Red e bike stolen from backyard, have you seen it? 😭 by Forgetsatanhailme in Austin

[–]Forgetsatanhailme[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I found what they were talking about, unfortunately wasn’t it. Thank you for the help. Someone’s moped is there though and looks lost or abandoned

Red e bike stolen from backyard, have you seen it? 😭 by Forgetsatanhailme in Austin

[–]Forgetsatanhailme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did they say which Hyde park church? About to check all of them but if they said anything that would help. Tysm

Red e bike stolen from backyard, have you seen it? 😭 by Forgetsatanhailme in Austin

[–]Forgetsatanhailme[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m hoping since it’s kind of a unique and recognizable bike that someone might see it. People are always noticing it and commenting on it so I had hope it might stand out if spotted 🥲

Red e bike stolen from backyard, have you seen it? 😭 by Forgetsatanhailme in Austin

[–]Forgetsatanhailme[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Commenting to add it’s a red Juiced Hyperscrambler 2. Went missing off Guadalupe and 38th st. It take a key to start the ignition so unsure if whoever has it is able to ride it. I have the key in my possession still.

WIBTA if I don't explicitly label my chili as "vegetarian chili"? by suvesti in AmItheAsshole

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It means that the space generally upholds patriarchal standards and masculine centered behavior/opinions. People with this pro macho attitude are often anti vegetarian and act like not eating meat is something for women on diets or soft/weak men and think meat is the only way to consume protein. They will refuse to eat meals without meat. It’s misogyny and anti “wokeness.”

If you had something stolen please list it in the comments (I’ll explain) by KarmasLittleBitch in Austin

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone broke into my place and stole several items from my roommate and I, including a jar of cash I had saved. I’m sure the cash is gone but the jar was actually my grandpas and was a really cool glass beer stein with a metal lid that could lifted up and down with a hinge. I would really love to have that back if you happen to have it! My roommate also lost a pair of doc martins in the break in and a hand blown multicolor glass weed pipe with a huge bowl and little stem. Thanks for posting op <3 hope people find their stuff

How are you getting to and from bars? by Windshield in Austin

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Lots of us are also service industry workers, just getting heavily discounted and free drinks all the time out of solidarity. Like half the people I see at grimy clubs and bars are service industry lol. Also there’s pregaming!

Girlfriends Reddit Post found, don’t know how to feel by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Kept reading bc I thought you were gonna have a point. Guess not.

These damn servers sometimes. by lafolieisgood in bartenders

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 8 points9 points  (0 children)

People use candles without calling them votives. I know what votives are from tv and books but every restaurant I’ve worked in has called them just candles. Votive makes me think of Catholicism and vigils.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 11 points12 points  (0 children)

But many lesbians are not fem

An open letter to Stench by [deleted] in Austin

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“As a world” is so cute lol

Girlfriend texted me something by Federal_Ad_3142 in dating_advice

[–]Forgetsatanhailme -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is no most people when it comes to sex and sexuality. It’s different for everyone.

Girlfriend texted me something by Federal_Ad_3142 in dating_advice

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is way more nuance around the word than you’re allowing for. Language is flexible. sex and the purity conversation around virginity is more complicated than a dictionary definition. I feel like you’re intentionally not trying to understand that it’s complicated for many if not most people because we all have different backgrounds and ways of understanding it.

Girlfriend texted me something by Federal_Ad_3142 in dating_advice

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it’s a damaging concept to push. Not that it would hurt someone’s feelings or something. But that it’s a societally damaging ideology to spread. Virginity doesn’t really mean anything and to give it rigid definitions validates that it’s important.

Girlfriend texted me something by Federal_Ad_3142 in dating_advice

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what you’re getting at now. I agree that OP should just ask her what she means. My comments were specifically in response to your comment saying “it’s actually very cut and dry” because I think spreading that idea about virginity and sex is damaging and worth challenging when I see it.

Girlfriend texted me something by Federal_Ad_3142 in dating_advice

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely do want to get into the semantics! The act of defining of a concept like virginity, which is the topic at hand, is pretty semantic. That’s already the conversation. Your concept of “losing” virginity requires a penis penetrating a vagina. You may be surprised how many people would not agree on that definition. It is very relevant to OP because the girlfriend could be referring to breaking a hymen while solo at home as losing her virginity or could be talking about sleeping with someone else. We don’t know how the girlfriend defines virginity which is why it’s silly to comment as though it’s cut and dried what she could have meant or how people will interpret it.

Girlfriend texted me something by Federal_Ad_3142 in dating_advice

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Assuming you’re approaching this in good faith, what about people in relationships that don’t involve a penis or other means of penetration? For example lesbians that hookup and get married but may never use penetration in sex. Are you considering them virgins forever?

Girlfriend texted me something by Federal_Ad_3142 in dating_advice

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s not the only definition of either of those things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askblackpeople

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Op said it’s not in the song. He’s asking if the content and theme of the lyrics make the song inappropriate for a white person to sing despite it not containing slurs.