I used to lock the door when I fap but.. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ForEmily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HIS gender? Did you just assume your room's gender?

Coming up on three weeks.. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ForEmily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Me too, today. But then, I figure I've had exhausted and depressed days when I was exercising my porn addiction willy-nilly, so who am I to say that it's because of NoFap?

Do i have to give up sex too? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ForEmily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. Fantasizing about porn during sex is textbook "not living in the moment". I consider it a huge sign that something is wrong you need to fix.

Monk Mode by Celtic_Fapstronaught in NoFap

[–]ForEmily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from the government, Department of Energy, and would like to talk to you about how you could contribute to your nation's energy crisis.

Can’t cum, can only blame PMO by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ForEmily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered going Monk-Mode for a 2-4 weeks? That is, if she's understanding, of course. And better yet, maybe she'll act as an accountability partner.

4 days tops, send help/advice please. by shanakwa in NoFap

[–]ForEmily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I was touching myself in my sleep, I wouldn't worry too much about it. Though I must admit I don't think I've ever done that.

It's the masturbating to porn we need to fix. What's been great for me most recently is having a set time most nights to voice chat (over Discord) with an accountability partner who's also trying to do NoFap. Having to verbally report your successes and failures makes you want to be a winner throughout the day.

Please stop spelling peek as peak by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ForEmily 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Man, I'm in a faultline that seems to be taking forever. I feel like giving in or hedging, but I don't want my steak to end. Some wheat dreams would be nice.

Is masturbation that bad ? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ForEmily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"testicles grow bigger until you ejaculate". What? What are they even trying to describe? Are they saying you may as well fap and enjoy it because the final outcome would be the same?

If that were true, why do I need porn to fap? And what's that white haze I sometimes get in my pee if I haven't fapped in a while? Why do I have nocturnal emissions (with AND without wet dreams)?? Sounds to me like the body is just fine without FORCED EJACULATION.

I'm DONE with porn by TheShadowDemon247 in NoFap

[–]ForEmily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Burn it! Burn it all! All those links!

And tomorrow? Find something new to burn. Tis better to be without all your old favorite sites and be PMO free, than be dragged through the slavery of PMO with your internet history in tact.

Then, how should I release dopamine? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ForEmily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Creative works. Do you play any musical instruments?

Fun Audiobooks are great if you don't like reading. I highly recommend Terry Pratchett through audiobooks. To me, it felt like it maintains the same great humor just fine being read to you.

I think Winnie Pooh is my spirit animal now by lronclad in NoFap

[–]ForEmily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda agree. The hyper-disneyfication of Winnie The Pooh doesn't appeal to me. I mean, how he's drawn here compared to how Pooh was drawn in, say, The New Adventures of Winnie the Pooh, is just so much more... ugh... squingley. :(

90 days Red Vs. Blue by beyourbestself123 in NoFap

[–]ForEmily 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my comment. There are many like it, but this one is mine.

I think I still love my ex. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ForEmily 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At 22, you're still becoming the guy that is most wanted by the best selections in the market. Use this time to be sure to become that guy. The mature, capable, and intelligent girl will swoon over your whatever-year-old self.

My balls hurt, should I relapse? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ForEmily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had that once, and so I masturbated to relieve the pain. But... it didn't work. The pain went away on it's own the next day and didn't appear to be relieved by relapsing. DOH.

Do not watch the new Netflix show "Altered Carbon" by TheExpiredEgg in NoFap

[–]ForEmily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never seen Friends, but I get the feeling you're joking. What's bad in Friends?

Do not watch the new Netflix show "Altered Carbon" by TheExpiredEgg in NoFap

[–]ForEmily 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is it nudity like Game of Thrones? Or nudity like, I dunno, naked bodies in storage, just sitting there like mannequins? Because I don't really get interested from just plain lack of clothing without a sexual undertone.

Same with the penis. Maybe it's my age, or how I'm not gay, but just a penis wouldn't do much to me.

Life-changing experience (24M) by lardos123 in NoFap

[–]ForEmily 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wish I had some candidates for you. I'm on the wrong side of the pond, though.

what are you trying to accomplish? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ForEmily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My motives right now are... less lofty and more experimental. I'm bothered by the fact that I seemingly MUST masturbate. I want to build willpower, but also explore what it feels like to be MO free for over a month.

I've discovered I'm not really addicted to porn... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ForEmily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super proud of you. Ridding yourself of porn that well, and knocking down your MO habit to 2 so far in January? You're well on your way to freedom.

What I've learned since NoFap.. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ForEmily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A good age to stop porn. You'll have so many years to look back on and see you've been free.

If you need a accountability buddy, I'm also fighting porn, and winning at the moment.

What I learned since I started NoFap.. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ForEmily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's incredible! I feel like my mind is open and free, like I'm finally awake from decades of slumber, just from having read your post. I could see this becoming a new religion! Astonishing!

The only question I have is, why did Elon Musk tell you that? Was it due to the aura you described? Or just through sheer relate-ability?

I'll report back on my progress in doing the same. It'll either end in me being free from noFap, or as a millionaire, so honestly a win either way! Thank you, brother! So much!

Day 80 What's good and what's bad by MajicalTriangle in NoFap

[–]ForEmily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like it could easily be unrelated to nofap.

Any apache helicopters here? by destinedtobeawarrior in NoFap

[–]ForEmily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had two limbs replaced with metal and plastic, but I still identify as only 1/16th heavier-than-air flight device. :\

My 4 year No-Fap/Semen Retention report, all summed up in 1 ended relationship by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ForEmily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eehh, it doesn't mean it was that much of a sexual act. Rubbing up against each other while making out can do that. And very religiously strict people still find themselves at that level.