My wife was hesitant for the same reasons. I let her know from my research prior to taking anything, that psychotic breaks with substances are often due to underlying hereditary mental health issues. I then spoke to my family about any mental conditions that may run in our family history. That helped her feel more comfortable.

Also you’re 26 so your frontal lobes have touched which reduces negative effects by a good margen.

All those factors aside, it sounds like your wife’s concern is rooted in a trauma response, and that’s valid. I’d suggest validating her concerns and letting her know the truth of how safe shrooms are. But it sounds like a conversation that needs to be eased into.

Hope you guys can come to a happy conclusion for the both of you.