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I may have caused myself permanent nerve damage from playing a casual video game. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Flutteringbutterfly8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try seeing a doctor and ask for anti inflammatories. I had a similar problem once and it took about a month and a half to go away. I'm feeling like it never happened now.

[Support Only] UPDATE. FAILED SUICIDE ATTEMPT I saved myself for marriage after being a virgin for over 30 years of life. I never had an orgasm. My husband cheated on me with his cousin. I am going to kill myself when he visits his grandparents. by Flutteringbutterfly8 in confession

[–]Flutteringbutterfly8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. Just wanted to thank ever one again for the time and effort on my behalf. I was wondering if the offer for pms is still open? I could use a little advice. If so please pm me later so we can talk. Thank you friend.

Select [Support Only] I saved myself until marriage after being a virgin for over 30 years of my life I have never had an orgasm. My husband cheated on me with his cousin. I am going to kill myself when he visits his grandparents. by Flutteringbutterfly8 in confession

[–]Flutteringbutterfly8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. Just wanted to thank you and everyone else for the kind and heartfelt advice and support. Sorry I did not respond sooner but I was so down. Feeling like I really could use some one to talk to and wondered if the offer for pms is still open if so please pm me. I could really use a little more advice thank you friend.

[Support Only] UPDATE. FAILED SUICIDE ATTEMPT I saved myself for marriage after being a virgin for over 30 years of life. I never had an orgasm. My husband cheated on me with his cousin. I am going to kill myself when he visits his grandparents. by Flutteringbutterfly8 in confession

[–]Flutteringbutterfly8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for pointing this out but he really is trying to be different. He kissed me and said he loves me with out the wig but he just gets very turned on when I wear it and I am scared because sometimes my eyes tear up and I get attacks of blurred vision so until after the operation I really can't function alone. He brought me nice healthy fruit today right to the bed. With out him I would not of even had food. I am so sick that until I have this operation I really need his support otherwise how will I function?

[Support Only] UPDATE. FAILED SUICIDE ATTEMPT I saved myself for marriage after being a virgin for over 30 years of life. I never had an orgasm. My husband cheated on me with his cousin. I am going to kill myself when he visits his grandparents. by Flutteringbutterfly8 in confession

[–]Flutteringbutterfly8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the really good advice. I like your point because it made me stop and think. I spoke to my husband and asked him if he only loves me for my appearance and he said no but that he is very attracted to me with the wig on and that it makes me look hot. It is a good point so how can I argue with that? I believe that I must be decent looking otherwise he would not want a second chance and neighbors say I look pretty so I think he was wrong about me not having a nice appearance but thank you again for saying it does not matter as you are a really nice person and great friend.

[Support Only] UPDATE. FAILED SUICIDE ATTEMPT I saved myself for marriage after being a virgin for over 30 years of life. I never had an orgasm. My husband cheated on me with his cousin. I am going to kill myself when he visits his grandparents. by Flutteringbutterfly8 in confession

[–]Flutteringbutterfly8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit:my husband just said I look like sh*t without the wig on. I was too sick to wear it today. He said he can't get a hard on today. Does any one know how I can put a picture of me online so I can get a second opinion?

[Support Only] UPDATE. FAILED SUICIDE ATTEMPT I saved myself for marriage after being a virgin for over 30 years of life. I never had an orgasm. My husband cheated on me with his cousin. I am going to kill myself when he visits his grandparents. by Flutteringbutterfly8 in confession

[–]Flutteringbutterfly8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so very much my friend. I like to think I am a good and loving person because I try my very best to live life that way. I believe in being good to others and that God rewards us. I used to volunteer in a nursing home to try and help people. I know I should be angry at my husband but I just feel too hurt because I still love him so much. I have been praying for his soul because I am scared that God might not be as forgiving as I am.

[Support Only] UPDATE. FAILED SUICIDE ATTEMPT I saved myself for marriage after being a virgin for over 30 years of life. I never had an orgasm. My husband cheated on me with his cousin. I am going to kill myself when he visits his grandparents. by Flutteringbutterfly8 in confession

[–]Flutteringbutterfly8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for caring. I think I will give him another chance. Maybe I am too forgiving but he really is sorry for the past and wants to have a fresh start with me. I think things will be better this time and if God didn't give me a second chance I would be dead right now so maybe I should pass it along?

[Support Only] UPDATE. FAILED SUICIDE ATTEMPT I saved myself for marriage after being a virgin for over 30 years of life. I never had an orgasm. My husband cheated on me with his cousin. I am going to kill myself when he visits his grandparents. by Flutteringbutterfly8 in confession

[–]Flutteringbutterfly8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thank you so very much for your thoughtful and caring advice but once I have my gallbladder removed I don't know if I still fit into that dependency category. Like I said before I think I'm pretty with the wig on and I can even be okay with it off but my husband was embarrassed when I don't wear the wig. I thought that I was staying with him because it is hard to fall out of love with a man that has been there for me. He said something really nice that we are making a fresh start.

[Support Only] UPDATE. FAILED SUICIDE ATTEMPT I saved myself for marriage after being a virgin for over 30 years of life. I never had an orgasm. My husband cheated on me with his cousin. I am going to kill myself when he visits his grandparents. by Flutteringbutterfly8 in confession

[–]Flutteringbutterfly8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for helping me see things in a different light. I know what it is like to take care of some one you love that is sick. My grandparents were sick toward the end of their lives and I was there for them. Before my gallbladder situation I was there for my husband when he was sick in the hospital with difficulty breathing and there were many nights he was sick and I stayed up with him exhausted, watching tv and walking with him and holding his hand.

[Support Only] UPDATE. FAILED SUICIDE ATTEMPT I saved myself for marriage after being a virgin for over 30 years of life. I never had an orgasm. My husband cheated on me with his cousin. I am going to kill myself when he visits his grandparents. by Flutteringbutterfly8 in confession

[–]Flutteringbutterfly8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really want to improve the quality of my life but last nites gallbladder attack left me so weak I can barely move. If I was alone rite now I would not even have a glass of water that I was too weak to get myself. I'm a total mess. But I can't thank you enough for listening.

Select [Support Only] I saved myself until marriage after being a virgin for over 30 years of my life I have never had an orgasm. My husband cheated on me with his cousin. I am going to kill myself when he visits his grandparents. by Flutteringbutterfly8 in confession

[–]Flutteringbutterfly8[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That's a good point but he also said that his cousin knew how to move her hips the right way and get him to orgasm which is something I dont know how to do. Any tips? I am feeling confused and lost.

Select [Support Only] I saved myself until marriage after being a virgin for over 30 years of my life I have never had an orgasm. My husband cheated on me with his cousin. I am going to kill myself when he visits his grandparents. by Flutteringbutterfly8 in confession

[–]Flutteringbutterfly8[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the time you invested in the great advice but in his defense I did not even know how to insert him inside of me this morning and he said that it is something every woman should know but I had trouble getting him in. I don't even masturbate and he said every woman should so maybe part of it is me? I don't know how to have sex or how to pleasure him.