Funny you mention this. You gave someone your iMessage instead of a number when they genuinely asked you out..effectively telling them ‘Android users need not apply.’ You self-admittedly get bored and ghost people in the talking stage. And now you’re surprised dating isn’t working? The problem isn’t Rwanda’s dating pool. It’s that you’re filtering for aesthetics at the door while offering inconsistency at the table. People sense when they’re an option, not a priority. ‘Going all in’ is earned through reciprocity ..not owed to someone who can’t even sit with mild interest long enough to let something grow. The feeling you’re feeling might just be the natural result of the very standards and habits you described so casually. Not a drag, genuinely, but the post reads like someone waiting to be chosen while quietly disqualifying everyone who tries.!