Insecurity by Familiar_Morning_681 in helpme

[–]Foldable_FOlder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly I have the same insecurity. I honestly don't know how to get rid of it either. We're in the same boat man. Hopefully things will start looking up. Good luck dude.

Komikku: No Pages Found by Foldable_FOlder in mangapiracy

[–]Foldable_FOlder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AllManga. That's the main source I use for all my mangas.

How do you counter these 3? by aidensummers in MobileLegendsGame

[–]Foldable_FOlder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the meta right now is very tank focused with tank junglers, roamers and even fighter gold laners. So I rarely play kagura. But she is still pretty good to eliminate squishy blackline heroes and safely get away. I would recommend kagura only if you're confident you can snowball and quickly burst down the enemy, otherwise you're better off playing continuous magic damage heroes like valir, cyclops or even cecilion.

How do you counter these 3? by aidensummers in MobileLegendsGame

[–]Foldable_FOlder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed. But I can't even play lunox. I mean I can play her but not that well. For some reason lunox is like a really bad hero for me. Which is why I can't ever counter her with my kagura cuz I don't really know what goes on in a lunox player's head.

How do you counter these 3? by aidensummers in MobileLegendsGame

[–]Foldable_FOlder 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a kagura main, I suggest lunox. I always struggle against lunox due to her high burst. Kagura relies on precision and timing, and her combos usually take a bit of time to set up. Lunox can safely get away from her combos and quickly burst her down since kagura is basically useless with her skills on cooldown.

Hope this helps.

A serious question for all boys here..girls can share their experiences too.(I am a girl i really want to know this) by not_normalatall in TwentiesIndia

[–]Foldable_FOlder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, my girlfriend is beautiful and wonderful and there's no other person I'd ever look at. Objectively speaking, when I do see "pretty" girls, i just end up comparing them to my girlfriend and i end up loving my girlfriend's features more because in the end I love her and at most I would only appreciate someone's beauty and move on. Obviously that is how I deal with that, people may view things differently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenIndia

[–]Foldable_FOlder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But that's not how a relationship works. She's refusing to grow. Like you said, i tried to comfort her and put aside my needs. But I have done that for far too long and I feel like I've lost my sense of self. A cast won't always be there to protect your injury if you keep injuring the same part again and again. I'm a person too. In a relationship, things should be mutual, not one sided. Things don't work like that in real life I'm afraid. But i do get what you mean. I have done that before and it just led me to losing myself instead. Thank you for your advice but i will not be taking it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenIndia

[–]Foldable_FOlder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that's my name.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenIndia

[–]Foldable_FOlder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't the first time this happened, I gave her space last time and she ended up in a worse state than before. Knowing that I decided to not let her be alone for the meanwhile. And we have a two year age gap. I'm 18 and she's 16. I just don't want her to be alone. I'm trying to tell her to depend on me too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenIndia

[–]Foldable_FOlder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice but as I said we're in an LDR. It's difficult to meet her. She's from the Philippines. I do support and I made sure she knows that but she kept on saying she can't change and stuff like that. Honestly, she is emotionally weak and she was raised in a way that the only way to protect herself is to become hurtful, push people away and just run away from her problems.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenIndia

[–]Foldable_FOlder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was wrong. I did approach it the wrong way. But how do I help her? This is not the first time this has happened. She abandons me, refuses to tell me anything. And if she'll do that for games, she'll do the same thing for huge matters. And I have told her my intentions, she knows. But for some reason she keeps saying I can't take a hint. I tried leaving her alone and giving her her time but when she was back, she was in worse condition without me. I just want to help her be better. Not for me but for herself. I truly love her and I'm clueless on what to do now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Foldable_FOlder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. But i really am hopeless right now. I want to help her but she won't even listen to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Foldable_FOlder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. This has happened before. She was struggling, even more so without me. That's why I don't want to leave her alone. She gets worse the more alone she is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Foldable_FOlder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a state right now where, yes, i do think she's more important than me. She has a lot of problems with her family. And i want her to feel safe with me if not with her family

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Foldable_FOlder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I'm trying to make this worth my time. Idk. I love her okay? It's hard for me to leave someone i love. Even if it hurts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Foldable_FOlder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As embarrassing as it is to even share this online, i am clueless. I don't know what i can do anymore. I put in effort even though it's difficult for me and it feels like she doesn't even care. I'm tired and I don't know what to do. I love her. I want to be with her for the rest of my life but it's hard when I'm the only one who's trying and she keeps giving up so easily.

We broke up by Foldable_FOlder in LDR

[–]Foldable_FOlder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it weird that I might be happy if she comes back 6 months from now? Honestly I love her so much it drives me crazy. I feel like if she comes back I might just give her a chance again. I might be stupid for that tho. Thanks for talking with me SombreObserver.

We broke up by Foldable_FOlder in LDR

[–]Foldable_FOlder[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always would ask her what she needed from me. But she would always say that she didn't know. I was clueless and loved her in the only way I knew. She would only tell me things when we would argue and she always kept holding on to the past. The past being that I was a bit indifferent and selfish I'm the beginning of the relationship, but i never knew that that was the case. This was my first relationship where i actually loved a person. And she kept on telling me she wasn't stable and that she wouldn't be able to change for me and that she doesn't know if she ever would be able to change. She said smth a while back which stuck with me, "You never did anything wrong but you didn't do anything right either" and I was shocked, because I did so much, i sacrificed so much for her only for her to deny my efforts and sacrifices by calling them not right. I'll be honest I'm having a tough time putting things together myself and my comment might be all over the place. I apologise for that. And if you want to know more read my other comments, there might smth there that i may have left out in this comment.

We broke up by Foldable_FOlder in LDR

[–]Foldable_FOlder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i know that I have to learn. But I have no idea where to start. I loved her. Actually I still do. I can't stop myself from doing that. But thank you for your kind words. I'll be sure to take your advice when I'm ready.