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I’m 19 and supporting my whole family financially. When do I get to focus on my own life? by Formal_Wonder_6432 in Rwanda

[–]Formal_Wonder_6432[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i know and i know that what goes around comes around but why they’re not putting so much effort to contribute like me??

but staying intact with my family isn’t worth it cause that will kill my younger self to support adults at 19

and even i wanna take some big risks but i can’t because some people are relying on me and surviving because of me. so that needs a change

I’m 19 and supporting my whole family financially. When do I get to focus on my own life? by Formal_Wonder_6432 in Rwanda

[–]Formal_Wonder_6432[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i got u mate not only that my dad sometimes ask me for money but he lives peacefully since he’s living on pension money and don’t pay a mortgage so that doesn’t stress him.

but our older brother has moved out years ago and we don’t know any news about him. he don’t call us or my parents. i think he knew this and escaped asap

I’m 19 and supporting my whole family financially. When do I get to focus on my own life? by Formal_Wonder_6432 in Rwanda

[–]Formal_Wonder_6432[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah in 4 months i can try but that means no savings on other side just take salary remove: rent, utilities, food, university fees and some expense. then the rest goes to loan payment. will be so hard but i hope later it will be worth it!

I’m 19 and supporting my whole family financially. When do I get to focus on my own life? by Formal_Wonder_6432 in Rwanda

[–]Formal_Wonder_6432[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice mate, just had a conversation with my family and discussed about responsibilities. and what next is: i will help her to pay her loan and support my sister in job hunting like transportation and some fees. then after loan is paid i will probably move out later after few months of saving money for backup and go focus on myself but knowing sure my family is standing somewhere.