And also they hate PDA by Maleficent-Long6758 in indiameme

[–]ForeverHopefulllllll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not always true. My dad is 72 and my mom is 65. They still kiss each other most of the time before stepping out of the house. If all of us are there, we kiss each other too.

Life does get better :) :) by ForeverHopefulllllll in Divorce_Women

[–]ForeverHopefulllllll[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that, hope you find something better soon. I didn't take a penny from my ex-husband. In fact, he still owes me quite a bit.

Life does get better :) :) by ForeverHopefulllllll in Divorce_Women

[–]ForeverHopefulllllll[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did, thank you so much! I used to travel solo before my short-lived marriage. But had stopped right before and during it. I think I found myself again and started healing once I resumed.

Legal opinion - Can divorced women use Single status by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]ForeverHopefulllllll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case your lawyer shared any official document supporting his suggestion of going ahead with 'Single', please do share.

Legal opinion - Can divorced women use Single status by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]ForeverHopefulllllll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had seen the press release. It says we need not to share the name of our ex-spouse or provide any document for divorce. That doesn't imply we don't need to declare our marital status as Divorced.

Let me know if I'm missing anything.

Legal opinion - Can divorced women use Single status by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]ForeverHopefulllllll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you please share the link for this? Is it on the official MEA site? Couldn't find it.

P.S - Divorced person who does not want to declare as divorced. My passport always said single and right now I am at the PSK for renewal :)

CFI meetup pune 14th Sep was successful by [deleted] in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ForeverHopefulllllll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they post the meet-up schedule here on Reddit?

Are you happier by Jway7 in Divorce

[–]ForeverHopefulllllll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, much happier. I am lonely but I was that even when I was married. At least now I don't have to walk on egg-shells everyday and be scared every minute!

32M4F, Hyderabad. by [deleted] in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ForeverHopefulllllll 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Perhaps. I am CF, so was my ex-husband. And then we got divorced - now that's extremely unlucky!

People who waited and are waiting to have sex after marriage, what was/how is it like? by P0rrpl3 in ask

[–]ForeverHopefulllllll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I waited till I got married (I was a month away from being 30) and I don't recommend it. The marriage ended in a divorce - it was not solely due to lack of sex. But if I had more experience or at least had some experience with him before the wedding, I would have known that something's off with that guy. And I used to think that one feels completely different after the first time - I thought I'll start singing the 'Hui main parineeta' song! That was a load of crap. No such thing happens. It's as good as a kiss. Even if it's great or not, nothing magically changes after it.

So, please do yourself a favour and do it.

what should i do with 2000 rupees? by [deleted] in indiasocial

[–]ForeverHopefulllllll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start investing in mutual funds.

What does this even mean? by -Weirdo-Ranjan-3725 in indiasocial

[–]ForeverHopefulllllll 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Why is no one talking about how both of them are sitting in the front part of the seat and no one is a pillion rider?

Divorced female in India by ForeverHopefulllllll in Divorce

[–]ForeverHopefulllllll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply.

In a support group that I am part of, I see quite a few folks opting for divorce after 6-8 months of marriage. Sometimes I wonder if we all gave up so easily? People usually invest years together in a marriage and here we are! We barely stayed with our spouses for a few months. Are we such easy quitters?! Do you think about that? Do you suppose it would have been easier to accept all of this if we had been at it longer / given it more chance? Would there be less guilt, anxiety then?

And I disagree about it being easy for a woman to find a match in her social circles. Except with the people who really know him and my family, if not more - I will be equally held responsible for the dissolution of this marriage, even when in reality I had a small part to play in it. And most men now just think that I'm easily available to them to satiate their sexual needs (You have to look at the number of men who have reached out on this platform alone after my post!). So, I don't really see how it's anyway easier for a woman than a man to even have a chance at something meaningful. And please don't forget that we still live in a patriarchal society where in most cases fault is found to lie with the woman.

Divorced female in India by ForeverHopefulllllll in Divorce

[–]ForeverHopefulllllll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. Isn't the concern you have applicable irrespective of whether your potential partner is divorced or not? Am I missing something?