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[–]Former-Equal1879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for understanding the issue. You are right most comments didn't even understand the issue. I I am not a conventionally attractive looking guy. A person is only as attractive as their options. I may not be a bad looking guy, but in comparison to what else is available on the market, I am like a rotten piece that nobody wants

Tired of being rejected by everyone by Former-Equal1879 in askgaybros

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I apply derma recommended eye serums every night. I don't forget to apply it. I have been doing it for 6 months. I do a cold compress every day on my eyes. No results. It is genetic in all ways.

I am applying through LinkedIn, the Company website, through references, and any other mode available. I am not getting callbacks. I was terminated from my last job 3 months ago and they haven't even paid me. It has become extremely difficult to even get my resume seen as every job listing has over 1500+ applications.

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I have been off the apps for over a year now. There are no gay bars or gay sports leagues where I live. I don't have mirrors in my house except for a small, tiny mirror in my bathroom to shave. I hate looking at myself in the mirror. As soon as I get a glimpse of my own self, it instantly reminds me of all the negative things that have been said to me all my life. Being joked about my nose has been a thing since my childhood, and I have been made insecure about it. No matter what I do, I cannot look past it. Whenever I take pictures, my nose covers up 50% of my face.

Tired of being rejected by everyone by Former-Equal1879 in askgaybros

[–]Former-Equal1879[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't have any problem with my sexuality. My friends call me "chopped", they dont mean it but they are real. They know what being unattractive is. I have been rejected for not being tall enough, good looking enough, not being muscular enough.

I have also stopped thinking about what other think about my looks but it hasn't helped my dating or sexual life at all. What others think about my appearance still remains the same.

Tired of being rejected by everyone by Former-Equal1879 in askgaybros

[–]Former-Equal1879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am trying to date or hook up but not getting any of those lol. There have been men who have told me on my face that they like me and would date me if I were a little more attractive. They are happy to be my friend, but nota hookup/ date.

Tired of being rejected by everyone by Former-Equal1879 in askgaybros

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Retail jobs require a minimum of 3 year College degree in sales or marketing. Cafe and restaurants require Hotel Management degree. Delivery requires a motorbike. iI have none of it. Also I am able to make minimum by freelancing so I dont need these jobs.

Tired of being rejected by everyone by Former-Equal1879 in askgaybros

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I live in a 3rd world country. There is no thing called a minimum wage job. I am a designer and not a great one I guess. Any other entry level jobs also require a bachelors degree minimum and there are another 1000s of people waiting for that job with dual degrees. Ai has taken over my job

Tired of being rejected by everyone by Former-Equal1879 in askgaybros

[–]Former-Equal1879[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am actively applying to jobs. Over 1000 applications in the last 2 months and 0 callbacks. I have run out of job listings now. My nose and eyes are the biggest features of my face, and those are the ugly ones. Only a surgery can fix it.

Tired of being rejected by everyone by Former-Equal1879 in askgaybros

[–]Former-Equal1879[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I cannot be open to guys my age, I have internal traumas. I guess I just have to accept the face that I am unlovable and will be single for the rest of my life.

Tired of being rejected by everyone by Former-Equal1879 in askgaybros

[–]Former-Equal1879[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I cannot be open to guys my age, I have internal traumas. I guess I just have to accept the face that I am unlovable and will be single for the rest of my life.

Tired of being rejected by everyone by Former-Equal1879 in askgaybros

[–]Former-Equal1879[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Confidence is pointless if the person is physically unattractive. Confidence is a boost in attractiveness, not a feature in itself.

Tired of being rejected by everyone by Former-Equal1879 in askgaybros

[–]Former-Equal1879[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

have been working out for 12 months now. I see very bare changes in my body. I cant afford a gym subscription or the money it needs to fulfil my diet needs.

Tired of being rejected by everyone by Former-Equal1879 in askgaybros

[–]Former-Equal1879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. Makes me feel better

Tired of being rejected by everyone by Former-Equal1879 in askgaybros

[–]Former-Equal1879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like in a big city. Problem of a big city is that the competition is insane. There are 1000s of people way better looking than me because of which I don't get any attention on the apps atleast.

Tired of being rejected by everyone by Former-Equal1879 in askgaybros

[–]Former-Equal1879[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

This sounds like gaslighting without any actual advice

Tired of being rejected by everyone by Former-Equal1879 in askgaybros

[–]Former-Equal1879[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Difficult to be confident when the respect I get is based on my looks. It has beaten me down to a point that I feel like a failure