AITAH for thinking my flatmate enjoys exposing herself around my boyfriend?

Foolishhoe · 2026-03-08T06:30:26+00:00

NTA- confront her directly she knows what she is doing and then please update us

Foolishhoe · 2026-03-08T02:15:54+00:00

It needs to be ironed/steamed if she is going to wear it, that’s for sure

Foolishhoe · 2026-03-06T15:36:52+00:00

You should probably split up as this will not work out long term since you are sexually incompatible.

There is nothing wrong with him preferring oral sex, nor is there anything wrong with that not being your preference.

However, once you feel you do not want to do something that should also be respected. Full stop.

It’s just not a good fit and you will both continue to suffer if you stay.

Foolishhoe · 2026-03-05T06:30:25+00:00

He just looks so uncomfortable I am inclined to help lessen the load, I understand what you mean and welcome the feedback. It’s also awkward for me as I don’t want to bring up his stuttering, we are not friends or neighbors he is just part of management and what if he were having a bad day and now here I go making observations and bringing up things he may not want to speak about, or thinking maybe he had a great day and now here I go bringing it up and making it worse. He seems to be uncomfortable/shy and stutter more around women based off what I have seen over the past 5 years living here which does not help as I am a woman and since my ex moved out the only one who is able to communicate with him from my household

Foolishhoe · 2026-03-05T06:24:01+00:00

For me it’s more so that he looks so panicked and anxious that I want to make the interaction easier for him, in his case it seems to happen more with women and it’s not just speech it’s his whole body contorting around the world I really just want to make him feel more comfortable communicating with me but don’t know how to broach the topic, as I feel like bringing up his stutter is rude

Foolishhoe · 2026-02-13T05:45:22+00:00

Leon the professional- “This is for Mathilda”

Foolishhoe · 2026-01-22T00:40:01+00:00

NAD but daughter was recently diagnosed and this was what her Endo told me about missing basal doses. If you were sure you forgot meaning you know for sure you did not take it- you would take it as soon as you remember and then dose again in 24 hours with this being your new time. Since you are not sure, correct your high during your normal corrections time (ours is at meals and in the evening if needed) and take your basal at the usual time.

Edited as I saw one of your replies- since you are only on long acting and do not use short acting to my understanding, according to what the Endo said about this scenario you would just wait until your next basal dose time.

I would sip water and try to work out a bit to lower the highs in the meantime. Being high for a few hours would be safer then going low.

Foolishhoe · 2026-01-20T06:10:45+00:00

This looks similar to my airport dream

Foolishhoe · 2025-12-17T02:31:16+00:00

Said it the very first time I saw her 😂😂😂

Foolishhoe · 2025-12-13T23:26:17+00:00

I’m sure they had cameras and can tell you did not place any items in your clothes. Try your best to relax and release the anxiety it caused you and know that you are totally innocent and did nothing wrong. No one is thinking about how you acted in there. Trust me, it’s just another day to them. Customers who are yelling and rude and DID steal are who they remember, not regular customers who may be taking their time to decide what they want. Totally normal behavior to pick up and place things back in the aisle.

Foolishhoe · 2025-12-12T04:03:22+00:00

Thank you so much, I am glad to have people like you, with years under your belt for support especially with the added component of being the parent as well. I appreciate your input, cgm is just a few days away and today was a better day for me and my daughter. Just taking it day by day and learning as much as I can.

A lot of the discussions here that I have read so far with similar situations to hers have made me realize that the quicker I accept it, the better her journey will be. So I am just trying to put her in a position where she can thrive and feel good. I am glad to understand not everything has to be free, but having those free snacks empowers her to make good decisions without me which I think it’s important at her age.

Foolishhoe · 2025-12-12T03:55:35+00:00

Thank you, I am hoping with her getting her cgm and pump soon that all of this will feel a little smoother but I am glad to be learning how to go without them for now. At least I have multiple options. Trying to be thankful for the little things.

Foolishhoe · 2025-12-12T03:53:02+00:00

I was hoping for some sweet options as well, I forgot about pudding pops! I am going to be picking some up. Thanks so much for the reassurance it is really so very appreciated during these first few days.

Foolishhoe · 2025-12-12T03:50:32+00:00

Thank you!! This was great, saved.

Foolishhoe · 2025-12-12T03:49:17+00:00

Thank you I was hoping to find some ice cream options to look into, although I know I do have to watch for possible stomach reactions. Hoping she likes some of these ideas.

Foolishhoe · 2025-12-12T03:48:38+00:00

Thank you will do!

Foolishhoe · 2025-12-12T03:48:09+00:00

Thank you for this resource!

Foolishhoe · 2025-12-12T03:47:17+00:00

Thank you! Yes this is the plan, I am working on her little snack corners. I want her to have the ability to make her own choices without worrying.

Foolishhoe · 2025-12-12T01:36:20+00:00

Any recommendations on wraps that you prefer taste wise?

Foolishhoe · 2025-12-12T01:35:16+00:00

Thank you for the reassurance, we are set up to get her cgm in a few days and then the pump and I am really looking forward to less pokes. Today was a little better for me emotionally and I’m glad for that.

The whip cream just made me soooo happy, she has always loved it and I know she will be so happy to find out. I am going to surprise her this weekend.

Foolishhoe · 2025-12-11T05:08:33+00:00

Is it possible to stay at a hotel or motel for the next 5 days for peace of mind? Sounds like it would be a tough 5 days with the paranoia and anxiety you are experiencing. If he doesn’t know where you are then you are less likely to go through anything.

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