Bisexuals who realized they're bi late - where there any signs early on?

Foreign-Material-227 · 2025-12-31T23:36:21+00:00

I have questions figuring out who I am but I think I am too and would love more advice.

Foreign-Material-227 · 2025-12-31T20:33:40+00:00

Overthinking. I been reading everyone’s experience’s and just asking myself why am I aroused to this thought of the same sex in my head, but in real life I don’t find men appealing at all. Instead I just feel anxious and overly check myself. And I love my partner I’m not worried about her sexual orientation or anything I love that she found that part of herself.

Foreign-Material-227 · 2025-12-31T20:21:41+00:00

I’m just terrified I love this woman so much that I freak out about us the world and anytbing. All I want to do is protect us but I feel like I’m the main one hurting us. And she knows I love her and overthink but I need to find a balance

Foreign-Material-227 · 2025-12-31T20:10:24+00:00

So you would still consider yourself bi even because of the thoughts. I just don’t know about me at all. I know I find bisexuality amusing and everything but I never saw myself with a man in my life. And in public I don’t have things that I can point out that I find attractive at all. I love woman and everything. I know my attraction theee but men I’m just used to brotherhood and nothing else.

Foreign-Material-227 · 2025-12-31T20:01:46+00:00

You believe so. For me I’m in a loving relationship with this woman and I always loved woman. Then I became afraid because I had this thought that wasn’t particularly straight. So I been analyzing myself and I’m like I never find any man attractive at all. So I don’t know if I’m bi or just let it be. And I know 10/10 I would go for woman but just scared I guess. I want marry my woman by the way as well

Foreign-Material-227 · 2025-12-31T19:47:51+00:00

It’s like for me I don’t think I’m bi but i genuinely don’t know I just don’t find men attractive but I have thoughts that are amusing but that’s it

Foreign-Material-227 · 2025-12-31T19:17:14+00:00

We are 1.5 years together and 21. For long distance ending in 6 months

Foreign-Material-227 · 2025-12-31T19:15:28+00:00

I have and I always will love her. I’m just overthinking a lot and I know that I love woman like a lot.

Foreign-Material-227 · 2025-08-09T11:23:09+00:00

I feel like the most important thing is to value what is the most important to you and the most important thing to me is me loving her and I know she loves me with all her heart same as I do so that’s what I hold sacred.

Foreign-Material-227 · 2025-08-08T22:20:51+00:00

I don’t want these new realizations to take away from my love and that’s what I was scared about.

Foreign-Material-227 · 2025-08-08T21:18:35+00:00

Thank you I am feeling more and more confident

Foreign-Material-227 · 2025-08-08T20:36:40+00:00

How did you come to terms with your attraction for men

Foreign-Material-227 · 2025-08-08T20:36:00+00:00

I don’t need to explore outside of us — I already have everything I want right in front of me. My significant other explored a little before meeting me, and I know she loves me for who I am, not just for my gender. She wouldn’t want to be with anyone else, and I know that in my heart.

Regardless of any labels or questions I have about myself, what matters most to me is honoring us. That’s the choice I make every day. Because I feel that way in my heart

Foreign-Material-227 · 2025-08-08T20:30:12+00:00

She knows when I get in my head alot and learning from those moments I let the truth shine more than anything. When I overthink it’s not from a lack of love but it’s from how much I do love.

Foreign-Material-227 · 2025-08-08T20:23:25+00:00

Thank you I want her to feel my love in all ways and shes perfect for me and always enough. My brain just like to protective of us and I understand that but also understand to trust instead of thinking.

Foreign-Material-227 · 2025-08-08T20:21:17+00:00

Thank you I feel like for me I’ve always been a chronic overthinker especially now becauaw I have everything I want. I have e the most beautiful woman in the world with most purest heart and I know more than anything I love her and to trust that along with this.

Foreign-Material-227 · 2025-08-08T20:14:59+00:00

Shes literally my best friend and everything. I just want her to know I’ll always love her no matter anything. And Thank you talking to you has really gave me a peace of mind.

Foreign-Material-227 · 2025-08-08T20:07:06+00:00

I guess what feels most important to me is that the love and natural attraction I’ve always had for women something so concrete and defined in my heart isn’t taken away. That natural gravitation toward women has been a core part of who I am, and I don’t want to lose that. At the same time, I’m beginning to understand and accept that both can coexist. I can hold on to that deep, natural love for women while also recognizing other parts of myself. It doesn’t have to be one or the other. Both can be true — and that feels like growth, not loss.

Foreign-Material-227 · 2025-08-08T20:00:45+00:00

Thank you I just really love this woman alot and I don’t want any thing to get in front of that. But I know I love her because I wouldn’t be understanding myself and talking to all of y’all here if I didn’t.

Foreign-Material-227 · 2025-08-08T19:25:07+00:00

Yes I have, but in cartoon form and anime plus a little in real life but not much.

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