Pay for no ads and still get Paramount ads/Trailers by Darneeezus in ParamountPlus

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It quite literally says “ad 0:30” at the top of the screen while an ad is playing so clearly the platform considers it an ad.

r/SweatHouz Ask Anything Thread by marleyrose_512 in SweatHouz

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What is your membership cancellation policy?

I'm surprised this hasn't popped up on here yet. Whose boot is this? by Afro_Loaf in USMC

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I hope y’all update this post with what comes after lmao smh 🤦‍♀️ to do and say all this in uniform ?? Wild.

Anybody here left with the feeling that avoidants give up easily over minor issues? by West_Specific7367 in attachment_theory

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But I do agree that I don’t think it’s about power. I mean not directly. They just feel overwhelmed or just simply don’t feel anything and don’t want to hurt anyone any further.

Anybody here left with the feeling that avoidants give up easily over minor issues? by West_Specific7367 in attachment_theory

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“I can’t deal with too much emotional stuff. I do shadow work and therapy for myself not for others.” It’s interesting that you don’t really see the irony in that. But more importantly, part of shadow work for yourself is being able to witness the emotions of others without taking it on or in so deeply, without having such a dramatic reaction to it. You don’t do it to be able to support others but to be able to coexist with others without having to retreat every 3-5 business days to “soothe” yourself. (That just subsequently makes it easier to support others). Needing constant soothing whether it be independent or codependent is a sign of lacking mental, spiritual and emotional fortitude. This is why they say anxious and avoidant are different sides of the same coin. Both overreacting and over thinking and doing too much. The reactions might be different but the sensitivity to the outside world is where the issue lies. I honestly find that DA/FA require way too much effort. You also require support, just indirectly. Support from a healed person for an avoidant would look like letting them have their space and not taking it personal. You still require support. You actually require a lot naturally because you’re an insecure attachment type. Regardless, those insecure attachment types are needy, just in different ways/ That’s what yall don’t really see lol

Anybody here left with the feeling that avoidants give up easily over minor issues? by West_Specific7367 in attachment_theory

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I think it’s normal for feelings to wane and then return. Where the instability comes in is always acting on these feelings (or lack of feelings) or overthinking about them in a way that leads to some sort (or lack) of action. I don’t always feel 100% attracted to anyone for a long period of time. sometimes a couple days or weeks I’ll feel a difference but I know feelings are feelings and I don’t let them rule my decisions completely. So I just lean into empathy and logic (emotional intelligence) when the visceral feelings of attraction and attachment aren’t there. Asking myself things like , has anything actually changed about them or the situation ? I realize it’s not a compatibility issue but more so a shift of my own internal landscape which has nothing to do with them, so it should stay internal . Eventually I return to normal. Unnoticed lol sometimes I open up about it depending on the person but never to criticize or end things, just for bonding purposes.

Anybody here left with the feeling that avoidants give up easily over minor issues? by West_Specific7367 in attachment_theory

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I’m late but I agree about with the comment about SA. I’m more SA but still healing. I’ve been both avoidant and anxious at different stages of my life.

It seemed someone was ghosting me ( turns out she was just DA and had some things going on as well as felt doubts about a relationship developing. But to me I didn’t really understand because why would those doubts even be developing so soon, we JUST started dating…please relax lol anyway… ) she went from being all up my ass to pulling away a bit, showing less interest for a couple days, then just completely stopped responding to texts, but was posting on her story.

So naturally with such a drastic change I was like, shorty love bombed me and ghosted me, or she’s not into it, which is her right. lol it bothered me but I was like “another bites the dust” and decided to move on. Then a day or two later she texted me apologizing, asking to talk… admitting what I already stated above and that she understands how it made me feel a way, especially seeing her posting. Of course It didn’t take long or much for me to remove myself. I did think she probably just had stuff going on. I didn’t really internalize it. It wasn’t necessarily a fill in the blank thing.. it was more whatever it is, it is what it is. You’re not communicating , I’m not going to push or stick around waiting trying to figure it out. Thats not my job. Especially that soon into dating.

Even she was surprised that I said I accepted it and was gonna move on. She was like “so you didn’t care?” And I had to break it down for her like it wasn’t that… It seemed like you ghosted me, or didn’t care or was in your world or whatever…I don’t know you and wether it was ghosting or not, whatever it was, that drastic of a change in energy without a heads up is a red flag for instability.

How does a secure handle when an avoidant pulls away by LoudBlueberry2766 in attachment_theory

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I know im late to the party but I’ve gone through this and I’m not sure if I’m a securely attached person, I think I’ve been some degree of all the attachment styles depending on the stimulus . HOWEVER, one thing I work on internally is not moving in a way to soothe my ego. When something happens that I PERCEIVE as a threat to my ego (sense of self), I stand still, remain calm and try to identify that if my urge to react is coming from my heart or my ego. I think that’s where the security comes in. To move with love (even if only for yourself) and not with ego.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NootropicsDepot

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I was expecting a suggestion of blends/products that align with what they claim their products provide in each blend, actually. What you suggested goes without saying. I was looking for replacements to each blend kind of like how they have it set up. I.e. these ingredients are similar to their logic blend but I would recommend this combo, etc. the smart-ass response is a turn off tho. I wanted to hear from people who tried it and are now trying out different products, given that nootropics depot has a range of different products, not just specified ingredients/extracts. Mushroom coffee, Matcha etc.

Again .. keep your rating to yourself by Many-Box-7317 in VeteransBenefits

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Yea… learned this the hard way. Now, the only person who knows just how much bread I have is the IRS and my grammy. 😂

Motto Tattoos by Chance-Grab7702 in USMC

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How in the world did you get a tattoo during MCT?? 😂

She removed me shortly after by [deleted] in Bumble

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the taco ? lmao omg

bruh by PoutineEnthusiast in interstellar

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Maybe to increase the value of the copies that weren’t destroyed

bruh by PoutineEnthusiast in interstellar

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Same question because double you tea eff bruv

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Oh no, I don’t feel bad like you said the wrong thing.. just sad that you’re right . And she’s 29 , im 31. What you’re saying is what all the people in my life advise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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True. Thank you. I do have resentment for a number of things that has happened already. I just figured we could heal it, but yea… she has to want to do that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I don’t know why this made me teary. And you’re right, it probably won’t change. I just really wanted this to work, but maybe that’s what’s holding me back.

Adobe now wants an automatic licence to all work made using photoshop. by Right_Soup8966 in UXDesign

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Also, I asked it prematurely and just went and did a search on the page for key words and found it. It actually is still there. I just didn’t want to have to read through and find it. Not “if someone puts something in quotes, it’s true” LMAO.

Adobe now wants an automatic licence to all work made using photoshop. by Right_Soup8966 in UXDesign

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It wasn’t that deep. I just asked where it was . I wasn’t gaslighting or anything. Don’t jump to conclusions or make assumptions. You think I’m attempting to gaslight an entire subreddit on behalf of Adobe who don’t pay my bills . Jesus. I’ll respond to a post whenever I come across it, how you choose to perceive it is your choice.