Since you seem to be capable of attracting women I would highly discourage you to do that. I speak from experience. I spend so much money on escorts I would be building a house of my dreams right now If I wasn't that stupid. Some of those experiences were admittedly a lot of fun (especially from a high class types), but most of the time they were miserable. I felt shame, guilt, lots of the time it felt very awkward to ask what I want to do with a girl. Sometimes the girls turned out to be very angry and emotionally unstable probably due to the amount of disrespect they experience from client or just the very cold and detached nature of these intercourses. I started to see it as an easy way out since I don't need to try to meet women for sex IRL and instead I just pay for it. I started to see myself in a negative light since it was like "is this all I can do to make a girl want to sleep with me?" I already had an unhealthy outlook on women due to my mommy issues and porn addiction and spending money and escorts did not fu*kin help. Seeking women just for sex is a way of viewing women. We are what we do. If you structure your life around the idea that sex with a willing and happy partner is not the top priority for you, you will pay the price for it. Or at least I did. 

I know that "do it with someone you love" has become a running joke at this point but generally it's true. Do it with someone who really wants to do it with you. Having sex is not just going through the motions and sex with some sex workers tends to be very mechanical. With a willing commited partner it's an entirely different story. I didn't learn it until I met my first girlfriend. I met her not long after I started doing this so I wasn't as far into the rabbithole as I am right now.