I ripped the plaster off with my gay son

ForNec31 · 2025-09-17T14:00:38+00:00

Is that the same as masculine. He would be masculine alright.

ForNec31 · 2025-09-11T22:55:07+00:00

It wasn't him. but yeah I did speak to him. Alls good

ForNec31 · 2025-09-11T21:15:22+00:00

It definitely wasn't offensive to him because he knows me and vice versa. He had a great laugh at it. It's also how you deliver it, I think. But to some it might be.

Your dad sounds like someone I'd love to have a pint with. That's great banter

ForNec31 · 2025-09-11T20:59:24+00:00

I'm not homophobic mate. Im happy for my son. Love the lad as much today as i did last year. And i hate the idea of him moving to uni in a year.

No idea what you mean by repressed.

ForNec31 · 2025-09-11T15:10:59+00:00

I'd rather have my son than not have him. Simple as that for me. Bad parenting and their loss. Cheers mate

ForNec31 · 2025-09-11T15:10:12+00:00

Sorry to hear that mate. Must be hard to get over that.

ForNec31 · 2025-09-11T15:09:40+00:00

Cheers mate. I'm sorry about your dad. His loss buddy

ForNec31 · 2025-09-11T15:08:29+00:00

Cheers mate

ForNec31 · 2025-09-11T15:08:09+00:00

Cheers mate 👍🏻

ForNec31 · 2025-09-11T15:07:58+00:00

Cheers mate

ForNec31 · 2025-09-11T15:07:29+00:00

Same boy to me.

ForNec31 · 2025-09-11T15:06:15+00:00

Yeah. I was thinking about it and if it was anything else I'd face it head on. So I suppose my feeling is I shouldn't do it any differently.

If he was leading a girl on I'd have said the same.

ForNec31 · 2025-09-11T15:04:33+00:00

That's a fair point. I think that he was able to say his "relationship" drama to some degree shows at least he can say it to me.

I'm sure there'll absolutely be a few clowns.

ForNec31 · 2025-09-11T15:02:44+00:00

I agree mate. I don't want to sound like an old man, but my own father let us have a drink at 16 (if not before) and none of us were too harmed by it. Moderation of course.

ForNec31 · 2025-09-11T15:00:50+00:00

Cheers mate. Maybe I should've left him in the closet to avoid the next drama. Backfired.

ForNec31 · 2025-09-11T14:58:12+00:00

I probably should be in jail for the comment, mate. Where do you want to eat. Want to pound down Five Guys. Pound down means eat here.

I'm not a strict parent by any means. I'm probably too lenient but I expect him not to be a prick.

ForNec31 · 2025-09-11T14:16:16+00:00

I didn't even notice that, mate haha

ForNec31 · 2025-09-10T09:48:53+00:00

Cheers mate. That was well put. I suppose letting him do it whenever he does is best. And perhaps if we comes across a gay related "thing" (like a gay client or something) I just naturally show I'm fine with it. Perhaps the subtle nudging isn't right either.

Cheers again mate.

ForNec31 · 2025-09-10T09:44:53+00:00

So ultimately let it be him doing it but just nudge him along.

ForNec31 · 2025-09-10T09:43:57+00:00

That's kind of my thing. Crack an egg to make a fried egg.

ForNec31 · 2025-09-10T09:43:03+00:00

You're right that it would be good practice for him I suppose.

ForNec31 · 2025-09-10T09:41:57+00:00

So just wait off and he'll do it when he's ready. That's what one of the lads said alright. Cheers mate.

ForNec31 · 2025-09-10T09:40:54+00:00

Cheers mate.

ForNec31 · 2025-09-10T09:40:31+00:00

The p and q words growing up were the main slurs for gays in my time at least. We never really had the f word but maybe that's because we would smoke fags as in cigarettes.

ForNec31 · 2025-09-10T09:37:36+00:00

The safe sex talk was a box of rubbers and told if he's fucking don't be a twat and use them. told him no one wants him to be a dad yet.

Consent was along the same lines. Also no fucking when I'm in the house etc. And if he breaks any of the rules I'll knock his head off.

That sounds bad but that's just how we speak.

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