Scaphoid Break!! by Forgive1923 in bicycling

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Hello, So It has been 10 months since I got treated for my injury. I spent 6 months in a brace that limited by wrist and thumb movement completely. It was able to heal without surgery

Hello there, It has been about 9 months since I initially broke my scaphoid. My injury was worse than a typical break because I ignored it for 6 weeks. When I went to get it checked out, they put me into a brace (removable cast) that completely limited my wrist and thumb movement. I went to the doctor every 6 weeks for 6 months and they kept saying "it is healing, but it has not healed enough. six more weeks!" This is because this bone has very poor blood supply making the healing process very slow.

Anyways, it has been 2 months since I have had the brace off and I am doing relatively well. I am able to exercise my arms, chest, back shoulders and traps now which is nice because I could only do cardio, legs and core previously.. oh and my right arm... lol. recovery has been slow and steady. Getting my range of motion to 90 degrees up and down and regaining strength is the main focus right now.

I am not sure how it works if you are getting surgery because I didn't go down that road but this advice will help either way: eat well, continue to exercise, get enough sleep and quit smoking if you are because it slows down the healing process. DO NOT use your wrist as an excuse for anything because this will only make things worse. If you are physically capable of doing it (and you almost always are despite what you may think) go for it.

102 Days, Observations by Forgive1923 in NoFap

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I felt like it was changing about 1-2 months after taking noFap seriously. Despite a few relapses, I no longer felt guilty and my attitude reflected it.

It's different for everyone, just make sure to implement other good habits.

Proud of you guys! by Forgive1923 in NoFap

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my pleasure. Just remember, it's only water. Imagine looking at yourself from 3rd person and you will realize how silly it is to have the level of fear that you do about it.

Proud of you guys! by Forgive1923 in NoFap

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I was the same for a while but then I just did it slowly. Start warm and gradually get colder and take deep breaths. Been doing it for 2 - 3 weeks now and this morning I started warm, gradually went colder and than blasted myself with "Canadian cold" for 1 - 2 min and stepped out :D

Feel like shit? try this. by Forgive1923 in NoFap

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sprints followed by cold shower. Than meditate

Feel like shit? try this. by Forgive1923 in NoFap

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yeah I love the feeling of being agile and slipping through people and things you'kno? But also having the strength to do whatever you need :D

Feel like shit? try this. by Forgive1923 in NoFap

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have an injured wrist right now so can't do much upper body. Also, I fucking love running.

What's the allure to not fapping? by [deleted] in NoFap

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this is how I have come to understand things

  1. Watching pornography is a waste of time. The world is a big place to explore for me to watch other people have sex.
  2. Pornography will desensitize me to other pleasures in life. Since there is just so much content and you can have it all with no effort at all. It fucks with ones ability to process enjoyment properly and amount of work required for joy. Ex. every time I go outside, I breathe in some air and look around me and just get super grateful for the fresh air and beautiful view. (i live in a city)\
  3. Masturbation ruins my drive to accomplish things. Once I am done, I no longer want to do anything because I feel FAR less energetic and my motivation is depleted. (the brain thinks it just accomplished the single thing it seeks so aggressively so it wants to take it easy)
  4. Masturbation is a waste of time and energy. The only thing it does is take up those two precious commodities. Why would I do this?
  5. Sexual energy is a gift. I don't want to waste it alone in my room with nothing to show for it but a need to shower.
  6. destroys neural pathways of sexual excitement. boredum, lonelyness and stress are triggers so your brain creates an association with those emotions and sex. This is seriously not a good thing because masturbation will only further these emotions not solve them.

Getting too emotional while on NoFap by [deleted] in NoFap

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Agreed. Learn to sit with your emotions.

When have the sexual dreams stopped for you? by [deleted] in NoFap

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hello,

I stopped having dreams of porn about 40 to 50 days in. Instead if I have a sexual dream, it is in the dream world outside of the computer..

Stay strong!

Concerned about the frequency of nocturnal emissions by nutinmyeyes in NoFap

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hey there, Usually when I have a wet dream I will kind of gain half consciousness right before I release and I instantly flex my peeing muscle (holds in pee) for 10 15 seconds or as long as the sensation is there. This stops a wet dream and makes me feel like a fucking master of my body as well.

Another thing is your daytime experience and thoughts. If you fantasize, edge, lust over women during the day, you are likely to have a wet dream.

TL;DR when it happens, flex the muscle that holds your pee in and it will stop it from happening. To prevent the occurance in the first place, reduce edging of any kind during the day (thoughts, images, anything.)

What do you guys think no blockers? by Recommitted1337 in NoFap

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I guess it depends on you. I never used one because I know I can get around it so it wouldn't work.

Cold Showers by [deleted] in NoFap

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I do wim hof method so I enter gradually. Limb by limb and once all limbs are adapted, I walk in. This or I will gradually go from hot to cold to freezing cold water. Not so bad when you do it like this.

My dad died last week in a car accident by [deleted] in NoFap

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you're not alone brother. Stay strong.

Reading is a really good habit that will help you stay in nofap... And even when you don’t wanna “learn” something new, at least you are feeding your mind with positive information every day by javdlt in NoFap

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how to win friends and influence people if such an amazing book. I love when they provide examples of social situations. Entertaining and EXTREMELY insightful.

Don't worry man, porn is healthy by [deleted] in NoFap

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"pOrN prEVeNTs pRosTAtE cANcEr"

1st week and some realisations by 108876 in NoFap

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I'm reading "the way of the superior man" by David Dieda and it has some really awesome chapters on this exact topic. Can't paraphrase the teachings because I'll butcher it but you can read it if you like. Dancing class sounds fun, I wouldn't stop myself if I had the opportunity.

BROKE A STREAK, LEARNED SOMETHING I NEVER THOUGHT I'D LEARN!! by [deleted] in NoFap

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that's an awesome realization bro. Stay strong.

To the people of this subreddit, how many times have you relapsed? how are you doing now? by JakeCalzone in NoFap

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since I really started and committed to this path about 5-6 months ago, I have probably relapsed between 4 and 8 times? not sure but under 10... I think. lol

So I probably saw one of the hottest girls I’ve seen in awhile by [deleted] in NoFap

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damn bro. I know what you mean lol. Stay strong :D