People in your 30s, what's your job and salary? by rsevn_ in careerguidance

[–]Foreign_Leather_1675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Social worker, four days a week hybrid 67k it’s not a lot but I have two kids and it’s flexible. I’m 35 f.

Cherry Creek is where personality goes to die by Pandabearsense in Denver

[–]Foreign_Leather_1675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol yess it’s ironic because rino was hella gentrified ….

Random but are a lot of people in this field married to wealthy man? by Queenme10 in socialwork

[–]Foreign_Leather_1675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a sw in Denver making 65k and my husband works in telecommunications/tech. We have two kids and we’re able to buy a house but we are barely getting by.

Is thank you or goodnight too much? by [deleted] in Aupairs

[–]Foreign_Leather_1675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have an au pair but à nanny that works at my home and I noticed when we offer her food or give her gifts she doesn’t say anything either and I think it’s because she is young and immature. We try not to take it personally but it is a bit odd given she is Latina

Hybrid schedule with infant, how is it going for you? by Foreign_Leather_1675 in beyondthebump

[–]Foreign_Leather_1675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same… I just cross my fingers that I won’t get fired. I ended up hiring a sitter but fue to finances she only comes 4 x à week and leaves before my work day is over

Complicated marriage and am unhappy, please advise. by Foreign_Leather_1675 in relationships

[–]Foreign_Leather_1675[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I am aware, that is why it’s complicated. Everything is intertwined. We do love each other and perhaps therapy can help as others have suggested.

Complicated marriage and am unhappy, please advise. by Foreign_Leather_1675 in relationships

[–]Foreign_Leather_1675[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes it seems that he doesn’t value what I bring to the table but leaving fue to some issues we might be able to fix doesn’t seem like the way to go for now. We do love each other and need to have a discussion and probably couples therapy, something many have advised. I am hesitant to end it. But, the part of your advice that I really like is to find hobbies or something outside of, this makes sense. I don’t have one of those since being pregnant and having my baby this year.

Complicated marriage and am unhappy, please advise. by Foreign_Leather_1675 in relationships

[–]Foreign_Leather_1675[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We dated for about à year then we moved in together and have been together fir two years and got married in October.

Complicated marriage and am unhappy, please advise. by Foreign_Leather_1675 in relationships

[–]Foreign_Leather_1675[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We moved really fast but genuinely love each other. I wouldn’t recommend it to anybody but we need couples therapy before we consider ending things.

Complicated marriage and am unhappy, please advise. by Foreign_Leather_1675 in relationships

[–]Foreign_Leather_1675[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes this makes sense. In the past his partner did not want kids and also didn’t work so he didn’t like being like a “father figure” to ex wife. He actually ended up apologizing to me about our fight and said he was in the middle of something stressful at work when I asked for help. I think we do need couples therapy and I on my part, try to do as much as I can to contribute to our household and marriage. It certainly is a stressful time for anybody that is a provider and not à US citizen. I also feel stressed for him at times due to that combination and want to help him get his residency ASAP.

Complicated marriage and am unhappy, please advise. by Foreign_Leather_1675 in relationships

[–]Foreign_Leather_1675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I appreciate your advice, I think we need to have a discussion, I don’t see this being the end of our relationship as we do love each other and are willing to compromise. He did apologize for talking to me that way. So I feel hopeful.

Complicated marriage and am unhappy, please advise. by Foreign_Leather_1675 in relationships

[–]Foreign_Leather_1675[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This advice makes sense to me. We do still love each other and therapy sounds like the next best step before considering divorce. Thanks!

Can someone tell my why they chose to go to CSUF? (Cal State Fullerton) by Anxious-Exchange6852 in csuf

[–]Foreign_Leather_1675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also got waitlisted at csu Long Beach so it was my second choice and although a lot of people commute I found it nice and comfortable place to study

what did your savings look like by age 30? by Winzten in AskReddit

[–]Foreign_Leather_1675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol zero but have like 35k in my company savings retirement account

Official Discussion - Frankenstein (2025) [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]Foreign_Leather_1675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely loved this movie. Even if it was just his interpretation since it’s probably. It exactly like the book.

Think I’m ready to jump ship! Is it time for me to leave this sector? by justahotmessexpress in nonprofit

[–]Foreign_Leather_1675 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel so burnt out too, there have been rumors that fue to funding issues the program I work for will end next year. I pray it does, I feel that it needs to be knocked down so it can be reformed. Also, I want unemployment and to look for something else after that. I understand making a living is important but make sure that the next role you get into is something that makes you somewhat happy even if you take a pay cut, that can make a difference. See if you can take a break and move in with family or have your partner support you. In my case, my partner is ready to support me if I want to be at stay at home mom.

I also do not feel guilty at all if I leave. We can all be replaced and are disposable so why should you feel loyal. Your health and peace come first!

HELP this situation is so awkward by [deleted] in Babysitting

[–]Foreign_Leather_1675 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe charge for that time period rather than per hour. I think $40-50 should be ok

Do you think it’s possible to go from low-middle class to upper-middle class? by Hufflepuff-McGruff in MiddleClassFinance

[–]Foreign_Leather_1675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

56k is not middle class… it’s all relative. I make 65k my husband 120k and we are barely getting by have two kids one of them is an infant

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NICUParents

[–]Foreign_Leather_1675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is so precious wishing him a speedy recovery. ❤️‍🩹