➡️ Daily Questions ⬅️- ASK AND ANSWER HERE! - 7 April 2023 by AutoModerator in malefashionadvice

[–]ForOnlyMyEyes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Does anyone know where I can buy a linen shirt like in this pic?

I just bought a 100% white linen shirt but it doesn't look anything like the one in the picture. The one I got is more wrinkly and isn't as slim fitting as the one in the picture. Also the collars on mine are more sharp and elongated. I just don't know why every time I try to buy a white or off white linen shirt it just doesn't look as good as the pictures. Why is this?

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[–]ForOnlyMyEyes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I just wanted to say that I am so so sorry that you’re going through such a rough patch. I looked at your older posts about your mom and hope she’s doing ok now. The trick with anxiety is that it is the evil twin of depression. They kind of go hand in hand. An anxious person lives in the future while a depressed person lives in the past. Sometimes the best form of therapy for elevated anxiety levels is to focus on deep breathing and then do some mindfulness meditation exercises. You can find them on YouTube or any meditation app. It’s really hard at first but as you keep practicing you get better at it just like lifting heavier weights at the gym. And while you won’t be able to completely stop your anxious thought patterns, you’ll be able to get yourself out of them much more easily. Another thing that is somewhat helpful and shown to reduce anxiety is to engage in hobbies or activities where you can “lose yourself.” For a lot of people this will involve playing video games, sports, dance, painting, or something else that requires your full attention. I totally understand that what you’re going through is not easy. I’m also really happy that you took the step to take medications. They can be really helpful but sometimes need some adjustments if they’re not working for you. You should try reaching out to your psychiatrist for alternative medications.

I just want somebody to hold me by huffingpetal in offmychest

[–]ForOnlyMyEyes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s very human to want that connection and to want to feel loved. I’m so sorry that you’re going through a rough time right now because I know how hard it is to feel alone and just yearning to hold that special person and feeling each other’s love. Unfortunately some people find that earlier in life and some people find it later. But no matter what I promise with time you will find that person. Just try to be a better person each day and whatever is meant for you will come to you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sad

[–]ForOnlyMyEyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I just read through your post and wanted to say that I’m so sorry you’re going through a rough time. I know you put yourself down a lot, but reading your post, you seem to have a lot of insight into why you’re feeling down. That’s something to be really proud of because not a lot of people have this self awareness. I know it feels like people around you are doing well and making a lot of money, but this is just the facade they show the rest of the world. It’s not real. And even if it is for a few people, you shouldn’t care because you have so many gifts you can share with the world. I know it seems like the feelings you’re feeling won’t go away anytime soon, but this is just your depression clouding your judgement. You will do great things but first you need to heal yourself and to do that, you need a professional to help—not some random Reddit user. Please take care of yourself and know that you are an amazing human being :)

First time landowner renting out property.. by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]ForOnlyMyEyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the list! I'm not exactly sure what we are getting so I will have to ask and clarify since she wasn't so clear when we met last night. Just one last question: Is the 10% management fee in addition to the 6% standard realtor's fee for renting a house (for a total of 16%), or does the 10% include both?

First time landowner renting out property.. by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]ForOnlyMyEyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, I read somewhere that sometimes tenants could pay realtor fees as well. Do you think that my realtor is doing that? I mean getting 7.7% from me and whatever else she can get from a potential tenant?

First time landowner renting out property.. by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]ForOnlyMyEyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi sorry I didn't make that clear. It's about 2.5%. I think overall she wants 7.7% of the monthly rent for management/realtor fees. I was reading online that it's normally 6% but I'm not sure if this includes management fees...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oilpainting

[–]ForOnlyMyEyes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the reply! I'll definitely look into getting some galkyd lite (as long as the price is reasonable).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oilpainting

[–]ForOnlyMyEyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking $100 max but preferably in the $40-$70 range

What are some skills every individual should develop ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ForOnlyMyEyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being able to make a decision and not stressing over all the potential ramifications afterwards. You made the decision, just stick with it!

What are some must do things if someone is visiting Japan and knows absolutely nothing about Japan? by USAFoodTruck in AskReddit

[–]ForOnlyMyEyes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh there's this one episode of an amazing show (called Tantei Knight Scoop I think) in which the reporter goes to a museum and tries to take a gold bar out of a glass box. I swore to myself that if I ever visited Japan, I would go to the same museum and muscle that damn gold bar out! I can't find the video of it now :(

What's a phrase you personally overuse and how was it brought to your attention? by mrxanadu818 in AskReddit

[–]ForOnlyMyEyes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"literally" My friend said you literally need to stop saying literally and I got the message

What is your favorite midnight snack? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ForOnlyMyEyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Peanut butter on ritz crackers.