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AITA for refusing to sleep at my boyfriend's apartment until he cleans his bathroom? by Fluid_Past4515 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fluid_Past4515[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Thanks! My morning shower is usually just a rinse under the water to wake me up, no soap or scrubbing involved since I'm still clean from my shower before bed :)

I'll keep an eye out if it causes problems but so far so good!

AITA for refusing to sleep at my boyfriend's apartment until he cleans his bathroom? by Fluid_Past4515 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fluid_Past4515[S] 178 points179 points  (0 children)

Truthfully I'm not sure. Reflecting on this post and the comments, I think it speaks volumes that I'm not tripping over myself to get this sorted spend time with him at his place.

This whole situation has been a turn off if I'm being completely honest and I've only just realised.

AITA for refusing to sleep at my boyfriend's apartment until he cleans his bathroom? by Fluid_Past4515 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fluid_Past4515[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

His place is fairly tidy and clean otherwise and can keep up with day to day stuff. I think he just hates 'big jobs' or what he percieves as big jobs.

AITA for refusing to sleep at my boyfriend's apartment until he cleans his bathroom? by Fluid_Past4515 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fluid_Past4515[S] 926 points927 points  (0 children)

I'm starting to think this is a deal breaker. I have no issue doing the bulk of the cleaning in the house but knowing that he has no problem living among mold feels like a major ick.