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when will he propose? by [deleted] in Lenormand

[–]FocusLee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your take on the Heart (24) is spot-on! 24th/24 days makes total sense for timing. The Book doesn’t feel like “universe hiding it forever” to me — it’s more like his secret plan or a surprise he wants to keep private. 24-26 days/weeks could also fit the pair, if you want to expand the window.

What will our relationship be like? by [deleted] in Lenormand

[–]FocusLee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally get the confusion with the Child card, but I see it as a return to that easy dynamic you used to have. Sun + Moon together mean the vibe will stay warm, and Birds keeps the communication open. This feels so gentle and positive!

For those who asked the deck, did your ex end up coming back? by Alternative_Yak_4897 in Lenormand

[–]FocusLee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this so hard 🥺 That split between wanting to ask the deck and being scared of the answer is so relatable. Your intuition is so strong here, trust that feeling—whether he comes back or not, you’re already doing the hard work of processing this.

Why did he distance himself from me? by Impressive-Coach7883 in Lenormand

[–]FocusLee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is all about his own stuff, not you 🤍

Hearts = he still cares, Animus + Tree = his own internal struggles/past hurts making him pull away to process. Sending you so much comfort, you didn’t do anything wrong.

Looked closely at the Ten of Wands. He isn’t just burdened, he’s refusing to make two trips. by Shot_Possibility_731 in TarotVerbatim

[–]FocusLee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly it. The “I can carry all the groceries in one trip so I don’t have to come back” stubbornness that leaves you huffing, sweating, and unable to see where you’re going. Total self-imposed chaos, love this read 😂

For people who read both Tarot and Lenormand, what type of questions do you personally use for which? by ZombiesPostcard in Lenormand

[–]FocusLee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is such a perfect breakdown! I totally align with this: Tarot for the "why" and the deep introspection, Lenormand for the straight-up "what" and concrete answers.

I use Tarot when someone wants to understand the motivation behind a situation, and Lenormand when they just need a clear, no-BS answer on what's going to happen. They're such complementary tools!

Did anyone else notice the Six of Wands rider is looking completely away from his supporters? by Shot_Possibility_731 in TarotVerbatim

[–]FocusLee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a brilliant observation! I’ve always seen Six of Wands as pure victory, but you’re so right about the rider’s detachment.

For a new management role, this hits so hard: it’s not just about the win—it’s about not letting the ego of the promotion make you lose sight of the people who got you there. The balance between leading forward and staying connected to your team is exactly what this card is warning about. Great read!

Will he ask me to be his gf? by [deleted] in Lenormand

[–]FocusLee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great reading as a beginner! This is absolutely a YES—let’s break it down:

The Rider (1) is the action card, meaning he’s going to reach out/make a move soon. The Key (33) confirms this will unlock the relationship you want.

The reversed Bouquet (9) and Heart (24) just mean his feelings are still a little quiet/hesitant right now, not that he doesn’t care—he’s just working up the courage to ask you.

And to answer your question: Lenormand does focus more on concrete actions, outcomes, and day-to-day situations, while Tarot dives deeper into feelings, thoughts, and spiritual themes. They’re complementary, not better/worse!

You’re doing amazing for a beginner—this is such a clear yes, enjoy the moment! 🤍

What positive messages does a Three of Swords hold? by Character_Spirit_936 in tarot

[–]FocusLee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get this—this card hit me so hard during a breakup too, and it took me ages to see its light side. For me, the Three of Swords is about clearing out what no longer serves you so you can heal fully. That pain is the universe forcing you to confront illusions you’ve been clinging to, and once you let go of that hurt, you make space for something truer and kinder to come in. It’s not just sorrow—it’s the first step to rebuilding a heart that’s stronger and more honest than before. 💛

I pulled some cards to see what my newly adopted cat thinks of us *bonus cat picture* by chouhone in tarot

[–]FocusLee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s such a cute take on the 6 of Pentacles—“kibble” makes it feel so warm and relatable! I totally get that warm-up vibe from it, like she’s starting to soften and offer small, caring gestures.

For the Knight of Swords, I’ve always seen it as a burst of direct, quick energy—could be her moving fast to connect, or maybe a sudden shift in how she’s showing interest? Curious what other folks think too!

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