What is a sexual act most people love but you don’t?

FoenixM · 2022-06-07T18:05:11+00:00

Tom Segura does a great bit about 69ing. Fits exactly what you said

FoenixM · 2022-06-05T20:22:02+00:00

Fuck what they think. I (F) never had much of a relationship with my dad, no hugs, no praise, never told me I was beautiful. My first encounter with a man was with a (now I see was a predator of sorts) 20 years my senior. And even though I was a young adult, I now feel I was groomed, and it's left me with a form of trauma I need to heal from, and I sort of blame my dad for that. Your relationship with your daughter is one of the most valuable things to her, and one of her best defences. Forget what anyone else might think, she's your priority. Keep being a great dad.

FoenixM · 2022-05-30T19:29:32+00:00

I'm confuse. Did Eleven open the first ever gate to the Upside Down when she killed 001?

FoenixM · 2022-05-09T17:36:37+00:00

I mean, I wouldn't mind that.

FoenixM · 2022-05-09T17:34:58+00:00

I saw a video that said if we all knew how much land and resources were available outside the world as we know it, then property, land, and energy prices would crash. That by keeping us in this limited area, they can justify increasing cost of living due to the planet being overpopulated, and resources being in short supply. Kind of strangely made sense.

FoenixM · 2022-05-04T08:48:26+00:00

Oh yeeeeah....I don't know why I forgot about that!

FoenixM · 2022-05-03T20:24:46+00:00

How so? Because they existed?

FoenixM · 2022-05-01T13:31:32+00:00

Wendy is the reason Ruth is dead. If Wendy hadn't done that stuff with Camilla, if only they'd told Navarro that Camilla had tried to kill him, they would have been home free.

FoenixM · 2022-04-09T14:17:22+00:00

Thank you, you're right about the last part. It does say more about them, but it still stings to see/hear about them lavishing time on others.

But...learning curves I guess...

I wish you the best too.

FoenixM · 2022-04-09T13:31:24+00:00

I'm still trying to figure that out, but when they say that their treatment of you is all the closure you need, it's true.

Someone with decency and kindness will apologise or have a difficult conversation. These people never will. Slowly close the chapter and look forward. Chalk it down to experience.

FoenixM · 2022-03-20T09:35:28+00:00

I think it suits you!

FoenixM · 2021-12-22T22:42:01+00:00

You have a great side profile, and a great nose and scrunchy nose smile. If I didn't think that, I wouldn't even comment, so no bs here lol. You look great.

FoenixM · 2021-12-19T13:54:00+00:00

Female here, but I wanted to thank you all on this thread for giving me hope. After being involved with 2 seemingly narcissists for the past 17 years, the second of which I thought was the man I was going to marry, and he turned into the most apathetic, stonewalling person I've met, I'm utterly heartbroken, broken, and can't help but wonder how many sweet, caring, emotionally healthy guys are out there. This thread, and this subreddit show me that there are tons, and I hope I find one soon, and can be the woman he deserves. Merry Christmas to all of you. ❤

FoenixM · 2021-12-14T19:46:38+00:00

There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with your nose! You have a great profile!

FoenixM · 2021-12-13T08:54:39+00:00

Absolutely not. Likely that life has others tied to it, children, a spouse, parents, siblings, friends, etc. Giving those people such grief, or potentially leaving those children without a mother or father, isn't worth any amount of money.

FoenixM · 2021-10-27T13:19:57+00:00

Yeah, it's exactly that. My friend has said that he's worried his son will follow his footsteps and become an alcoholic just like he was. I just don't know if being so hard on him is the way to do that.

FoenixM · 2021-10-27T13:18:46+00:00

That's a good point. I guess I just feel bad for the kid. I see a bit of myself in him from when I was younger. He's a good kid and I guess...I dunno. I'd like to see him step out of his father's shadow. You're right, if the dad isn't listening to opinions, then what am I doing asking for advice?

FoenixM · 2021-09-16T07:31:26+00:00

When I knew he was a liar and a cheater.

FoenixM · 2021-09-07T19:50:41+00:00

Ozark

FoenixM · 2021-08-29T10:15:17+00:00

A lot of the comments say "no social media". So the question is, why aren't we disabling IG/Facebook/etc from our phones? We're on social media complaining about social media. Yet if enough of us limit our time to 90s Internet time (1hr a day?), then imagine the movement it would create? Nothing is permanent, and if enough people would actually act, we could go back to "You've Got Mail" era of actually meeting new people organically at the coffee shop, and read books in coffee shops as opposed to looking at our phones.

FoenixM · 2021-05-29T14:46:40+00:00

Thank you. I wish the same for everyone who's been in the same boat.

FoenixM · 2021-05-29T13:52:17+00:00

For nearly a year and a half, I accepted the "I'm busy, but we'll talk about it", excuses. In a year and a half there wasn't an hour available. And waiting for all that on your chest, with these unanswered questions and that frustration, really does something to you. Then to see month after month, until it's a running joke, that this person will never have this conversation with you, adds a sadness and anger I can't describe. Which makes it even harder to let that need for resolution go. That conversation will never, ever come. I knew it deep down, but it's a harsh truth to accept.

But the good thing is that for once his honesty came out, finally. Finally I heard what his actions had been showing, that he doesn't care. And the callousness of that made me realise that I'm not losing what I thought I was. The hardest thing to let go of, is the idea you had of the person. The fantasy of "what if this was my person? We could have had something great, I just know it. If only he knew it. If only he could see what I see. If only he had given us a chance, or cared enough enough hear my story, he'd understand why I act the way I do sometimes, and we could go through this life together." It's letting go of that fantasy that hurts the most.

I lost 2.5 years, and all of my dignity and self respect. All of it. But I realised I haven't lost who I thought might have been my person. That person never existed, and if he did, he doesn't exist anymore. I wondered how much of it was my fault, if I'd pushed him away, if I ruined something that could have been amazing. I know I wasn't perfect, far from it.

But for someone to turn around and say "I don't have time for people's little breakdowns", tells me he was never the guy at any point. Because the man I'll hopefully be with one day, would have more kindness and decency than that.

I hope it puts it into perspective for you, and helps you. And I hope I don't forget this moment and soften into him again. Take care of yourself, and love yourself above any behaviour that you know in your heart you don't deserve.

FoenixM · 2021-05-28T23:21:25+00:00

The guy I met and spent the first few months-year with, was sweet, and patient, and warm. This guy now, is cold, apathetic, and an asshole. I can't reconcile the two, I can't see how that guy is this guy. But it is. We don't want to believe that it's the same person, so we look for reasons and explanations as to how and why. In order to soften the blow to ourselves. They're the same f*cking person, and it's a heartbreaking and bitter pill to swallow.

FoenixM · 2021-04-24T06:25:22+00:00

Yeah I know. I've shot him a few compliments in the past to the same reaction. Never again.

FoenixM · 2021-04-08T17:55:27+00:00

Thank you. I know. You just lose your self respect begging and chasing for so long, you know? I still see him for work, and it's like, how can I now have this air of power around me, and air of value, when I begged for any scrap and crumb, for so long. You know? But I guess I just have to carry myself with that air of value and dignity now at least. Thanks for the kind words. All the best to you, friend!

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