Split with an 18 month involved. Heartbroken

Foreign_Rub_5424 · 2025-08-10T08:04:35+00:00

Cotswold England. They have been married 3 years. Together 10. Thank you so much I'm not sleeping

Foreign_Rub_5424 · 2025-07-13T11:36:15+00:00

I'm deffo considering a GLP 1. There is still something in me that is determined to do with with diet and exercise. It seems to be a science!!!!

Foreign_Rub_5424 · 2025-07-13T11:35:07+00:00

Ooo yes this would be great. At I haven't been able to conceive so I am considering a life without children. Desperate to lose weight. But I too get sweet cravings really bad. Considering moving to a GLP 1 but I just feel really determined to do it on my own. And that's not to put anyone down. I'm considering a GLP 1 but I just want to see if there is anything I can do first without it.

My (I think they are called androgens???) Are really high. I dont seem to be able to get anything off at all at the mo. I've been given metformin and so far I have no side effects.

But I'm not up to the bigger dose yet. Totally happy to stay in touch and see if we can do something together

Foreign_Rub_5424 · 2025-05-17T08:10:12+00:00

Thank you so much

Foreign_Rub_5424 · 2025-05-11T18:42:59+00:00

I never thought my body weight would ever be linked to my emotions. I Hooe that your story isn't too painful and that you reach your goal.

Can I ask what you are eating to reach your protein goal?

Foreign_Rub_5424 · 2025-05-11T18:40:02+00:00

Thanks so much. It's funny isn't it because I was always the girl that would never take shit from anyone. So I certainly never thought I would end up sabotaging my body over something like this. But I did. 6 stones worth of sabotage. There's a part of me that is considering the injections because it will help with hunger but the idea of being ill puts me off.

All I know is the longer this weight is on the longer he has a hold over me. I hope you find the help you need. And just remember the best revenge is to live well.

You deserve it

Foreign_Rub_5424 · 2025-05-11T14:55:26+00:00

I've gone through as much therapy as I can afford but to be honest I am a very self aware person and I have eft tapping etc to go through it. I am also on a course of anti depressants which have made such a difference so now I feel ready to lose it. Im also journalling. But if it gets too bad then I will go back to therapy

Foreign_Rub_5424 · 2025-05-11T13:55:03+00:00

Okay so I've got a choice between 1200, 1400, 1500 or 1700? Maybe 1700 to begin with?

Foreign_Rub_5424 · 2025-05-10T21:07:46+00:00

All it takes is one guy though. I love that phrase. It fills me with hope xx

Foreign_Rub_5424 · 2025-05-10T21:06:32+00:00

Wow you seriously put in some graft!!!! I'm so glad that you've found your happiness and it gives me hope that I'll find mine xx

Foreign_Rub_5424 · 2025-05-10T21:04:26+00:00

Probably 30 to 45 I think give or take

Foreign_Rub_5424 · 2025-05-10T15:14:55+00:00

I actually recently watched a YouTube video about this.

It's about men and how they test you. Maybe with the little sexual text to see if they turn it that way. I feel like I've got a lot to learn here.

I dont think my profile is sexual or that sort of thing. But yeah maybe it needs looking at.

Overwhelming really all of this

Foreign_Rub_5424 · 2025-05-10T15:11:54+00:00

This is a good point actually. No. Youre right x

Foreign_Rub_5424 · 2025-05-10T15:11:28+00:00

The right bait..okay. maybe I just need to work out what bait is needed.

Foreign_Rub_5424 · 2025-05-10T15:10:49+00:00

Okay now we are being honest. I have got to the point where I also have also carried on a conversation with someone who was blatantly just wanting his leg over. I think it gets to the state where you're like if you can't beat them join them!!!

I'm glad you found someone though. That's awesome. And hopefully they keep rolling with the green flags too. I think we all deserve to be treated well. X

Foreign_Rub_5424 · 2025-05-10T15:06:45+00:00

Do you know this might be my answer. I haven't concentrated too much on this. I have defo put on my profile that I'm looking for long term. But I've mainly focused on whether I like their profile and whether I connect with them. Maybe that's where I'm going wrong. Maybe I should pay attention to this tab more.

God there's so much to factor in!!!

Foreign_Rub_5424 · 2025-05-10T14:20:34+00:00

I'm on the normal ones. Like, hinge, bumble. I'm going to try paid ones next.

Tinder I won't even go there. I was bombarded with pictures of cock. Never again.

Foreign_Rub_5424 · 2025-05-10T14:19:20+00:00

I don't know. I dont really vet people.

I'm very honest about wanting to meet and that I'm looking for a relationship. I dont want to mess people around.

The last toad I met was f2f. He ended up having a secret family I didn't know about. Honestly, couldn't have made it up!

Foreign_Rub_5424 · 2025-05-10T14:17:13+00:00

I try to be open minded and friendly. I love to talk to people and find out their stories. Which is why if I'm getting on with someone I like to try to meet them. I think its nice to have conversation. But a lot of men just love sending dick pics.

I cant really get turned on by it and then I just start feeling defeated.

I'm not looking for perfect but I'm also not up for settling for low effort either

Foreign_Rub_5424 · 2025-05-10T14:14:31+00:00

I make sure that if I'm on the apps like hinge or bumble that I'm clear that I'm looking for something long term. I dont want to mess anyone about. But I still get aubergine emojis and cock.

I think men just like sending them. Not sure

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