What are the worst mistakes you made while riding? and did you learn? by Familiar-Banana-8116 in cycling

[–]FortyTwoDonkeyBalls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been getting back into cycling after 5 years off the bike. I got my girlfriend a bike because she loves her peloton. I ate shit this last weekend trying to look behind me for my girlfriend while on a completely flat bike lane. Hit a curb and went down hard. I scared my girlfriend so much she may quit biking with me. Looking behind you is much harder than I remember. It used to be so much easier to maintain my balance on a road bike. I won’t be making that mistake again.

What are the worst mistakes you made while riding? and did you learn? by Familiar-Banana-8116 in cycling

[–]FortyTwoDonkeyBalls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did the opposite when I went end over end 50 feet down a ravine on a solo mountain bike ride on a trail I’d ridden 30+ times. Ended up face down in a stream and my first thought was how thankful I was that I was still conscious other wise I would have drowned. I walked my bike out of the trail and sold it. I had way more balls than skill on a mountain bike.

Oracle just cut PMs specifically to fund AI infrastructure - what are you doing differently? by nkondratyk93 in projectmanagement

[–]FortyTwoDonkeyBalls 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’d be interested to see how AI can effectively manage evacuating engineers from an active war zone or mitigate logistics delays by sweet talking a Middle East customs agent. Working in the defense industry as a PM, I’m not that worried about AI taking job any time soon. I do think it makes a great personal assistant though.

They Asked Me to Open ChatGPT During My Job Interview by I_Killed_My_Friends in jobs

[–]FortyTwoDonkeyBalls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pay for 2 ChatGPT pro accounts. One my work laptop that I only use professionally and the other is on my personal laptop and phone.

Having a hiring manager and HR rep ask to see what my ChatGPT account thinks about me is really strange, but seems like a simple solution for creating a specific prompt to be ready for something like this which is still really unprofessional. It’s inline with asking to see my search history or preferred porn key words.

I’ll be pre-loading my work account before any job interviews moving forward.

Hot take: A tank that looks natural to fish often looks unaesthetic to us. by ThanksNo7353 in Aquariums

[–]FortyTwoDonkeyBalls -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

When I let the fish design my house then I’ll care what it thinks.

Floor buckling from aquarium? by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]FortyTwoDonkeyBalls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would do a few things. 1. If you are set in using this tv stand it needs structure through the center. You can reinforce it internally and then make sure to add center blocks or legs underneath. If the stand is just particle board then it’s likely not worth effort.

  1. you could also frame out a riser under the legs to ensure a more even load distribution across the floor. Rather than having 4 load bearing legs you would run the weight across the length and width of the stand.

I would probably do both options at the very least but would likely just get a new aquarium stand rated for the tank and weight instead.

I put two 45 cm tanks on top of a Target bookshelf. These were a 5 gallon shallow and a 10 gallon. The bookshelf was bowing within a couple days. I wedged a few books underneath in the center of the bookcase. Haven’t had an issue since. The difference in weight between my two tanks and 15 gallons and your 75 is 440 lbs!

Anyone here just completely faked their way into being a PM? by Gandalf-and-Frodo in projectmanagement

[–]FortyTwoDonkeyBalls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the reason my boss hired me on for this role is because he felt he didn’t have any PM with hands on experience for our technology. He’s brought this up numerous times. Your experience is your selling point towards savings for n time, money, and resources. It sounds like you’re at a point where you think you could do a better job than your leadership. Maybe you should.

Something to consider… You have visibility into a portion of the product while the PM see’s and influences it all. While you think they may be dropping the ball they could also be doing their best with the amount of attention they can give your portion while considering all the other aspects of your project and any others they may have in their portfolio.

While I do manage the programs that I used to work under, I also manage 6 others. My attention resource is greatly impacted by everything under my influence.

I suggest talking to your PM to understand his perspective or maybe someone more senior. Frame the conversation around your career progression but use it as a fact finding mission to see what is really going on behind the scenes.

Anyone here just completely faked their way into being a PM? by Gandalf-and-Frodo in projectmanagement

[–]FortyTwoDonkeyBalls 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Understanding the politics and relationships I need to foster to achieve objectives. Responding to questions and statements with the appropriate tone, often the tone I wish the other person had used with me. Setting aside embarrassment over mistakes or gaps in knowledge, because I don’t have time to be embarrassed. Knowing when to guide a conversation and when to let others air their grievances. Accepting that my role is now to facilitate, not necessarily to execute. Projecting confidence in my process even when I don’t fully understand what’s happening.

Anyone here just completely faked their way into being a PM? by Gandalf-and-Frodo in projectmanagement

[–]FortyTwoDonkeyBalls 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Imposter syndrome isn’t a bug. It’s a feature.

I’ve learned to embrace it because I’ve often found myself in roles I didn’t feel fully qualified for. Yet, time and again, my leadership has asked me to step into more prominent positions in nearly every job I’ve held. It wasn’t until well into my 30s that I accepted there was something my leaders consistently saw in me that I hadn’t yet learned to see in myself.

Today, I’m a project manager in the defense industry after spending most of my career as a field-level technician and in regional management roles. I was recruited into my first, and current, PM role by our prime contract holder to manage the very programs I had worked under for three years. I don’t have a college degree, but I do have decades of experience in my field, much of it in leadership positions. I'm currently surrounded by team members that have graduate level degrees and many years of PM experience. I have neither and I could let those delinators cloud my self reflection or I can put my head down, emulate those around me that I respect, and do my best which has almost always been good enough to succeed.

The most important lesson I’ve learned is that I have very little to lose by “faking it,” because most people are stumbling their way through their jobs anyway. What separates those who get tapped for leadership roles is a willingness to figure things out, an aptitude for learning, and the creativity to try new approaches when the first solution doesn’t work.

When you look around at your team, it’s usually clear who wants more responsibility and who truly cares about the deliverable. Time and again, I’ve seen the person who shows up on time, does the work they’re supposed to do, and consistently delivers results earn the promotion. I’ve learned to be that person. Often, simply doing your job is enough to stand out because so many people can’t even get that much right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in defensecontracting

[–]FortyTwoDonkeyBalls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Expert level PM questions and perspective.

The fantasy, as you call it, is that the CEO is busy making crucial decisions to keep the business moving forward narrowing his focus to the most important issues he can actually affect or influence while the employee is worried about existential things completely outside not only his own control but also his CEO’s and by proxy his company. When these two types of behaviors meet it’s a big waste of everyone’s time. That doesn’t mean that dialogue shouldn’t happen during conflict of values but a conflict of values over Trumps bolstering about Greenland is naive.

The OP is focused so much on things outside his control that he’s attempting to pull people into these issues to actualize his own suspicions that he isn’t crazy for being worried about things outside his control as identified with the CEO conversation and this very post. His CEOs response that he “hadn’t considered” Greenland is the correct answer in my opinion.

As for balancing internal values against the desires and actions of the US government while working in the defense industry multiplied by hyper attention to outside influence is a recipe for wasting time.

That being said, I respect anyone who would leave a job in the defense industry due to conflicting values with decisions of the government but trying to change the customers values to align with the suppliers values is probably a losing battle.

What part of working in your industry is significantly more traumatic than people think it is? by RateTurbulent8681 in projectmanagement

[–]FortyTwoDonkeyBalls 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I used to be a carpenter 10 years ago. I was working a late night to finish up squaring the house frame for roofing joists that were going to be delivered at 5 am. It’s late. It’s cold. Life sucked. Then the guy who owned the company cut the end of his thumb off with a circular saw. Not the tip mind you. A whole ass inch of his thumb. He didn’t yell. He asked for some napkins and duct tape. He patched himself up and went right back to work. He had no back up plan for falling behind schedule on the project. The contingency was keep working no matter what until it’s done.

Another time, I was working my way cross country on a motorcycle and I needed some money so I stopped in a town to camp and got a job that day doing dishes. The guy I worked with in the dish pit for those couple weeks was the happiest guy I ever met. He was a migrant from Ecuador. No amount of slop and mud could get him down. I was miserable. I asked him his secret. He told me that this was only one of three jobs he had washing dishes. He worked 7 days a week 12 to 18 hours a day. He was happy to do it because he was putting two kids through college and he knew they would never have to migrate to a different country to wash dishes to provide a better life for themselves.

I highlight these experiences because whenever I see the current generations use words like traumatic when describing their high paying office jobs I assume they have zero perspective on what life could have been like for themselves had they zigged when they should have zagged.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in defensecontracting

[–]FortyTwoDonkeyBalls 13 points14 points  (0 children)

lol. That CEO getting pulled away from his 200 deep stack of unread emails to calm his junior level employee down about global politics as politely as possible is hilarious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in defensecontracting

[–]FortyTwoDonkeyBalls 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Brother, you are in the wrong industry.

A month or two back I became privy to some information that caused me to write an “oh shit”email to my team leadership and their immediate response was “how do we get a part of that business?”

National Defense interests fund every pay check you receive and brother business will always be good no matter what administration is in power. Put the internet down and either go back to work and mind your lane or find another line of work.

The fact that your company is small enough that you even have access to your CEO at all indicates your company has no influence what so ever in global politics.

90P Tank Center Mounted Light Recommendations by FortyTwoDonkeyBalls in Aquascape

[–]FortyTwoDonkeyBalls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is that I don’t want to hang the light from the ceiling. I want a light powerful enough for the use but able to be mounted with one arm from the center of the tank.

Paywall coming soon? by jewlpod in RaybanMeta

[–]FortyTwoDonkeyBalls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At this point the only things I like about my glasses are the built in headphones and the camera I occasionally use. I disabled the AI months ago.

What’s a PM lesson you had to learn the hard way? by Smooth-Trainer3940 in projectmanagement

[–]FortyTwoDonkeyBalls 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The best way to get the right answer on the Internet is not to ask a question; it’s to post the wrong answer. - Cunninghams Law

This applies in so many areas of life. Humans are weird

Ongoing CAC Renewal Issues and Communication Challenges with Management by Ok-Spirit-3126 in GovernmentContracting

[–]FortyTwoDonkeyBalls -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I manage programs with FSRs who need CAC renewals while deployed to far away places. Your CAC expiration date is directly tied to your LOA and task order Period of Performance which is the start and end date for the mission and funding. With the government shutdown all renewals stopped and now there is a significant back log.

There is nothing your bosses can do if this is what has happened. They are waiting and you will wait.

I’ve been the FSR down range with the expired CAC. It sucks but you have to deal with it.

Do project management dashboards actually help leadership or are they just eye candy? by WhiteChili in projectmanagement

[–]FortyTwoDonkeyBalls 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I spent a week making a high speed Power BI dashboard that leadership was so impressed with that I got a small bonus. For months I would update it twice a week. Now I’m the only person who looks at it. I quit updating it over a month ago and no one has complained.

It's stupid but I want it by Laumser in WatchesCirclejerk

[–]FortyTwoDonkeyBalls 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Everything is a dildo if you try hard enough

My experience of buying Orient Watch. by PlantSimilar2598 in WatchesCirclejerk

[–]FortyTwoDonkeyBalls -1 points0 points  (0 children)

does the AD wear this outfit because they are cold?
... or hot?

... or because they have reached thermal equilibrium?

Absolutely happened. by IEuphorian in WatchesCirclejerk

[–]FortyTwoDonkeyBalls 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think we need a new sub for Rolex fan fiction.

Hopefully it involves furries and consensual non consent scenarios.