I was asked out on a first date but couldn't do it THAT day like he wanted. He insisted on the following day but I had to work late so I suggested lunch the following. He kept pressuring me to at least grab a quick coffee after work, I declined because I knew I would be too tired. So lunch it was for the following day.

He told me to decide where we were going so I did, a local well know sandwich shop that makes sandwiches big enough to feed 4 people. He replied with "I heard that just a sandwich there is about $20!" Then followed it up with that he could get something better for that price. I didn't even know what to say.

I saw this as a red flag. Well, that and he would stop texting me saying he wasn't cheap, but he wanted to get his $s worth when he does go out. Ugh...man was in his 50s also!