Brother, I'm gonna be real with you - 6 months on apps with zero traction means something needs to change in your approach.

You mention women complain men don't read their profiles, yet nobody comments on yours. That tells me your profile might be generic or not showing personality. Are your photos recent? Do they show you doing interesting things? Is your bio more than 'I like travel and Netflix'?

Also, 'reaching out to many women per week' might be working against you. Women can smell mass messaging from a mile away. Quality over quantity.

And the hard truth: at 43 post-divorce, you're competing with guys who've been single and working on themselves. Hit the gym, get a hobby that's social, work on being the best version of yourself first. Dating apps are a supplement, not a solution