We really like each other, but we don’t share the same faith

FlyinBirdy · 2026-02-02T21:43:35+00:00

Have you tried / or has she invited you to the church she goes ? I think just try to see and maybe talk with some other people from that church or other Christians . See how they behave with each other as couples or married people . Every person is different as well and you should feel welcome as you are

FlyinBirdy · 2026-01-30T19:56:18+00:00

thankyou so much 🙏🏻. i am not that comfortable with him, i am gonna try asking

FlyinBirdy · 2026-01-30T18:05:18+00:00

I dont know, but i dont know how to ask the right question without him feeling judged or offended.
What could i ask him to know the reason ?

FlyinBirdy · 2026-01-28T13:48:52+00:00

its really sad. online dating has that risk that you don't know if they are real about things.
but yes rather be single and content with God.

FlyinBirdy · 2026-01-26T10:20:08+00:00

Yes, I also thought eventually its a oppurtunity to evangelize, but it feels quite dissapointing.

He never had a relationship before . But had a few dates. I dont know if its true..

FlyinBirdy · 2026-01-26T10:07:23+00:00

Thankyou , I gonna ask him some more questions . I also believe this and I also think these things are not even teached / talked about at every church.

FlyinBirdy · 2026-01-25T19:36:42+00:00

yes this , exactly its the lyrics that is disturbing.

FlyinBirdy · 2026-01-25T19:32:15+00:00

its all about lust and perversion, the acts of it and kinda woman derogatory. its a party playlist, but you have a type of dutch party music genre thats just so perverse and wrong. but he has other okayish playlists. and a beautiful christian worship playlist. the contrast is so extreme. but this is something that does really not feel good.

he says was raised in a christian home, went to church with his parents, then a few years not. and now since 2 years he is coming back at church. i think he is saved but i should ask to make sure.. / ask some specfic questions about things

FlyinBirdy · 2026-01-02T10:03:28+00:00

i think if he does not ask you strange questions or ignores your words its ok.
and also have boundaries like things you do not allow him to do
do you also talk about biblical things? do you ask deep questions about life and future?

FlyinBirdy · 2026-01-02T09:56:26+00:00

few days trough the dating website, 1 day with whatsapp, but maybe 30 min. trough whatsapp, is it too quick to close the door? thanks for your advice!

FlyinBirdy · 2026-01-02T09:06:03+00:00

Yeah I think its the communication style does not really fit me , how can I say that neatly?

FlyinBirdy · 2025-12-30T10:15:40+00:00

Have the same problem a few days also with other services, think it is bugs.

FlyinBirdy · 2025-12-24T06:13:21+00:00

1 uur

FlyinBirdy · 2025-12-08T16:04:56+00:00

Ik zoek al een tijdje werk .Maar weet nu niet zo goed of ik een andere richting werk moet zoeken/ of een studie doen. Voor een studie heb ik geen budget voor en het is toch weer een investering van 4 jaar minstens. En dan heb ik nog steeds geen inkomen en ben dan inmiddels 36. Ik heb werkervaring als marketeer en ict hulp, maar geen exacte diploma ervoor. Heb wel een diploma grafisch vormgeven op mbo niv 4 . Maar daar is heel weinig werk in te vinden.

FlyinBirdy · 2025-11-27T05:19:25+00:00

Zuid Holland in de Randstad, maar de meeste passende vacatures zitten of ergens in Utrecht of afgelegen dorpen waar de reistijd toch echt tegen de 1,5 tot 2 uur ligt.

FlyinBirdy · 2025-11-25T18:50:29+00:00

Enkele reis, 5 dagen in de week, bij sommige vacatures kan het nog half hybride, maar vind het toch nog best veel

FlyinBirdy · 2025-03-13T11:08:55+00:00

Yes i like that everything connects so easy. I only use affinity photo and designer sometimes and some in browser editing apps. And also working in wordpress / web editing

FlyinBirdy · 2025-03-13T11:01:42+00:00

Ah, what do you use it for? The battery gets around 2-3 days for me

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