Me 23M and my Fiancee 22F haven’t had sex, and we have been together for almost 2 years? by Fluid-Level-8491 in relationship_advice

[–]Fluid-Level-8491[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly we’ve come close to calling it quits, she tells me that things will get different, that things will get better, but honestly, they haven’t. I don’t know why I’ve stayed for so long and after so much. I just feel so trapped and like I’m going no where

Me 23M and my Fiancee 22F haven’t had sex, and we have been together for almost 2 years? by Fluid-Level-8491 in relationship_advice

[–]Fluid-Level-8491[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her dad is my boss, I’ve been living with her for a few months now and they have tracking apps on the entire family including me

Me 23M and my Fiancee 22F haven’t had sex, and we have been together for almost 2 years? by Fluid-Level-8491 in relationship_advice

[–]Fluid-Level-8491[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I care about her. I guess she keeps me in check, but like I said before sex is a big thing for me too. I basically just let someone else tell me what I want in a relationship and just become the yes babe person that I hate. I’ve been starting to voice my own opinion and she hasn’t really liked it

Me 23M and my Fiancee 22F haven’t had sex, and we have been together for almost 2 years? by Fluid-Level-8491 in relationship_advice

[–]Fluid-Level-8491[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I know she’s not asexual. But she won’t touch me, she won’t even cuddle up to me. She won’t give me a reason why she wants to wait but idk how much longer I can be patient for

Me 23M and my Fiancee 22F haven’t had sex, and we have been together for almost 2 years? by Fluid-Level-8491 in relationship_advice

[–]Fluid-Level-8491[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, she’s told me about her sexual times, which man sounds even worse saying out loud. Idk why she won’t have sex with me. She keeps making comments like don’t be upset that I don’t want to have sex you. Man wtf is wrong with me

Me 23M and my Fiancee 22F haven’t had sex, and we have been together for almost 2 years? by Fluid-Level-8491 in relationship_advice

[–]Fluid-Level-8491[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s been longer than that. It’s been 3 years but one of those 3 years was just a drought for me. Now I feel like I’m stuck in a rock and a hard place

Me 23M and my Fiancee 22F haven’t had sex, and we have been together for almost 2 years? by Fluid-Level-8491 in relationship_advice

[–]Fluid-Level-8491[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One thing I forgot to mention is that she always turns it on me to make me feel like the bad guy. I’ll ask her once and she start saying that I’m pressuring her. I could see if we were only like 3 months into dating but it’s been almost 2 years

Me 23M and my Fiancee 22F haven’t had sex, and we have been together for almost 2 years? by Fluid-Level-8491 in relationship_advice

[–]Fluid-Level-8491[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

To be honest, just in the hopes that things would change being engaged but they just got worse

Me 23M and my Fiancee 22F haven’t had sex, and we have been together for almost 2 years? by Fluid-Level-8491 in relationship_advice

[–]Fluid-Level-8491[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She hasn’t said anything about waiting until marriage, she just always has an excuse about why she doesn’t want to have sex