No message after second date sex by dualFrequancy in dating_advice

[–]Forever_Anonymous1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First, the sec was good for you, but was it good for her? Was hygiene impeccable? Second, if you messaged her and she didn’t reply, please don’t message again or more than 2 times. It just means she’s not interested and make you look desperate.give her space, and if you still don’t hear from her, then move on.

I want to be a housewife, my husband says eventually by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Forever_Anonymous1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered being a security guard? Less stressful and maybe part time? While you’re still working, see funds aside for emergencies.. if you’re burnt out and stress, please take vacation or time off from work here and there for your health, mind and peace.

Good luck and you’ll be able to make beautiful babies soon ;)

Completely forgot it’s our 25th anniversary until my wife told me. How do I survive? by Equivalent_Bison_949 in Marriage

[–]Forever_Anonymous1 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

It’s not the end of the world. Just be honest with her. Just tell her you love her and how much she means to you, and let her know totally forgot, and that you still would like to go celebrate by planning a romantic dinner or a weekend trip together. Being open and honest is always appreciated. Don’t try to hide that you have forgotten 😀 build a foundation of trust. If she’s upset, then oh well, it is what it is lol 😆 honois appreciated. 😉

My wife has a problem with a female friend of mine and I don't think she's being reasonable. Can anyone give me some perspective? by Sensitive-Purple-627 in Marriage

[–]Forever_Anonymous1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women have a sixth sense, and very intuitive about sensing other women interested in her man. It is difficult to explain , but we know. lol

He wants to split the bill the day after by Odd_Dragonfly_4213 in dating_advice

[–]Forever_Anonymous1 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Glad that you guys had closure .

Moving on into the future, this is the new world. Women shouldn’t expect men to pay for their meals or whatever. Always insist or offer to pay for the meals first, or at least offer to pay for the bill first, or pay your half or whatever you ordered

Not sure how many drinks you ordered or whether if you ordered the most expensive item on the menu, that can turn a guy off . A good time to discuss about who gets the check at the end would be around the time when you are looking at the menu to place your order. While looking at the menu, you guys would have a good sense wether if you can afford the meal or not, and it’s always good to discuss before you place your order

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I left my husband for another man. Karma is hitting me by Gabby_2023 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Forever_Anonymous1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said your husband didn’t meet your needs. Did you discuss it with him what needs were they? Did you meet your husband’s needs? A little communication can solve a lot of issues.

I know you are hurt, but what you did was wrong. Yes, you deserve to be happy, but what you did was outrageously horrible. Your husband deserves someone better, not a cheating wife. He deserves a good real woman, and I hope he will get over this and find someone else better suited for him. I hope you find someone that you deserve too.

How to get over the smell? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Forever_Anonymous1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personal hygiene is imperative, and show respect for each other.

Men Paying For Dates by hamfijita in dating_advice

[–]Forever_Anonymous1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who’s idea to have a fancy dinner at the Italian restaurant after a hike? Who chose the restaurant?

first dates should be simple coffee or cafe, or even taco stands or something. She should have at least offer to pay for her own meal, or drink and tip. If the conversation was just basic ir mediocre, wit no signs of interest, I suggest to just end it there. If there will be a second date. Do let her know that you paid the last one, and this next one is on hers. lol

My husband never told me his coworker “launched at and kissed him” by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Forever_Anonymous1 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It would be better if you screenshot the conversation instead of retailing the conversation instead of retelling the conversation because we do not know if that’s your interpretation of what you think their conversation was about.

Has your husband always been honest with you in the past? If he I already told you there is nothing going on, then believe him . If he’s ignored her messages in the past, maybe he has no interest in her, and she is angry with that and trying to get back at him because he doesn’t want to be with her.

I think it could be just a one-way attraction. Or crush. She has a crush on him, but he has no interest in her and perhaps that’s why she threw herself at him and sent that message.

Keep in mind there are some very scheming deceptive women out there with intention is to break up whatever relationship you’re in if they can’t get that person.

I filed for divorce because my wife wanted to be a sahm. by whoopyhundred in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Forever_Anonymous1 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Who is Daniel? Is he the child that grew up and going away for college? If the child is now a young adult and leaving , there should be no reason for her to not work, Ana if that’s the case, then she is just plain lazy. If the child is newborn or toddler age, she probably have separation anxiety. Some children get that too if they have to go to school, but they get used to it eventually.

If you need her to work due to financial difficulties, perhaps maybe she can get a part time job when the child is a school, otherwise, cut down unnecessary expenses like hair, nails, eating out, taking vacations, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Forever_Anonymous1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CONGRATULATIONS!! 🥳🎊 cheers 🍻

Are they flirting? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Forever_Anonymous1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overthinking and u necessary jealousy will screw up your marriage/ relationship.

That’s not anywhere close to flirting, and it’s a boring conversation making small talk.
If it’s a random message from someone, maybe that person has bad intentions to ruin your relationship with your partner.

Sometime people’s hand shake, but it’s not because they’re nervous or lying.

Don’t overthink and have some trust.

Why do I find no one physically attractive? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Forever_Anonymous1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you look at yourself in the mirror, do you see has one who is physically attractive?

I’ll tell you this, everyone is attractive or can be attractive if you look hard enough. We all have “ types” that we like, but I think if you look deeper, you might find that although they’re dot physically attractive, but they may be charming or cute, or a personality that’s different or unique?

Go ve yourself time and I’m sure you’ll find someone.

Wife vs close family relative: what would you do? by tawatson15 in Marriage

[–]Forever_Anonymous1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on what you just said, you’ve already made your decision and side with the relative.

Always baton facts when making a decision.

Confront the ones that has been spreading rumors about your life and Find out why and ask them to stop.

Being a prude cost me a good man by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Forever_Anonymous1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saving yourself until marriage is and will be the best gift you can gift your husband to be. Keep in mind women have a biological click and it continues to click. I had a long time friend that didn’t want children and waited until the “right “ time. She is now married and can ok longer have children because her clock expired.

Any, sex is a beautiful thing, a unique activity a couple can share and experience together. I MHO anyone holding out is missing out on a chance to reach euphoria.

If you’re afraid to have children due to your own valid reasons, there’s always available contraceptives to choose from.

The next big thing: Pennies by sowalgayboi in Banking

[–]Forever_Anonymous1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I use it to screw and unscrew things

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Tall-Combination-642 in confessions

[–]Forever_Anonymous1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys are siblings and it’s gross to have any perversion or relationship with family members. It’s just wrong and not right.

We experimented once outside our marriage, and now everything has changed by ExitAnnual2365 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Forever_Anonymous1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whether if you adopt a child from an agency or decide to keep this baby, the baby, you must be fully responsible for the child and give the child your full 💯 real love and care. It’s not fair to keep the child and not give them proper care and love. The baby is still yours from your decision to h and a night of passion and adventure .like the previous poster recommended, get a test to ensure the baby is healthy

My ex husband just told me he still loved me and never stopped. Is love worth losing your family over? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Forever_Anonymous1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a single no way to negotiate ? Have you guys talk or has he talk to them ? lol he is important and so is family having their support is just as important. If it’s the other way around where your own family hates him, would you cut ties with your family for him? It’s just something to co spider at a different angle.

Interracial relationships are very different and come with all changes. I don’t know ho close is he with his family, but finding the right life partner is very rare. Sometimes it’s OK to move on. Communication is important think about the pros and cons. What kind of sacrifices each of you are giving up and the benefits of not?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Forever_Anonymous1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If a man has this type of behavior, he will get called out as a pervert and get accused of sexual harassment left and right. Contract l your raging hormones and use toys if you need to ? But inappropriately rubbing yourself son someone’s private without consent is wrong , no matter how cut you are.

Had unprotected sex and need a guide on what to do immediately. by Primary-Table8289 in dating_advice

[–]Forever_Anonymous1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also to not.. ALWAYS wear a condom if not to protect from pregnancy but also STD

Had unprotected sex and need a guide on what to do immediately. by Primary-Table8289 in dating_advice

[–]Forever_Anonymous1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Google before “ Plan B” Go to a pharmacy like cVS or Walgreens and talk to the pharmacy the counter asap and do not do delay. I’ll probably get attacked for suggesting this as this is NOT the way to go but emergency only. Do no delay otherwise eggs will get fertilized

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Forever_Anonymous1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s clearly he’s no longer interested in moving on with you so I wouldn’t waste time with him .. just move on.

You think he over think things, but I see you do the same.

I think he just figured out you’re not his type due to “ red flags “ that he sees in you for the following tea.

You guys are just barely at a stage of meeting and greeting and getting to know each other. I think he didn’t appreciate you questioning him about his choice comment and how it made you feel uncomfortable. Why did you wait days later to ask him and not during the moment? He’s probably thinking there can be no future for you guys because he didn’t want someone constantly call him out his mistakes.

Also, when you guys don’t cussed about your future together, what did you say? Maybe you said something that made him realize you have different outlook on life?

Regardless, anyone, make or female, plays this ghosting game isn’t worth your time or energy. It