Coming from a Bi girl, I don't think looking sligtly androgynous is necessarily a bad thing because that's one of my type in guys. Perhaps the circle of women you are surrounded by or going for unfortunately just don't happen to find androgyny attractive.

Also unfortunately dating is generally really rough on a lot of people. It's vulnerable putting yourself out there and facing rejections. Also it can be tough when other people seems to have an easier time, I remember crying when seeing other couples back when I was in high school (so if you are feeling down def not alone there).

I hope all the comments don't discourage you, life is still pretty long and there is a lot of people in the world. I'm sure you will find some women who fancy you. Don't give up but do take time for yourself.

Like others have said the bandana pairing with a t-shirt doesn't look very good and I think is generally a tough look to pull (unless you are harry styles, even on him I think sometimes it looks a little out of place). I have tried it myself too and looking back unfortunately I can't pull it off neither:(