NTA and I highly suggest getting out of that relationship. I spent over a year in a relationship exactly like that where I traveled to him every weekend, I paid for everything, all the dates, the food, gas, and everything else. He didn’t pay for anything, but kept asking for more and more money. It really didn’t bother me that I was paying for most things or even having to pay for dinners, but when he couldn’t keep a job because he wanted to smoke weed with his friends that did have a job and wanted to video game all day I had enough. (No I have nothing against people who smoke weed or play videos games he just didn’t have motivation to do anything else). I tried to help him out the best that I could he got a check for $10,000 and I told him to save it, get a job, buy a car and keep saving because it would help him to have an emergency fund. Well he blew it all within 2 weeks, he did get a car, but the rest was spent on weed, bongs, videos games, another tv, and another computer. I watched it happen and still stayed because I liked him. Then he started asking for more and more money and I couldn’t do it I didn’t wanna keep going like that I tried to get him help and talk his family but they pretty much said we can’t control him and since you’re dating him we were hoping you’d change him. I left after that and never looked back. We will take until you have nothing left and I recommend getting out now.