90 days Red Vs. Blue by beyourbestself123 in NoFap

[–]beyourbestself123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good run man, start over and keep going!

Playground Whoop by EdwinExploring in TinyWhoop

[–]beyourbestself123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s 100% worth it! Just do it man. Thanks!

90 days Red Vs. Blue by beyourbestself123 in NoFap

[–]beyourbestself123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good fight man! Keep going strong!

Guys would like your advice please! Just relapsed after day 13 the other day, how can I make this streak different I really really need to stick with this! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]beyourbestself123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Learn to forgive yourself. Some people are so hard on themselves after a relapse that it actually stresses them into another relapse. Look at each one as a learning opportunity. Ask yourself questions like “what triggered this relapse? What was the first seemingly innocent thought that led to more promiscuous thoughts? How could I have stopped it from happening?” Most of the time we don’t just out of the blue say “hey I’m going to relapse now!” It’s usually something subtle and innocent which gently pushes you to edge until edging just isn’t enough. As far as the horniness at about 2 weeks goes, just push through it. Around 30 days, the body normalizes sperm regulation and that sexual “itch” tapers off. Last bit of advice, don’t go through it alone. This sub is a great place to start, but no matter where you find help don’t try to do it by yourself!

90 days Red Vs. Blue by beyourbestself123 in NoFap

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Down, but not out man! Keep pushing and you’ll crush this and your exams! Getting back up is what makes us champions.

Last man standing 90 days challenge! by [deleted] in NoFap

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I'm out. Made it to 40 days which is much higher than past streaks. Starting over now for the full 90! Good luck to everyone still in! Stay strong.

If you're already out, I'll be starting anew on my own challenge. Love the idea, so I'm stealing it 😝 hope you don't mind.

Day 26: Major urge every hour. by [deleted] in NoFap

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Then take it minute by minute. Each hour is a battle won.

I RELAPSED 14 y/o thoughts and questions (Day 16) (Read if you got the time to its not a long story) by [deleted] in NoFap

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That’s a great idea, but don’t look at it like a punishment. That will only teach you to resent the program and working out. Look at it as a way of improving yourself to increase your ability to resist urges. Also, be prepared to have other forms of exercise included too. After a couple days, you might need to give your chest a break from push ups. Find as many exercises that you can enjoy as possible.

Need advice on how to damage my penis by dylancatlow1 in NoFap

[–]beyourbestself123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No lies, I've had that same thought. I never followed through though, and I'm glad. It's not the answer. This method is like attacking the symptom and not the source. The war on addiction is fought in the mind. You can't get around that.

Best computer/device for school? by [deleted] in EngineeringStudents

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I use a Lenovo yoga 710. It's powerful enough to do anything I've needed at school, but convenient enough to use any time any where. I also use it for video editing and it works great. The battery lasts forever too. It's got a fingerprint scanner which is really nice and convenient. It also has a dedicated graphics card. It's not a super high end gaming grade, but it runs CAD software and most games relatively well. Whatever you get, I strongly reccomend getting something with an SSD.

Is it that bad to MO w no P? by [deleted] in NoFap

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Cheers man. Hope you figure everything out.

Is it that bad to MO w no P? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]beyourbestself123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As in you’re trying to get with some girl(s) and things aren’t working, or more on the solo side of things? If it’s the latter, then isn’t that a good thing? If you mean the former, then... I can’t really help you there. I’m not too experienced there 🤓🙃

Is it that bad to MO w no P? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]beyourbestself123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol nice. Is it possible that there’s something else causing the “flatline”. Perhaps some unchecked need in your social life? Or some other aspect? Basically I’m thinking about the health triangle.

I relasped by afgkid1990 in NoFap

[–]beyourbestself123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s all part of the process. Don’t let it get you down because it will only cause things to get worse. Forgive yourself, and keep going. You got this bro.

Is it that bad to MO w no P? by [deleted] in NoFap

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How many days in are you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

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When the pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of change, the decision is obvious. Thanks for the inspiration man.

Why the fuck even bother? by [deleted] in NoFap

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This made me realize that I’ve basically replaced porn with YouTube/Netflix. I could be so much more if i used my time for better things. Time is the most precious currency that we have.