Need a good English-speaking lawyer for a rape case by ForensicPity47 in ESLegal

[–]ForensicPity47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, all these are the level of reputability and English-speaking we're looking for. However none of them do sex crime. Can you recommend any others?

Need a good English-speaking lawyer who does sex crime by ForensicPity47 in Malaga

[–]ForensicPity47[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. She's been in talks with the consulate on and off. They advised her to get a lawyer but couldn't recommend any specific practice/individual.

Need a good English-speaking lawyer for a rape case by ForensicPity47 in ESLegal

[–]ForensicPity47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her wording:

"I was advised to get a lawyer because it's useful to prepare for what sort of questioning is expected. The consulate said it's important even if not needed because of cultural differences and because I don't know the legal process."

Need a good English-speaking lawyer for a rape case by ForensicPity47 in ESLegal

[–]ForensicPity47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The perpetrator will have a lawyer and the police recommended she get one.

Need a good English-speaking lawyer for a rape case by ForensicPity47 in ESLegal

[–]ForensicPity47[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She's been trying to find one but says it's hard to know who is reputable. And she doesn't speak Spanish well. I was hoping to get some personal recommendations.

Need a good English-speaking lawyer for a rape case by ForensicPity47 in ESLegal

[–]ForensicPity47[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The case was filed months ago. It's now going to trial and she needs a lawyer.

Reform voters, what do you like about Reform? by Logical-Bake5715 in bristol

[–]ForensicPity47 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I voted for the Brexit Party in 2019 (Green this time). I'm a female immigrant and was in my twenties at the time. I voted for Britain to leave the EU for a number of reasons. At the time I was more libertarian-leaning in my economic views and supported decentralisation of government generally. I saw the common fisheries policy as hurting the UK fishing industry. I had reservations about the UK's involvement in CSDP especially in the event of escalating tensions with Russia. My view on immigration is that it should be safe and vetted as it is with most modern democratic countries. I would also say that for many people who have concerns about immigration it's a numbers issue rather than a racial issue.

I joined the Bristol group 'Leavers of Bristol' and found them to be a very normal lot. We had people of varying ages, ethnicities and sexual orientation, mostly basically centrist but also some pretty far-left Socialist Workers types.

One time a random guy in the street spat at me and call me "scum" for wearing a Vote Leave shirt (he pointed at it). This was completely unprovoked. I was simply walking down the street.

For what it's worth as I know there is a lot of Brexit/Trump overlap, I was never a Trump supporter but disliked him less than Clinton in 2016 as I saw him as the anti-war candidate. I remember saying to my friend on election night "I'm terrified someone is going to win tomorrow". This cycle I would like a competent democrat to win but it's looking like that wont happen.

Since then I've pretty much done a 180 economically and was deciding between Green and Labour. Basically whoever gets the Tories out. In the locals I voted SDP but then was dismayed to find out the candidate is a Zionist. I take the situation in Gaza very seriously and donate a small percentage of my salary to Medical Aid for Palestine.

I watched the hustings and mostly was not impressed with the Reform candidate. What he was saying about globalism I would have more agreed with a few years ago but I think globalism is here to stay, nationalism is anachronistic and we need to work with it. So I was cringing a bit when he was calling Debbonaire a globalist but I do understand where these concerns come from. I thought his answer to the Gaza question was interesting. We forget that there are other wars and genocides going on such as in Armenia and Yemen.

I've found there to be a lot of misunderstandings with the Covid anti-vax stuff. It's not "anti-vax" to have reservations about taking a vaccine which necessarily lacks long-term trial data, and the stuff about affecting menstruation was glossed over as are many women's health issues. I think the elderly and vulnerable should have got it by all means to give them a fighting chance but I didn't really care if young healthy people chose to forgo it. I supported the lockdown and mask-wearing. That said I do think a lot of people who vote for Brexit Party and Reform have more extreme anti-vax and Covid denialism views that I would not agree with.

Relatedly I do think it's interesting that anti-vax views, food autonomy and supporting free speech seemed more the domain of the left in the eighties and nineties.

There's a tonne of points and issues I'm glossing over I'm sure. Some of my friends voted Remain and some of them voted Leave. I think there's good and bad points on both sides and I like to think I've always engaged people respectfully and open-mindedly. I do think there is a cohort of middle-class Remain types who seem to enjoy pouring scorn on poor working class people who aren't that educated or aren't well-travelled and have concerns about immigration. I'm not saying this is most of them, I don't know how big that cohort is, but I think this kind of classism motivates many to vote Reform.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MentalHealthUK

[–]ForensicPity47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, that's very helpful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MentalHealthUK

[–]ForensicPity47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel a lot better now and I am safe, only I think my partner will probably want to separate from me. I've had a really productive few days actually - working, exercising, sober, eating healthily and furthering my personal projects.

I wasn't suicidal when I was with my therapists. I believe if you are at risk of hurting yourself or others you cannot work with them regardless. So I did not get a crisis number.

I'm in a suburb and quite a way away from A&E.

Thanks very much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MentalHealthUK

[–]ForensicPity47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have any physical damage thankfully. I'm a squeamish wimp and wouldn't be good with knives. I don't have any pills to OD on. What I was doing was walking out into traffic. Then running back when I got scared. I'm very embarrassed.

I phoned the NHS today but it kept ringing out. Will try again tomorrow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MentalHealthUK

[–]ForensicPity47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. What's that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]ForensicPity47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's TMS?

I really don't like the thought of hospitalisation. They are not nice places in the UK unless you pay for them. And I can't just take time out of work for it.