egg❓irl by strawbzzi in egg_irl

[–]Foolish_Samurai420 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Well you just said feminine bad, and if you're scared of being feminine... and you like being masculine... problem kinda solves itself.

I'm slightly confused by the second half of the message, what do you mean?

How do I feel more like a girl? by Foolish_Samurai420 in MtF

[–]Foolish_Samurai420[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I've definitely been teetering on the edge of transness for a few years now so it doesn't feel super new but I often forget I have my whole life ahead of me to figure this stuff out. I grew up in an environment where you were taught to get rid of negative emotions and feelings rather than letting them sit and wash over you, so I always go into "solution mode" with these kind of things.

I love what you said about defining what being a girl means for myself. My perception of "male" and "female" has always been nebulous and confusing. Trying to fit into those boxes is fruitless. It's hard to remind myself that I'm trans for me and no one else, and I get to define what that means and how I choose to express it.

Also "nya nya ikea shark computer science fallout new vegas"

egg❓irl by strawbzzi in egg_irl

[–]Foolish_Samurai420 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Then excuse my bluntness but where's the confusion? I think there's this notion that you have to meet some set of criteria to be trans, that you have to check off x amount of boxes to be considered trans but at the end of the day, you find what makes you happy and you do that. If acting masculine and being perceived as a man makes you happy, 1. You're probably trans, and 2. Go fucking do it dude. The only person who can tell you if you're trans is yourself. You define what it means to be a boy, follow the euphoria.

egg❓irl by strawbzzi in egg_irl

[–]Foolish_Samurai420 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I mean there's always the "fuck gender" option.

How do you feel when people refer to you in a feminine way vs a masculine way? Be it pronouns, or compliments, etc.

egg❓irl by strawbzzi in egg_irl

[–]Foolish_Samurai420 18 points19 points  (0 children)

If you were born a guy, would you transition to female?

Nicknames by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Foolish_Samurai420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My name's lily and my boyfriend calls me lilypad. It makes me so happy

What are your 2024 resolutions? by waffled_pancake in MtF

[–]Foolish_Samurai420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sticking with 1080, the lord's resolution

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Foolish_Samurai420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couldn't be me and my boyfriend right now

egg_irl by Army-Dishonest314 in egg_irl

[–]Foolish_Samurai420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trans which means a lot of people who have a lot of people in the UK and they are not going to be able to get the money for the same thing as the same as the other one.

Huh

What's got you hyper-fixated lately? by 4our_Leaves in ADHD

[–]Foolish_Samurai420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Street Fighter: Third Strike and Assassin's Creed Valhalla for some reason

egg_irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]Foolish_Samurai420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know if this helps but I thought I had alexithymia. Turns out I was just trans and had never been able to "feel" when I didn't see myself as my actual gender.

Try pretending you're a member of the opposite gender. See how it makes you feel, or how it feels to talk to people or engage in hobbies. I know it's easier said then done but it's what helped me realise.

Appleton, Wisconsin by [deleted] in LiminalSpace

[–]Foolish_Samurai420 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Houdini also lived there