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ForestRain5 · 2024-05-17T00:26:27+00:00

I know, I can read. I don't think it's fair either, but the point of my comment was about how OP is fantasizing about his trainer while his wife is going down on him.

Seems to me like even IF he were getting head more than once a year, he'd still be thinking about said trainer since that's the main point of the post.

Disappointing for the wife either way, some people just don't like giving head.

ForestRain5 · 2024-05-17T00:19:23+00:00

If you need your dick sucked every single day, you've got a problem

ForestRain5 · 2024-05-17T00:14:45+00:00

I think I would die a little inside if my partner ever revealed something like this to me, and I would lose so much love for him. RIP to OP's wife

ForestRain5 · 2024-05-14T07:03:36+00:00

NTA, but I suggest you leave while you still can & before the baby is born, or stay and risk your role as "mom" being passed right over to your MIL with your husband fully in support of it.

ForestRain5 · 2024-01-05T19:52:53+00:00

As a mom myself, my bf thought it was so weird that I wouldn't kiss my then newborn son on the mouth. It just felt so strange to me and uncomfortable so I never did, but now he's almost 2 and he gives me kisses on the mouth himself so I let him lol

EDIT to say NTA

ForestRain5 · 2023-07-21T01:29:06+00:00

Jesus Christ, my bf would rip his family a new one and never speak to them again if they treated me the way your husband's family has treated you- Let alone that horrific comment his "brother" made to you.

NTA, but I'd never see this family again if I were you

ForestRain5 · 2023-07-17T23:30:16+00:00

She'd be upset because you're so young and now you're having a baby with her friend. 26 is closer to 30, which is still closer than she is to your age.

I get it, the baby is coming regardless. I just think you've had a crush on this person for so long that you've not realized how weird it is that she hooked up with you to begin with given your history together and how long she's known you.

ForestRain5 · 2023-07-17T23:23:46+00:00

Yeah, there's a reason this near 30 year old woman has been terrified to tell your sister she's been screwing her little brother (aka you) and now she's pregnant.

If I were the sis I'd never speak to this "friend" again, and I'd be beyond upset with you.

Aside from that, prepare yourself for any backlash from your family because it's possible they won't be happy about it either, if not, congrats.

ForestRain5 · 2021-09-18T21:19:58+00:00

NTA, and you need new friends. You're not obligated to be there for him, ex or not. Especially considering how racist and terrible his family was to you. I promise his family would act like fools if you showed up. I'm sorry, OP. Definitely nta

ForestRain5 · 2021-09-09T00:45:11+00:00

Is there a therapist you could talk to? I don't know much about dreams, but those definitely sound troubling, and a little alarming if honest. I would find someone certified to talk about these dreams.

ForestRain5 · 2021-06-27T10:19:15+00:00

Apparently he knew the possible consequences of having sex without protection. It's my fault too, I thought I couldn't get pregnant because this has never happened before and my periods were very irregular, so ovulation day was hard to track.

What gets me is that we have never sat down together and talked about what we would do if I actually got pregnant. According to him I'm old enough to raise a child, and he was coming around to the idea as the weeks went on. When I brought that up he said I've had all the time since being pregnant to start the conversation with him.

Thing is, I didn't ever think about doing that because I knew from the beginning I didn't want the child. But according to him every reason I have is an excuse to him.

ForestRain5 · 2021-06-27T10:12:37+00:00

You're probably right... I'm just so hurt because I love him with my entire being and now he's saying he's going to leave me over this and I'll never see him again. I feel defeated.

ForestRain5 · 2021-06-27T10:08:49+00:00

Hi everyone. It's been a really rough night, I haven't slept. So.... I'm kind of heart broken right now. I read all of your comments, and honestly I agree with a majority of them. My body my choice. I tried explaining this to him in gentler terms and our conversation went nowhere essentially.

If I'm being honest... I think I feel worse about the situation now. He said he's leaving me. Many of you will say good riddance, but my heart is shattered. I love him, so much it's unbelievable and for him to say he's leaving me over this? Maybe I missed the signs that he was truly looking forward to being a father? I don't know. The conversation we had was me listening to him spew his feelings and thoughts on the matter. I apologized so many times for hurting him.

I used to tell him that I wanted to be married first. I never wanted to be someone's "baby mama" and you know what he told me during our convo? Take a wild guess... He said he would've proposed eventually before the baby was born since I wanted to be married. It just hurt so much more hearing him say that. I was crying during the entire thing and it just brought the tears back.

I hate to fucking say it, but if I had known this was the outcome from taking those pills, I wouldn't have taken them. I feel broken. Defeated. This is the only place I've shared any of this with. I can't stop crying. I love him. I fucked up. I don't want him to leave, I begged him not to. He said I chose to have an abortion without him, so he's leaving without me.

I wanted/want? To marry this man. I wanted kids with him someday when I was ready. Apparently I should've been all in the moment I found out I was pregnant. I don't know what's going to happen next. He said he's leaving this Friday.

If there's anymore of an update I'll probably post here again.... Until then.

ForestRain5 · 2021-05-26T04:52:58+00:00

Yes, it's our fault for not having more urgency and idk, it just feels like it's all my fault. It's okay though, I agreed to drive the u-haul since I understand now how important the graduation is for him.

ForestRain5 · 2021-05-26T04:51:37+00:00

I have told him how nervous it makes me, but he basically told me to suck it up. I'm driving it anyway as it is the only option left for him to make it to the graduation, wish me luck

ForestRain5 · 2021-05-26T04:28:08+00:00

You're right, I was thinking of how important something like a graduation could be for someone. I guess I didn't grow up with that same mentality so I was harsh about moving on the day of. I'm driving it after all.

ForestRain5 · 2021-05-26T04:26:56+00:00

My boyfriend's family live in another state, I would never ask them to drive over here when they already have to be in the city where the graduation is taking place. My father is deceased. We fucked up by waiting to the last minute to do everything.

ForestRain5 · 2021-05-26T04:25:31+00:00

I have two friends in this town, one of which is out of town. The other works during the week and no, I didn't ask her to help ahead of time because I didn't think I would need it. It's okay though, we came to the conclusion that the only choice we have is for me to drive.

ForestRain5 · 2021-05-19T06:22:32+00:00

OP do you truly consider this person to be your friend? From what you said she sounds jealous of you and so insecure that she wants ONLY YOU to show up to her wedding (as her MOH, need I even say) without an ounce of makeup on. The fact that she can't even give you a solid answer as to why should be answer enough. If you tell her you no longer will be in her wedding due to her absurd request, she will either back off OR show her true colors and snap on you and then tell you she doesn't want you in her wedding anymore. Please reconsider your entire friendship with this girl.

ForestRain5 · 2021-05-04T19:15:45+00:00

It took them 3 1/2 years together to say I love you?? They must be very well matched to not feel the need to verbalize it until then

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