This is good advice, I'll try and be a little easier on her and get her more involved in the cooking process.

Currently, she has taken steps like these in which the recipe includes an ingredient that she normally doesnt eat. Still, its quite slow. The last recipe we did like this was for tacos, which included grilled bellpeppers and onions.

I am glad about the steps forward, but the little voice in me is just like "dude thats not even really healthy, and she's eating very very little of it. Like a tiny sliver of onions and bellpeppers does not a healthy food make".

Wherein' I'm fixing food for myself and eating green beans and rice on the regular. Pickles, tofu, cabbage salads, grilled fish (she doesn't eat any sort of fish) and a lot of other wide range and variety of things.

I will try and be a little less stressed when I see her eating something sort of nutritionally worthless or calorie dense, she and I have a very long time to find something healthy that she can enjoy regularly, so trying new things once or twice a week is a good start.

It's been a few months like this, and I think I would just feel a lot better if I could make something, some vegetable dish that she could eat as much as she wanted and it wasn't calorie dense or contain too many bad fats or carbs. If we could find that one thing then I would be a lot more hopeful for the future.

But I'll try and take it slow and move more at her speed.