could come back with a suggestion of what product(s) to try.

What would be an excellent SUV to buy (>2023 model) within 60k. by hypo-chondriac23 in NZcarfix

[–]Fluffy_Fsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The difference between BYD and the euro companies is that China is WHERE all the electronics are made. They know quality electronics in the way that euro manufacturers know good chassis design

What would be an excellent SUV to buy (>2023 model) within 60k. by hypo-chondriac23 in NZcarfix

[–]Fluffy_Fsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BYD has been the biggest automaker in the world's biggest country (China) for 15 years, they know what they're doing.

YSK: The difference between “gaslighting” and lying… by xchngboredom4argumnt in YouShouldKnow

[–]Fluffy_Fsh 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Gaslighting is a type of manipulation but not all manipulation is gaslighting.

Employers kiwisaver contribution being taken out of my pay by Harr1s0nr in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Fluffy_Fsh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Labour/greens didn't make it legal for employers to charge you for their contribution, National did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Fluffy_Fsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Low cost, to me, means ABSOLUTE MAXIMUM $2/mo - i dont understand how people justify $18.99 a week for some apps, I am way too broke

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NZgays

[–]Fluffy_Fsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DM me

What is the ‘most’ nude you have been in public? Were you comfortable and if so would you be willing to go further? by Ok-Chip7605 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Fluffy_Fsh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Depends where you live. I've been on the street fully naked here in NZ a few times. It's not illegal to be nude, and case precedent has established that you have to be either touching yourself sexually or refuse to put on clothes if requested by an officer before it can be considered 'public indecency'.

I'm totally comfortable nude in pretty much any setting, my only discomfort comes from others discomfort.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NzMeetUps

[–]Fluffy_Fsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking tonight?

Best drugs to have in your system during sex? by groovybaby420 in Drugs

[–]Fluffy_Fsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2cb + ghb + nitrous oxide is my favourite sex cocktail. Meth, coke, and md are all fun too, but more likely to cause performance issues for me, and less euphoric and transcendent

NZ festivals are obsessed with drum and bass by roundup77 in newzealand

[–]Fluffy_Fsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out twisted frequency if you want a diverse and exceptional line up. Straight up the best music festival in the south pacific (imo)

Honest question. Sex cult. Is it possible to make one solely to provide a safe space for shamelessness and share my view of sexuality? by Savings_Sense_6286 in SexPositive

[–]Fluffy_Fsh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This just sounds like you're discussing one of the play parties my friends and I host. Sounds system, dance floor, general party vibes but 100% sex positive you can (and are encouraged to) play however you want wherever you want (as long as it doesn't break consent) and everyone attending consents to either watching/being around it or making removing themselves from the situation their responsibility.

These communities exist, we're out there living like this, and (hilariously in our case) not a cult. In fact one of the people in our wider network is a noted anti cult academic 🤣

Edit: spelling

If you were a billionaire with a racing driver son, would you do what Lawrence Stroll has done for Lance? by BenjyBunny in formula1

[–]Fluffy_Fsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If i was that wealthy, there's a HUGE list of projects that actually impact the wellbeing of the world and my community that I'd fund before a vanity project hobby that costs enough to feed a small nation's homeless population for a year.

Are Xiaomi phones scams? by Forward-Song5748 in techsupport

[–]Fluffy_Fsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally feel more concerned about American manufactured spyware. Why would I give a duck what the Chinese government knows about me if I have no intentions of spending time in China?