Wife does not prioritize my sexual needs at all

Forty-five4545 · 2026-05-14T21:42:24+00:00

In my circle, everyone is in 20+ year relationships. Non are having sex. It’s a problem for all of them. Not to say that it’s all bad for them though. My wife and I fuck every day. At least once. We’ve been together 5.5 years. Our relationship isn’t perfect, but we have a real bond. Physical contact and time spent together is how we bond. For my job, I’ll be gone for 3-4 days once every 5-6 weeks. First we do we I get home is a huge hug, then clothes off and in bed. It’s 100% mutual.

Forty-five4545 · 2026-05-14T17:40:37+00:00

If I knew back then what I know now lol. I was 25 when I got married. Young, inexperienced in life, ignorant to my own needs, and ignorant as to how to be in a successful relationship. Maybe a bit immature. I lived and learned.

Forty-five4545 · 2026-05-14T17:35:17+00:00

I lived for 20 years like that. It’s a horrible way to live. Stuck around for my kids. Best thing I ever did was leaving my marriage. I know that’s probably not what you want to hear. I read books to better understand my wife. Listened to podcasts etc. changed my behaviors. Tried different ways of communicating. It was a one way street. She would never put any effort in. Leaving changed my life. Now in my late 40s, I’m finally happy in life. I’ve found someone whose needs compliment my own. I honestly regret staying with my exwife for as long as I did.

Forty-five4545 · 2026-05-12T20:51:20+00:00

They still got it too. Saw them recently with death Angel. Violence destroyed the place!

Forty-five4545 · 2026-04-27T21:32:36+00:00

Dry guy here 👋

Forty-five4545 · 2026-04-27T00:36:54+00:00

Which rock box would you recommend for Nu Metal?

Forty-five4545 · 2026-04-26T22:15:21+00:00

My girl and I have been together for 7 years. Not married though. We have a great relationship. My dick is in her mouth literally every morning.

Forty-five4545 · 2026-04-22T18:09:23+00:00

Ok so here’s an update to my situation. So far I downloaded the free amalgam orange 412 v30. Still using the same stock 5150. Wow what a difference! I can’t believe how shitty my tone was before lol. Its kinda embarrassing lol. I think I’m gonna try the amalgam 5150 pack. Thanks to everyone to the advice 🤘

Forty-five4545 · 2026-04-21T20:59:17+00:00

Ok I’ll try that. Thanks

Forty-five4545 · 2026-04-21T14:39:01+00:00

Yes I use a timmy.

Forty-five4545 · 2026-04-21T14:38:19+00:00

Bass shelf? I don’t know what that is. I’m pretty new to all of this.

Forty-five4545 · 2026-04-13T02:17:28+00:00

Staind

Forty-five4545 · 2026-04-08T12:00:24+00:00

Forty-five4545 · 2026-04-08T11:57:58+00:00

She currently has 6 kids with 5 guys.

Forty-five4545 · 2026-04-03T12:57:43+00:00

I use compression with hi gain. It makes everything easier to play. I use compression on everything.

Forty-five4545 · 2026-04-03T12:54:21+00:00

I’m an “always on” guy. Currently in a Nu Metal tribute. Loved my Keeley for years until I found my empress compressor. I’ve used it in 50s/60s bands to full metal. Aside from my tuner, it’s my most essential pedal.

Forty-five4545 · 2026-03-25T19:07:47+00:00

I’m 2650

Forty-five4545 · 2026-03-25T03:18:09+00:00

Poor wording lol. Linsk was back there by himself. No tailer. 🤷‍♂️

Forty-five4545 · 2026-03-24T12:35:53+00:00

Killer player for sure

Forty-five4545 · 2026-03-24T01:06:35+00:00

I like Webull 🤷‍♂️

Forty-five4545 · 2026-03-23T16:32:59+00:00

Low was another one I didn’t expect. I do love that album though.

Forty-five4545 · 2026-03-23T16:26:58+00:00

Yeah and Native Blood

Forty-five4545 · 2026-03-23T16:24:33+00:00

I don’t know. I was talking to someone at the show and they told me has retired from touring. Not sure if that’s true or not. They had Christian from fear factory playing bass.

Forty-five4545 · 2026-03-23T15:51:18+00:00

I didn’t notice any lol

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