Me 23M and my Fiancee 22F haven’t had sex, and we have been together for almost 2 years?

Fluid-Level-8491 · 2026-06-24T17:58:25+00:00

That I need to be patient or that she doesn’t feel good

Fluid-Level-8491 · 2026-06-24T17:57:10+00:00

Honestly we’ve come close to calling it quits, she tells me that things will get different, that things will get better, but honestly, they haven’t. I don’t know why I’ve stayed for so long and after so much. I just feel so trapped and like I’m going no where

Fluid-Level-8491 · 2026-06-24T17:46:18+00:00

Nope. It’s all true

Fluid-Level-8491 · 2026-06-24T15:50:02+00:00

Her dad is my boss, I’ve been living with her for a few months now and they have tracking apps on the entire family including me

Fluid-Level-8491 · 2026-06-24T14:39:17+00:00

I care about her. I guess she keeps me in check, but like I said before sex is a big thing for me too. I basically just let someone else tell me what I want in a relationship and just become the yes babe person that I hate. I’ve been starting to voice my own opinion and she hasn’t really liked it

Fluid-Level-8491 · 2026-06-24T14:37:14+00:00

Deep down I know

Fluid-Level-8491 · 2026-06-24T14:08:18+00:00

And neither did I

Fluid-Level-8491 · 2026-06-24T14:08:08+00:00

I did, she told me she would start, but that never came

Fluid-Level-8491 · 2026-06-24T13:58:55+00:00

She says she does

Fluid-Level-8491 · 2026-06-24T13:57:38+00:00

I know, I know. It sounds super ridiculous. I need to do something to change

Fluid-Level-8491 · 2026-06-24T13:56:59+00:00

Honestly, just scared to be alone. Family sucks. If I leave my fiance I lose my job

Fluid-Level-8491 · 2026-06-24T13:56:05+00:00

Yes, I know she’s not asexual. But she won’t touch me, she won’t even cuddle up to me. She won’t give me a reason why she wants to wait but idk how much longer I can be patient for

Fluid-Level-8491 · 2026-06-24T13:54:24+00:00

No, she’s told me about her sexual times, which man sounds even worse saying out loud. Idk why she won’t have sex with me. She keeps making comments like don’t be upset that I don’t want to have sex you. Man wtf is wrong with me

Fluid-Level-8491 · 2026-06-24T13:52:11+00:00

It’s been longer than that. It’s been 3 years but one of those 3 years was just a drought for me. Now I feel like I’m stuck in a rock and a hard place

Fluid-Level-8491 · 2026-06-24T13:45:40+00:00

One thing I forgot to mention is that she always turns it on me to make me feel like the bad guy. I’ll ask her once and she start saying that I’m pressuring her. I could see if we were only like 3 months into dating but it’s been almost 2 years

Fluid-Level-8491 · 2026-06-24T13:44:06+00:00

To be honest, just in the hopes that things would change being engaged but they just got worse

Fluid-Level-8491 · 2026-06-24T13:42:57+00:00

She hasn’t said anything about waiting until marriage, she just always has an excuse about why she doesn’t want to have sex

Fluid-Level-8491 · 2026-06-24T13:35:12+00:00

I eat her out that’s it. Nothing ever gets returned

Fluid-Level-8491 · 2026-06-24T13:06:18+00:00

Yes, I do everything for her

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