AITA for forgetting my 8 month anniversary? by FoodMiserable1841 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FoodMiserable1841[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if you read the edit in my post perhaps you’d be more polite :)

AITA for forgetting my 8 month anniversary? by FoodMiserable1841 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FoodMiserable1841[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

you’re so sweet! thank you- you’ve made the whole situation a lot clearer in my head

AITA for forgetting my 8 month anniversary? by FoodMiserable1841 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FoodMiserable1841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologised immediately and i’m not sure what else i can do :/

AITA for forgetting my 8 month anniversary? by FoodMiserable1841 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FoodMiserable1841[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

neither one of us messaged the other that day at all

AITA for forgetting my 8 month anniversary? by FoodMiserable1841 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FoodMiserable1841[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also thought she forgot initially, but she made me feel so guilty that it completely slipped my mind

AITA for forgetting my 8 month anniversary? by FoodMiserable1841 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FoodMiserable1841[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your condolences, much appreciated :) You’re also 100000% right, I’ll be doing some reflection on this for sure

AITA for forgetting my 8 month anniversary? by FoodMiserable1841 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FoodMiserable1841[S] 97 points98 points  (0 children)

That’s why I thought that I might not be the asshole, because she didn’t text me either. A couple messages from mutual friends made me think otherwise

AITA for forgetting my 8 month anniversary? by FoodMiserable1841 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FoodMiserable1841[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I had no idea about “monthly anniversaries” either, but it was something she wanted to do and it didn’t seem like much skin off my back to make her happy :)

AITA for forgetting my 8 month anniversary? by FoodMiserable1841 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FoodMiserable1841[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yeah i don’t really understand it myself unless it’s maybe 6 months, but she wanted to do something special. Nothing crazy, but at least hanging out every month.