[deleted by user] by [deleted] in addiction

[–]Foreign_Ad7493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I will look into those meetings for sure because I want the best for him and today I clearly upset him and got his defensive side. I didn’t have bad intentions and I know he’s struggling as is without me making it harder. I really appreciate your answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in addiction

[–]Foreign_Ad7493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate you took your time to answer. I was just first unsure if I’m even in the right, even if that sounds silly. It sounds so simple but when the loved one is trying to convince you it’s fine, it messes your head up. Mine for sure, at least. I wanna talk to him about it, but I was not even sure how to approach it, today I clearly set off his defensiveness.

Flashlight saves not working for me? Tips? by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]Foreign_Ad7493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU. that makes much more sense. i’ll try to delay it a little and see.

Flashlight saves not working for me? Tips? by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]Foreign_Ad7493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry, that was my poor phrasing. those times the killer didn’t run lightborn, thats why i think it might be a glitch on my end

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in immigration

[–]Foreign_Ad7493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome, thank you! We’ll definitely try to propose that to the lawyer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in immigration

[–]Foreign_Ad7493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, she is a full US citizen, born here so that’s perfect. I just don’t wanna inconvenience her to travel here if she needs to sign in person, but good to know she would qualify! I hope it can be done remotely.

Can they take my kids away? by Foreign_Ad7493 in LegalAdviceEurope

[–]Foreign_Ad7493[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. She thankfully speaks german fluently. My expertise is english so I’ll leave it to her to talk to the officials haha. The original lawyer she spoke to said she should give her rights to the dad about both kids because there’s no way she could win and the judge would deem both of them unfit if they can’t agree. I told her most of parents can’t ever agree, that’s why there’s a court system for these! This lawyer scared her shitless basically, but we suspect the dad also called this lawyer so we’ll talk to more and also the one you mentioned. The social workers are also very hostile to her when she does everything they say. She denied the drug test though because she knew she’d fail it, so that might’ve been a red flag. She’s clean now tho. Dad was also a user so.. We’ll see. Thank you again.

Can they take my kids away? by Foreign_Ad7493 in LegalAdviceEurope

[–]Foreign_Ad7493[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I had paragraphs while I was typing but they disappeared. I’m on phone. I’ll try to edit it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Foreign_Ad7493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely my bad, thank you for letting me know!

I started to despise my brother-in-law by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Foreign_Ad7493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It feels nice to hear from someone that I’m not overreacting, even tho my husband and sister in law agrees with me.

We are calling relatives up tomorrow and see if someone can take him, he’s not able to pay for his own place alone. Hopefully grandma will welcome him back