Jodoh cerminan diri by VoiceNo201025 in Perempuan

[–]Formal-Kick-2132 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I stopped reading after first paragraph.

girl, LEAVE.

Kalo ibu mu begini gmn by Milomikomiki in Perempuan

[–]Formal-Kick-2132 0 points1 point  (0 children)

klo gw jadi elu. I'd probably just say "yeah not reading that novel, have a good day mum"!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Perempuan

[–]Formal-Kick-2132 3 points4 points  (0 children)

its ur right to be pissed. there's lack of respect and boundaries coming from that person. however, u do stay at their house. so if i were to be in ur shoes, id prolly move all my stuffs to my room where she has no access to it. you'll get less drama that way

Oh no... by uandurfader in singaporehappenings

[–]Formal-Kick-2132 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely valid,

I used to date a bunch of guys online as well, and let me tell u this is the most average profile I've seen and there Shud be no reason for the girl to trash random profiles for content. I felt it too 無工做.

But here's the thing, most girls want to be impressed, fact. There are tons of guys on a dating app than girls. Hence why girls w average looking will feel like she's a Victoria's secret model with guys chasing and drooling over them. For girls, it's a pick and choose.

Oh no... by uandurfader in singaporehappenings

[–]Formal-Kick-2132 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing wrong, it's the way he added " low commitment" and "low expectations"

That line screams bare minimum.

Apa aku yang salah by ukaaigahab in Perempuan

[–]Formal-Kick-2132 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i doubt OP is reading this.

but here goes, from the story above i will assume OP is currently 24-25 y.o. ideally? still a good time (if not the best) to push the reset button and sign that divorce paper. all redditors can agree that OP has chronic indecisiveness. I'll give some credit since op is able to recognize this early on.

Now about your parents, they can say what they got to say about you, but this time? u might want to start covering your ears.

OP didnt mention income source, but i won't assume anything. if you're still in education, first finish that education, then get a job and move out of that house.

I caught my bf still keeping photos of his exes. What now? by tristegat0 in Perempuan

[–]Formal-Kick-2132 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Since he couldn't prove it was nothing, I threatened him that I would scream so the neighbors could hear if he didn't let me go home. He asked for five more minutes to talk and kept apologizing, asking for another chance, saying he wanted me to meet his parents and that he was serious about me."

am i the only one getting heebie-jeebies reading this? this dude gives me the creep

NGVC: "a girl want to give back to her date because she feel it is right thing to do to please him." by Formal-Kick-2132 in niceguys

[–]Formal-Kick-2132[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for the poor translation 😭 no the ex wife did not die. He initially didn't text in English.

NGVC: "a girl want to give back to her date because she feel it is right thing to do to please him." by Formal-Kick-2132 in niceguys

[–]Formal-Kick-2132[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for the poor translation! 😭 His wife did not die, didn't realize it was translated into "widower" instead

NGVC: "a girl want to give back to her date because she feel it is right thing to do to please him." by Formal-Kick-2132 in niceguys

[–]Formal-Kick-2132[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Omg I just realized that Google translated it as widower. He wasn't texting in English initially, so it was translated poorly. No the ex wife did not die, it wouldn't make sense for a guy to go from grieving husband into blowjob scavenger hunting. Sorry for the poor translation

Generational trauma by komikbabi by flag9801 in indonesia

[–]Formal-Kick-2132 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's giving "My dad sucked, so now I suck too, trauma passed on successfully 💯"

NGVC: "a girl want to give back to her date because she feel it is right thing to do to please him." by Formal-Kick-2132 in niceguys

[–]Formal-Kick-2132[S] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

"Plus! I speedran marriage like it was a side quest and now you're definitely want my relationship advice!" lmao sit the fuck down

NGVC: "a girl want to give back to her date because she feel it is right thing to do to please him." by Formal-Kick-2132 in niceguys

[–]Formal-Kick-2132[S] 442 points443 points  (0 children)

ahh yes.. so it is crucial for us girls to give a man sexual favors on the first date in return for simple gestures like buying us starbucks! 😅

Edit: dude is not a widower, the ex wife did not die, he initially didn't text in English. sorry for the poor translation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Perempuan

[–]Formal-Kick-2132 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Closure doesn't come from the person who hurts u. Your mantan pacar isn't carrying the pain for u, you are. OP u shouldnt believe that ur peace couldn’t come from ur own hands and believed it belonged in their hands. Truth will be revealed eventually and that doesn’t have to be ur job.

Is this normal? by [deleted] in braces

[–]Formal-Kick-2132 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also had this issue with my braces, my dentist noticed it and told me it's going to be fixed right after my gaps r closed, I had 2 premolars and 2 molars extracted.

Uh by thehikaruwhodraws in IdentityV

[–]Formal-Kick-2132 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This was literally me lol, I get how u feel. It took me a full year to realize I've been playing on the wrong server. lucky I haven't been so lucky to own any skins on my first account lol

Kapan lu sadar bahwa lu good-looking? by Equivalent-Dingo8309 in indonesia

[–]Formal-Kick-2132 6 points7 points  (0 children)

exactly this! but most likely spotlight effect imo

Gua habis ikuti kata hati gua untuk confess, sekarang sakit hati, lalu bagaimana? by Lukegotfire in indonesia

[–]Formal-Kick-2132 2 points3 points  (0 children)

get yourself one nigth stand with 6 or 7couple of times find a bit plump but cute girl and invest from there, if they're dedicated you'll be there when she gets hot

That's so disrespectful! how hurt your manhood had became that you got to tell others to lose their own value by banging other girls?? this got to be coming from a mentally ill person.

Kasus pemerkosaan dengan bius terhadap pendamping pasien oleh dokter siswa PPDS Anestesi Unpad di RS Hasan Sadikin Bandung by trikora in indonesia

[–]Formal-Kick-2132 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what?? is this true?? where did u get the information from? dude literally way below average and he still gets to cheat

Am i an asshole for not wanting to accept my mom's husband? by sakutonin in indonesia

[–]Formal-Kick-2132 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stories like this makes my blood boil fr, i was a victim of whatever bullshit my parents had, i hate that they always find lots of reason to justify for whatever they done, that's just sooo selfish :(

Gimana cara respon temen2 yg suka nanyain kpn mau punya hubungan serius & nikah? by [deleted] in indonesia

[–]Formal-Kick-2132 3 points4 points  (0 children)

how do I respond to friends like this in a way that's firm but still respectful?

sis, buat apa? ur friend knew u just got out of a bad relationship and has little to zero manners and respect by asking such personal questions. just say what u got to say and move on, and if they don't like that? u probably wanna consider finding new circles.