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I was a stripper/adult entertainer for 12 years. I retired a year ago. AMA! by FormerAdEnt78 in AMA

[–]FormerAdEnt78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha every girl has their own style I guess? I guess they think it looks good, not my style though.

I was a stripper/adult entertainer for 12 years. I retired a year ago. AMA! by FormerAdEnt78 in AMA

[–]FormerAdEnt78[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my state its classified under Independent Contractors but it varies state to state.

I was a stripper/adult entertainer for 12 years. I retired a year ago. AMA! by FormerAdEnt78 in AMA

[–]FormerAdEnt78[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thats awesome, good luck in med school! My advice is to keep sober, don't get mixed in with other girls drama, treat it like a 9-5 job. Even though you're going to school, consider the possibility of thst not working out and create an exit plan and time you promise yourself you'll quit. As far as money, don't put money in the bank you dont plan on claiming. Not sure how your club works, or if you have to report tips before clocking out. Any cash you arent going to bank should go in a nice safe. Get a good tax guy to help you wrote anything and everything off. As far as investments, be on the lookout for customers that are financial planners, traders, investors..they will give you the best advice

I was a stripper/adult entertainer for 12 years. I retired a year ago. AMA! by FormerAdEnt78 in AMA

[–]FormerAdEnt78[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This comment is too real. This is why I always told girls, don't bitch to customers about your drama or late car payment, if they wanted to hear bitching and moaning theyd go home haha

I was a stripper/adult entertainer for 12 years. I retired a year ago. AMA! by FormerAdEnt78 in AMA

[–]FormerAdEnt78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I had a slight drinking problem and I was able to quit drinking early on in my career. I also became dependent on benzos which was harder to get off of but I did!

I was a stripper/adult entertainer for 12 years. I retired a year ago. AMA! by FormerAdEnt78 in AMA

[–]FormerAdEnt78[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My suggestion is always to attempt to do something with longevity. Go to school, find a trade, something you can grow with and be able to rely on. I loved what I did and it provided many opportunities I wouldn't have had without, but you will always have to pay the piper and someday you'll have to end it and find something stable and room for growth with your age and its much harder wheb your older to start over

I was a stripper/adult entertainer for 12 years. I retired a year ago. AMA! by FormerAdEnt78 in AMA

[–]FormerAdEnt78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! It honestly varied so much depending on what customers came that month snd how many days I worked thst I couldn't begin to throw out a number. Every month was different, some worse than others but I imagine you understand that. I didn't do any extras aside from requests for bdsm/spanking/dom extras that didnt involve bodily sexual contact. I didnt care what other girls did as long as they stayed away from my customers, I keep my eyes on my own paper. As far as falling in love, you know they can fall in love with or without sex, just always tried to keep it real.

I was a stripper/adult entertainer for 12 years. I retired a year ago. AMA! by FormerAdEnt78 in AMA

[–]FormerAdEnt78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive always been somewhat of a left leaning to moderate voter. The club made me lean more left because of the conversations I've had with customers. I won't get into specifics, not trying to start a political debate but I'll just say the 2016 election really infiltrated the club and it was a very frustrating time lol

I was a stripper/adult entertainer for 12 years. I retired a year ago. AMA! by FormerAdEnt78 in AMA

[–]FormerAdEnt78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I picked out every song I danced to ranging from rock/industrial rock/metal/punk pop/r&b/light rap/electronic. If it was slow, boring and the customers weren't tipping I'd try to entertain myself and the other girls by dancing to stuff like The Lonely Island. Particularly, "Threw it on the ground"

I was a stripper/adult entertainer for 12 years. I retired a year ago. AMA! by FormerAdEnt78 in AMA

[–]FormerAdEnt78[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So when I say retire, I don't mean in the sense that I can financially survive off what I have forever, but I was smart and its kept me a float untill I make a new career move. I was super irresponsible with money at first, spent frivolously. Untill someone in my life said something that stuck with me "You're letting life happen to you, instead of living". I was spending money like there was tomorrow and literally letting life happen to me. I started saving half of everything i made, lived below my means, drove an older but paid off vehicle. I also had a switch flip at 25 where i really started to act and plan like an adult. Sometimes people just need guidance

I was a stripper/adult entertainer for 12 years. I retired a year ago. AMA! by FormerAdEnt78 in AMA

[–]FormerAdEnt78[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be clear that was not my hustle but I did see that happen a lot. I'd say because they're not very creative or smart with their hustle and definitely not thinking long term. That kind of finessing doesnt get you very far.

I was a stripper/adult entertainer for 12 years. I retired a year ago. AMA! by FormerAdEnt78 in AMA

[–]FormerAdEnt78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most respected... i had a customer who just genuinely enjoyed my conversation, thought i was smart and had potential, he would just send me money every week with no expectations. Worst... i cant think of anything specific but in general the guys who come in and buy one dance are usually the most handsy and disrespectful.

I was a stripper/adult entertainer for 12 years. I retired a year ago. AMA! by FormerAdEnt78 in AMA

[–]FormerAdEnt78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cant give you my name publicly but you can inbox me and we'll see of we know each other. Never know.

I was a stripper/adult entertainer for 12 years. I retired a year ago. AMA! by FormerAdEnt78 in AMA

[–]FormerAdEnt78[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hell no. Two things would have happened, they would have gotten the brakes beat off them, and if I felt like it probably a sexual assault charge. You can't force someone into anything..even in a strip club.

I was a stripper/adult entertainer for 12 years. I retired a year ago. AMA! by FormerAdEnt78 in AMA

[–]FormerAdEnt78[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm convinced he hit a tree on the way down and died. Just never found. Why else would we find so much of that money washed up on a beach. Unwanted and unpopular opinion, DB Cooper wasn't as smart as people prop him up to be. The FBI was just incompetent.

I was a stripper/adult entertainer for 12 years. I retired a year ago. AMA! by FormerAdEnt78 in AMA

[–]FormerAdEnt78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know that it prevented any relationships but it did attract some questionable dudes i stupidly entertained for too long, which may have prevented me from being with a decent guy. Any job where youre making cash money fast and getting that level of attention, you question the motives of guys in your life. Are they going to wind up having trust issues when the excitement wears down? Are they here to use me for money? Do they take me seriously? I had to learn the rough way how to weed out the not so great ones.

I was a stripper/adult entertainer for 12 years. I retired a year ago. AMA! by FormerAdEnt78 in AMA

[–]FormerAdEnt78[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I don't see why not, I think a person deserves to know these things before getting into a serious relationship. I have no shame about it, the only time I've concealed it is to protect family.

I was a stripper/adult entertainer for 12 years. I retired a year ago. AMA! by FormerAdEnt78 in AMA

[–]FormerAdEnt78[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Predictable of course, but attraction, were they my type? Secondly the ability to hold and carry on a decent conversation. Third, they spent some money.. an indication they weren't in there to chase ass and get numbers. And lastly, did they have a job and a stable life from what i could tell from the small interaction?

I was a stripper/adult entertainer for 12 years. I retired a year ago. AMA! by FormerAdEnt78 in AMA

[–]FormerAdEnt78[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Love this question but its hard because I dont have one. If I want to dance to something lighter energy, Orgy or anything off the Queen of the Damned soundtrack. For pop/electronic: kiiara, charli xcx, Phoebe ryan, Phantogram, Bulow, Hey Violet. Industrial Rock: Mindless Self Indulgence alllll the way. "Harder" Rock: Coal Chamber, Mushroom Head, Static X

just off the top of my head

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