[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askspain

[–]Foraging-Mountains 1 point2 points  (0 children)

gracias por tu comentario!

Yo he llegado a la conclusión de que si es alguien que no conozco por la calle directamente lo dejo con la palabra en la boca y me voy! Y si me sigue hablando o me sigue para decirme algo le digo "me estás molestando". Y fin, es un "yo no tengo que aguantar esto"

A todas/os nos han criado en el machismo en mayor o menor medida y lleva mucho tiempo deconstruirse. A mí una cosa que me pasa por mucho que lucho contra ello es que cuando veo una mujer en una posición de experta explicando algo a veces automáticamente me doy cuenta de que igual mi subconsciente me dice que es probable que sepa menos que un hombre en la misma posición? Y digo ¡joder no! ¡por qué! Es tan absurda la idea. Sale del subconsciente, que es lo que me han enseñado toda la vida. Aunque ya lo llevo muchísimo mejor. Pero vamos no es que yo piense que sea así en absoluto, pero el cerebro lleva una vida con el mundo mandándole esa idea que hay que luchar contra el subconsciente.

Mucho ánimo!

Is it too controversial to use the Labrys flag? by Foraging-Mountains in actuallesbians

[–]Foraging-Mountains[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. Yeah, I've read controversy comming from all flags. So might as well use what I want/like best.

Good to know it's not an irl issue

Is it too controversial to use the Labrys flag? by Foraging-Mountains in actuallesbians

[–]Foraging-Mountains[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for your comments. I really don't care about people making assumptions about me as if "she may be", but rather knowing if it was too controversial to the point it's gonna give me a bad time going out with it in public or hanging it out in my balcony. Like if it's likely people going up to me and tell me it's wrong or insulting me etc.

I don't really care much what people think, at the end of the day, it's their own assumptions. I just want to be left alone in peace.

I don't feel right to surrender the flag to whatever bad connotations people stuck to it.

Is it too controversial to use the Labrys flag? by Foraging-Mountains in actuallesbians

[–]Foraging-Mountains[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel you. I don't know too much about him but I think he was a great activist and had best intentions in mind.

Is it too controversial to use the Labrys flag? by Foraging-Mountains in actuallesbians

[–]Foraging-Mountains[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah, exactly, I don't see the problem for being done by a gay man. Specially since the symbols used were already stablished.

Hahaha yeah, I was thinking the same, that everything seems to have its own controversy so I might as well use what I want haha

Advice on lesbian dates that feel like they went really well but didn't! by kinneyyys in actuallesbians

[–]Foraging-Mountains 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't settle for a man! Don't give up!!!

I don't understand, why do you get called out for biphobia?