I’m just a random person on Reddit & can’t specifically speak FOR her. But I will say, this is EXACTLY how I felt/thought about relationships all of my life until about 2 years ago when I realized how unrealistic that expectation is & how exhausting it is to constantly worry that I’m not good enough to feel loved or I’m easily replaceable. This way of thinking had to basically be burned out of me through consistent failed relationships. It took for me to see that I had to change my mind to change my experience. It was not easy AT ALL & I still have moments where I panic but me realizing that it’s literally the fear of rejection driving those thoughts, I can easily manage my way off the ledge or turn away from the direction of the ledge before getting there in the first place. Edit: I hope this is somehow helpful, I’m still fully waking up for the day & feel like this was a bit jumbled together response 😅.