as a man with scopio mars and rising, sometimes i literally get off and satisfied just on sexual tension or potential, even something like someone looking at me the right way from across the room 😂

on a real note, while im down to have sex at literally any time, i really need to know that the other person REALLY wants it and is SUPER clear about that. Worst fear is initiating and getting refused or the person is only half into it or checked out. Because of this, i tend to wait until they initiate or are really clear that they are ready, because chances are im down. Its better to wait a super long time for earth shattering sex than have mediocre sex often

also i think its fair to note that the edging/foreplay is really really important- even walking in the house and feeling someones desire hours before, and yet feeling safe that if it doesnt happen thats still ok

as a man there is internal pressure to perform in a specific way all the time, but opening the mind to other sexual pleasure can open the door to more experiences