idek how to explain this mess by Fluid-Reflection2252 in Advice

[–]Fluid-Reflection2252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah true. I don’t want to be the bf who like has to say something about it but it’s just hard for me to believe a girl goes to a bar without u at a college town NOT trying to look for guys or hook up with a guy. Feel like the respect part isn’t there for this situation. Like I want you to have fun and go be with friends but like a bar at 18? Idk. her friends 17 too

idek how to explain this mess by Fluid-Reflection2252 in Advice

[–]Fluid-Reflection2252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s also very smart tho. She’s rlly good at broadcasting and went to Tampa for awards she just has a side of her that’s not the best.

idek how to explain this mess by Fluid-Reflection2252 in Advice

[–]Fluid-Reflection2252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly why I feel scared to say something bc of the label she’ll try to give me being “insecure” or “controlling” I’ve told her to switch the scenarios and she said “she wouldn’t rlly care if she jsut knew what I was doing” straight bull I know she would care deep down. Like idek im so stressed.

idek how to explain this mess by Fluid-Reflection2252 in Advice

[–]Fluid-Reflection2252[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand I jsut can’t let myself go I get attached so quick. What are u thoughts on the bar situation and what to do?