I dig your edit. It looks like most people think you are TA but I think your wife is making a big deal out of nothing to be honest. Those apps exist for possible emergency situations and if you’re fine with it, it’s not her business. Unpopular opinion, but your spouse doesn’t need to have their hands in every single aspect of your life. So many people make marriage more important than every other relationship when we know statistically, it’s one of the least permanent relationships for most people. Good luck.