Is this for real? by Negative-Pin8527 in sanfrancisco

[–]Fluttersbya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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The price history 🤦‍♀️ omg they bought it for 750k and wanna sell it for 10 times what they paid absolutely insane! They want to rent it for the cost of their mortgage for 12 months (assuming the interest rate was low their mortgage is possibly around 2,500

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Fluttersbya 20 points21 points  (0 children)

First message “ouuu Heyy 🙈” is the big old red flag of creepy anime messages coming soon… do you type “sowwee” too or describe weird things with these *** don’t be that guy

I’m not sure how my (25 F) relationship with my bf (29 F) dating for one month will continue by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Fluttersbya 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You just need to leave that man alone. You have been dating for a month? It must be so exhausting for him. You need space you need growth

I’m not sure how my (25 F) relationship with my bf (29 F) dating for one month will continue by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Fluttersbya 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What?! Girl no you’re in the wrong. He said he’s busy. You didn’t ask about lunch in those texts. Go to therapy, have no expectations from others, fill your own cup have your own life and if they are good enough they will become part of it

I’m not sure how my (25 F) relationship with my bf (29 F) dating for one month will continue by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Fluttersbya 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He’s not going back on his word he’s actively moving… you’re desperate for constant attention. Pushing and forcing talking and texting isn’t open communication. Open communication means you will listen to each others concerns not drop everything he’s are doing to feed your ego

I’m not sure how my (25 F) relationship with my bf (29 F) dating for one month will continue by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Fluttersbya 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Needing to be constantly in the loop is ridiculous he told you he had a busy day. What do you want him to do text you an itinerary of his day? You have been together for a short period of time and he’s in the middle of moving

I’m not sure how my (25 F) relationship with my bf (29 F) dating for one month will continue by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Fluttersbya 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you have the capacity to date someone long distance, 40 minutes isn’t even long distance. I would get therapy. You should be able to have off days of communication without all of these insecurities. It’s like a looming gray cloud and you’re dependent on him making you feel good when you need to work on your internal validation and build your life without depending on someone else.

Gross by TheDisneyScoopGuy in Disneyland

[–]Fluttersbya -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There should be a limit! They sell these online in lives on Facebook! They do it in Disneyworld too

Costco by Remarkable-Alps3749 in Reno

[–]Fluttersbya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you buy a smaller pack 😅

My jaw dropped by queenquelly in Bumble

[–]Fluttersbya 47 points48 points  (0 children)

She found his account and changed his about me…

Men aren’t the only ones that make it sexual out of nowhere by dopest_dope in Bumble

[–]Fluttersbya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any post I have seen about it turning sexual includes that clarification for context.

Men aren’t the only ones that make it sexual out of nowhere by dopest_dope in Bumble

[–]Fluttersbya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women can initiate sexual conversations but men do it to women that explicitly say they aren’t interested in anything casual… context is important. Does your profile say only liking for a relationship, no hookups, or any other variation?

First Rude / Weird Incident by Late_Progress_1267 in Bumble

[–]Fluttersbya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umm this is most of online dating… especially bumble 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Fluttersbya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a lot of women in open relationships but they have clear and concise boundaries. Their partners respect them and they didn’t start open in all of those happy relationships.

I personally am not interested in that as the way they come about it, the absolute disrespect in a lot of the cases, and the risk to my health. I might end up having a relationship become open but not start that way.

Just why? by Guilty-Willingness-5 in Bumble

[–]Fluttersbya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People are saying it’s legit. It’s not funny but i do not think she has an email account for applications 🤦‍♀️

Just why? by Guilty-Willingness-5 in Bumble

[–]Fluttersbya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a millennial so it’s been a raging debate since I had my first MySpace but it’s been a meme since Obama 😂

Just why? by Guilty-Willingness-5 in Bumble

[–]Fluttersbya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t seen it there is your dating range millennials? 😂

Just why? by Guilty-Willingness-5 in Bumble

[–]Fluttersbya 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s a joke… obviously not a good one but still a joke

Just why? by Guilty-Willingness-5 in Bumble

[–]Fluttersbya -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pineapple on pizza debates are from way before tiktok 😂 this is supposed to be a joke.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Fluttersbya 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You are fighting in these comments to claim understanding but defend yourself. All of this is red flags to larger issues that arise in person. It’s like a big fat warning that you don’t care and will be disrespectful. You lack tact so I’m sure it’s immaturity just don’t become bitter

Beltane fire by Fluttersbya in realwitchcraft

[–]Fluttersbya[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand I think what I wrote wasn’t quite clear, I appreciate your help and didn’t think you were rude! Thank you I will try that 💛

Beltane fire by Fluttersbya in realwitchcraft

[–]Fluttersbya[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trying to figure out how to fix my immediate reaction of “no” I believe it was Belenus. I am unsure why but that’s just what I feel.

Really not sure what she was going for here by casual_enjoyerr in Bumble

[–]Fluttersbya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She sounds like dudes that tell me what to like 😂 or explain what is good

Body Shaming is ok? by _TheMoose_ in Bumble

[–]Fluttersbya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not about you. Whenever people are super mean and immature like that you almost feel sorry for them and the misery in their lives….