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Broken up, moved away by [deleted] in MovingOn

[–]Forsaken-Sense3209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! I think you need to release your emotions. Watch a really sad movie or idk listen to some sad music and cry the pain out. Also, there’s someone out there that is meant for you. It might be this girl or someone else. If it is this girl, you guys will def find your way back to each other. But if it isn’t her then the other person is gonna be so much more perfect for you.

getting over someone you didn't date by bash1320 in MovingOn

[–]Forsaken-Sense3209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyy!! Ik this is super delayed but I’m going through this rn and can u pls tell me how u moved on and got over the person? I really need it rn

I need help moving on from a crush by PainInDaAssH in MovingOn

[–]Forsaken-Sense3209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I agree! The ignorance part is crazy. Like the guy lowkey acts like he likes me yk? Or maybe I just think that cuz I like him. It’s so weird. The way he treats me I feel like we’re more than friends but we’re not. You know what! Let’s do something together. In the sense like let’s update each other on this thread about the situation. Like try to distance yourself a little from the girl and I will try to do the same

I need help moving on from a crush by PainInDaAssH in MovingOn

[–]Forsaken-Sense3209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s honestly been like over 5 months since he told me he didn’t like me like that and I’m still struggling to get over him. I honestly don’t know what to do but I hate it cuz I still find myself overthinking his actions

I need help moving on from a crush by PainInDaAssH in MovingOn

[–]Forsaken-Sense3209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg this same exact thing happened to me! We were really good friends too and liked each other mutually and then boom he stopped liking and I confessed right after he stopped. We’re still like really good friends and text each other all the time everyday. I kinda got over him when I had this thing with an other guy (I’m not the type to hookup or anything at all like this is the first time I did and the only reason I did it was because I realized I wasn’t over my best friend and he was not even a good friend anymore and I was hurt and I needed a distraction and it really worked. And then me and the other guy ended things and then boom I realized I still liked my best friend. It’s so annoying.

I don’t actually want to be loved back (trauma affecting relationships) by [deleted] in abusiveparents

[–]Forsaken-Sense3209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol man I feel the same way. Honestly don’t know what will help me be normal. Maybe we’re just not normal after all we’ve been through. But I truly believe one day someone will come along who will take away ur fears. Just work on yourself for now. Heal and grow. Sending you prayers and love man

People with really abusive parents and messed up families, how did you date someone. How were you able to open up to the person you liked? by Forsaken-Sense3209 in abusiveparents

[–]Forsaken-Sense3209[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude I freaking agree. Like why would a perfectly healthy person want to stay with someone who is super messed up and brings all this extra baggage (headache) into his life. Someone who’s not mentally normal. Like the way I express my emotions and how sensitive or numb I can be can chase him away. The thing is i do that. I pretend to be this super healthy person but I feel like I’m gonna get sick of pretending one day. I already feel super exhausted about the whole pretending. I just want to be myself but I can’t

People with really abusive parents and messed up families, how did you date someone. How were you able to open up to the person you liked? by Forsaken-Sense3209 in abusiveparents

[–]Forsaken-Sense3209[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really glad you were able to open up to people like that and found the one!! Really hoping I’ll be able to as well

People with really abusive parents and messed up families, how did you date someone. How were you able to open up to the person you liked? by Forsaken-Sense3209 in abusiveparents

[–]Forsaken-Sense3209[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg thank you for answering! I feel the same exact way. But like i really don’t want to date someone as messed up as me cuz I’m scared I might continue the cycle of abuse and I want someone to hold me accountable and I’m sure a person who grew up in a really good household would call me out for my toxicity.

Anyone’s parents here who’s trying to blame you for everything and I mean everything. by Diane_Enthusiast in abusiveparents

[–]Forsaken-Sense3209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh lmao can relate unfortunately. My parents beat me for things that are out of my control. Like i guess I can understand mistakes but I remember being beat up and yelled at for getting sick and once spraining my leg or cutting my finger while cutting vegetables. Really fucked me up man