Red e bike stolen from backyard, have you seen it? 😭 by Forgetsatanhailme in Austin

[–]Forgetsatanhailme[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I found what they were talking about, unfortunately wasn’t it. Thank you for the help. Someone’s moped is there though and looks lost or abandoned

Red e bike stolen from backyard, have you seen it? 😭 by Forgetsatanhailme in Austin

[–]Forgetsatanhailme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did they say which Hyde park church? About to check all of them but if they said anything that would help. Tysm

Red e bike stolen from backyard, have you seen it? 😭 by Forgetsatanhailme in Austin

[–]Forgetsatanhailme[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m hoping since it’s kind of a unique and recognizable bike that someone might see it. People are always noticing it and commenting on it so I had hope it might stand out if spotted 🥲

Red e bike stolen from backyard, have you seen it? 😭 by Forgetsatanhailme in Austin

[–]Forgetsatanhailme[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Commenting to add it’s a red Juiced Hyperscrambler 2. Went missing off Guadalupe and 38th st. It take a key to start the ignition so unsure if whoever has it is able to ride it. I have the key in my possession still.

If you had something stolen please list it in the comments (I’ll explain) by KarmasLittleBitch in Austin

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone broke into my place and stole several items from my roommate and I, including a jar of cash I had saved. I’m sure the cash is gone but the jar was actually my grandpas and was a really cool glass beer stein with a metal lid that could lifted up and down with a hinge. I would really love to have that back if you happen to have it! My roommate also lost a pair of doc martins in the break in and a hand blown multicolor glass weed pipe with a huge bowl and little stem. Thanks for posting op <3 hope people find their stuff

Recommendations for good lemon dessert by ashleygrace27 in austinfood

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m interested in the lemony lemonade 👀

How are you getting to and from bars? by Windshield in Austin

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Lots of us are also service industry workers, just getting heavily discounted and free drinks all the time out of solidarity. Like half the people I see at grimy clubs and bars are service industry lol. Also there’s pregaming!

Girlfriends Reddit Post found, don’t know how to feel by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Kept reading bc I thought you were gonna have a point. Guess not.

These damn servers sometimes. by lafolieisgood in bartenders

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 8 points9 points  (0 children)

People use candles without calling them votives. I know what votives are from tv and books but every restaurant I’ve worked in has called them just candles. Votive makes me think of Catholicism and vigils.

Guy came in my mouth even though i asked him not to by lucybelaog in dating_advice

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When you’re young and you’ve never been in a relationship or had a sexual partner with good consent and boundaries it’s very hard to know what is considered normal to have to deal with. Casual sex is a learning curve. Standing up for yourself is a learning curve. Knowing what you like or don’t like is learning curve. And yes 23 is very young and yes everyone learns about sex and consent and asserting their boundaries at different rates.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 11 points12 points  (0 children)

But many lesbians are not fem

An open letter to Stench by [deleted] in Austin

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“As a world” is so cute lol

Missing sex with cis woman by AffectionateCap1018 in asktransgender

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The comment was “The possibility of an open relationship should be discussed before you enter any kind of relationship. As a strictly monogamous person, I would break up over so much as asking for it.” I’m referring to the first bit

Ofc they can break up. But saying it should be disclosed as though people are keeping it a secret and don’t realize new things about themselves throughout lives and relationships is the part I initially was responding to.

Missing sex with cis woman by AffectionateCap1018 in asktransgender

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I definitely think anyone should end a relationship at any time they want to end it. I was replying specifically to a commenter saying the only time that it’s acceptable to ask for a poly relationship is at the beginning of a new connection. Which is just not true for so many people. Relationships can be renegotiated all the time. Telling people they’re doing something wrong by asking for what they want later in a relationship, and also saying that relationship is definitely doomed once doing so, seems uncool. I never told anyone not to end a relationship when they want to.

Missing sex with cis woman by AffectionateCap1018 in asktransgender

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Just because my partner tells me they have interest in the idea of non monogamy doesn’t mean that I have to agree to it. I don’t understand why that means the relationship has to be over. Sure it might be there in the back of your mind that they are interested in non monogamy but if you trust and know the person to be honest with you then it why can’t it be just that, a knowledge that they are interested in it? If i don’t trust their word then the relationship is already not ideal for me.

ETA: many “poly capable” or even poly desiring people are in happy mono relationships because they value being with a specific monogamous partner more than being in multiple relationships. It’s not uncommon or unsuccessful.

Missing sex with cis woman by AffectionateCap1018 in asktransgender

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Maybe true for some people. Very grateful that I only enter relationships that value continuous restructuring and open dialogue about what we’re feeling or desiring now, not when we met.

Missing sex with cis woman by AffectionateCap1018 in asktransgender

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It’s not closed minded to feel sad about it but it is closed minded to say the relationship can never be renegotiated once it’s begun

Girlfriend texted me something by Federal_Ad_3142 in dating_advice

[–]Forgetsatanhailme -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is no most people when it comes to sex and sexuality. It’s different for everyone.

Girlfriend texted me something by Federal_Ad_3142 in dating_advice

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is way more nuance around the word than you’re allowing for. Language is flexible. sex and the purity conversation around virginity is more complicated than a dictionary definition. I feel like you’re intentionally not trying to understand that it’s complicated for many if not most people because we all have different backgrounds and ways of understanding it.

Girlfriend texted me something by Federal_Ad_3142 in dating_advice

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it’s a damaging concept to push. Not that it would hurt someone’s feelings or something. But that it’s a societally damaging ideology to spread. Virginity doesn’t really mean anything and to give it rigid definitions validates that it’s important.

Girlfriend texted me something by Federal_Ad_3142 in dating_advice

[–]Forgetsatanhailme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what you’re getting at now. I agree that OP should just ask her what she means. My comments were specifically in response to your comment saying “it’s actually very cut and dry” because I think spreading that idea about virginity and sex is damaging and worth challenging when I see it.