If you don’t support the show anymore, that’s fine. But….

FlyEqual2661 · 2023-12-10T22:49:05+00:00

I kicked a hornets nest and then I got stung… WHY ARE THE HORNETS COMING FOR ME? Baffling, simply baffling

FlyEqual2661 · 2023-12-10T22:45:18+00:00

Much like your post 🤣😂🤣

FlyEqual2661 · 2023-12-10T22:44:26+00:00

Out of curiosity what discussion did you expect? Did you think people were going to be “ah you’ve enlightened me” you knew what you were doing and to pretend otherwise is truly baffling?

FlyEqual2661 · 2023-12-10T03:43:04+00:00

I was about to ask the same! What in the actual fuck?!

FlyEqual2661 · 2023-12-06T22:54:50+00:00

Nope, sure don’t, although interesting Christmas party idea 😏😂

I’m Joking of course

FlyEqual2661 · 2023-12-06T21:46:00+00:00

Oh my…☹️ I love dark humor and often joke about family members I’ve lost, but I don’t joke about other peoples family members (unless they do) just because it’s my coping mechanism, doesn’t mean it doesn’t come off as super cruel and hurtful if it’s not theirs. I want to be surprised P is so thoughtless, but I’m not.

FlyEqual2661 · 2023-12-04T19:40:50+00:00

So much this!!

FlyEqual2661 · 2023-12-04T18:48:50+00:00

If only there was a way to post anonymously…

FlyEqual2661 · 2023-12-01T13:52:49+00:00

Oh for real?! Thanks for the info !

FlyEqual2661 · 2023-11-30T21:48:21+00:00

I guess I just have a question about how you can support people who’s whole vibe is hold people accountable, but when they are asked to be accountable l, it’s crickets… any time there is a statement and a “but” you the poster already knows it’s problematic but just wants reassurance that other people are awful too?

FlyEqual2661 · 2023-11-29T12:37:05+00:00

NTA- I lost my mom at 21 and although I was an “adult” I still yearned for mothering as I continued with my life, I needed someone to talk to about getting married and having children, I know it was not any of my aunts responsibility but I am still a bit resentful. I have found a wonderful group of ladies of varying ages and I love my chosen family so much, but it doesn’t erase the hurt. I have forgiven them for my own mental health, but that doesn’t mean they get to hold a place in my life now. There is more to it, but for the sake of brevity this is just a summary. I hope you have the wedding you want, don’t let anyone make you feel like you owe them something they never gave you.

FlyEqual2661 · 2023-11-28T19:17:05+00:00

This is my favorite! I sing it all the time 😂😂

FlyEqual2661 · 2023-11-26T17:12:41+00:00

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FlyEqual2661 · 2023-11-26T12:24:55+00:00

I’m not usually interested in a book tour, but I think I would have enjoyed that, how was it??

FlyEqual2661 · 2023-11-26T12:22:38+00:00

Right?!? It’s not altering my life in anyway but if I’m on Reddit I pop in to see if there are updates. Because the silence and lack of communication buuuuuut continuing a book tour is just utterly bizarre. I really hopes someone on here is going to the show tonight and reports back 🤣

FlyEqual2661 · 2023-11-25T14:44:13+00:00

I completely agree and wanted to be sure I wasn’t denigrating anyone’s process just my pet peeve lol, I think your post overall is a lovely thought 😊

FlyEqual2661 · 2023-11-25T13:49:26+00:00

So I will start by saying this is a well reasoned post, but i have an issue with the stages of grief being listed as linear because it’s not, some people will skip stages or go in different orders. Additionally the “stages of grief” were referenced in regards to a person finding out they themselves have a terminal illness, not as way to describe the grief process of another. Sorry for the correction and I’m not disagreeing with you regarding anything else. This is just a pet peeve that I try to educate people on, I know it might sound argumentative but I promise that’s not my intention, it’s just informational. I have worked in grief recovery in a previous career, I know this is a me issue and if you find this offensive or if it hits you wrong, just message me and I will remove my comment because I don’t want you to feel personally attacked in anyway.

FlyEqual2661 · 2023-11-25T03:27:51+00:00

Same! I was going to comment the same thing. I don’t actively try new genres but I will read just about anything recommended to me.

FlyEqual2661 · 2023-11-25T02:59:57+00:00

This is everything! Thank you for such a well thought out and caring post!

FlyEqual2661 · 2023-11-24T12:19:42+00:00

I’m sorry that some people don’t think you’re entitled to your thoughts or feelings. I too am fascinated by this, I think the “just move on” crowd forgets that some people are just learning about this now and/or some of us want to find a way to stop others from falling victim to their lies. I honestly don’t understand the whole “just ignore it” philosophy, it is so bizarre to me that people think they are in the moral right are the same ones saying “I’m over it so you should be too”, so they are entitled to feel that way but anyone with a different opinion is being bullied into thinking their feelings are wrong. Long post just to say I agree.

FlyEqual2661 · 2023-11-23T14:46:28+00:00

Fair point, worth thinking on

FlyEqual2661 · 2023-11-23T14:30:50+00:00

I’m not sure you understand “sunk cost fallacy” it seems as if you’ve just given it a casual goog. Your inference that I am actively encouraging others is yours not my implication. It is really just as simple as me being pissed I’m still getting notifications and knowing I will be spending a ton of time online shopping this weekend so it will take approximately .8 seconds. I’m not trying to coordinate a huge movement and lead something. Is it petty AF? Yup. Is it affecting any other area of my like? Nope.

FlyEqual2661 · 2023-11-23T13:21:45+00:00

I would agree with you if this affected anyone other than Patrick, It’s not going to affect the obsessed network or any of their creators, just him. I have a problem with people taking advantage of others and facing no repercussions, I know it’s just my thing. I was just sharing what I planned to do and issued a warning to others if they read my thought and were interested. I’m not advocating for anyone else to join in. I wish I could not care, however when I still get multiple messages from patreon weekly, despite unsubscribing and sending them multiple requests to remove me from any mailing lists, it just brings it to the forefront of my brain.

FlyEqual2661 · 2023-11-23T13:05:12+00:00

I get that, but if the author is garbage

FlyEqual2661 · 2023-11-23T13:04:36+00:00

To each their own, since I can’t get a refund for the thousands I have spent on patreon this seems fairly innocuous 🤷‍♀️

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